Dirt poor or filthy rich man: They all respond the same way to a beautiful girl. They can't resist.

 DESIRE their company. To be around the female that is attractive.

They have different methods of trying to get in her pants.

Some guys are bold, direct, to the point. 

Some skip all the niceties and go straight for the goods like Ted Bundy or similar psychopaths. They don't want to have to work for any attention.

Some take their time being friends first. Acting respectful and polite.

Some act shy but inside they are wolves just waiting to attack.

Some are very controlling and want to own her. Trap her. 

I have been around a long time and worked at lots of jobs, been to many places.

At some jobs my presence made some of these men act like total jerks and weirdos. I did nothing to make them think I was attracted to them at all. I dressed business like, conservative. I dressed like a man wearing mens overalls, flannel shirts, baseball caps, large plain t shirts, painters pants, mens work boots. I wore no makeup. I used to do work like a man. This drove some of them insane and they acted like pure idiots. It made it difficult for me to work, having to deal with these goofy acting fools who tried to get attention by saying stupid things and cracking stupid mostly sex jokes at me.

EPIPHANY REALIZATION: LIVING WITH MOTLEY FOOLS FOR YEARS

 And I have been a fool for not realizing what I was dealing with.

Common mistake amongst people: Thinking that other people are just like me in the way they think, feel, react and understand.  WRONG

One of the most difficult challenges in life is to deal with a stupid person. I can't always predict exactly what they are going to do. All i know is that is will be something stupid. 

You cannot argue with a fool. They will never understand what is being said.

all they do is laugh in your face and treat more like shit for sticking around them and trying to explain yourself.

A FOOL CHASES. The Court Jester. MOTLEY Fool

A fool begs, pleads, demands. He/she runs after things and ulitmately chases them away. They brag upon themselves and put others down.

The fool chases after these things:

 Money

Sex

Relationships

Attention

Material things

the jester

https://www.jesterplanet.com/the-court-jester/appearance/clothing/

definition of a fool: one who is silly, not serious, stupid, jester, clown, asks stupid questions, says bull sh**t that doesn't make sense and doesn't need to be said, lacks good sense of judgment. 
Add to this: one who incessantly repeats stupid statements as if they are a broken record, a parrot.

gullible. easily deceived. dresses in wild looking unmatched clothes. goofy looking face. can't be serious. makes fun of others when it is they that are funny looking, silly and stupid acting. 

spends money on frivolous things, bad food like sweets, candy, fast food junk.

wont listen to any words of wisdom. 

Cannot think for themselves. Relies on other peoples opinions in order to decide. Makes other people look like a fool, an idiot. Mocks, criticizes, ridicules, condemns and believes this will make them look better, smarter and more intelligent. Relies on status quo.

I see I am the direct opposite of this definition.  I am a serious person. No jokes, joking about things. I don't make fun of others to try to make myself look better. I don't laugh when seeing others get hurt.

Independence. Confidence. Solitude. ME. INVEST IN MYSELF

 I exist. I live. 

I do not need the approval, validation or permission from anyone else to be myself.

I think. I feel. ON MY OWN.

Men only do what they want to do

 I've known countless males during my life. Hundreds. Thousands. 

I have been married three times. Had many relationships with men I have known, have lived with. 

I have known lots of men I that I have only talked to. 

I've talked to many women, read many books, have seen lots of movies and television shows. 

Men do what they want to do.  Women often do what the men want them to do. Whatever hobby, sport, type of work the man does, food he likes to eat or any other activity he likes she often goes along with and might pretend to like it.  It's a way to spend time with him. Otherwise he will spend his time doing what he wants to do without her. 

He is not going to go out of his way to do things I/she likes. In the beginning, the courtship phase, he might do some things she likes. After the relationship is established he quits doing those things. 

I used to do things with him that he likes. The last few years I have quit doing a lot of things I don't like. 

We live alone together. We do many things separately. When we go somewhere together it usually ends of a nightmare for me. 

He refuses to participate in any activity he is uncomfortable with. Why should I endure the misery of doing things that make me feel bad just to try to please him? Not much of anything I do pleases him, anyway. 

Control

 Big Q

The question.

Does he/she I or you want a person they can completely control?

Or do they want someone they can't control?

Do they want both? The one who seems to be controlled and is also wild and uncontrollable?

I cry so much remembering when my kids were little babies and children

 my kids and grandchildren

so honest cute direct pure loving onery curious active slept good ..fun loving natural ..until society got a hold of them ruining their innocence and natural drive

they grow into adult bodies changing morphing into other beings

and to think that at the time i almost couldnt wait for them to get into school. grow up .. so i could go to work get a job earn money..what a hoax this world is based on money alone to live when living is giving and sharing time together...

they all moved away 

i miss my kids