Showing posts with label lfm. Show all posts
Showing posts with label lfm. Show all posts

Thursday, December 25, 2025

He and others have to have

 constant outside focus on something like audio radio video tv internet physical activity

loud mouth news or sports people 

loud music of various genres

control

listen to crap and watch stuff so they dont have to sit with their thoughts and think

games played like chess 

never meditate, be introspective

never candle gaze or look at beauty of nature like a butterfly 

dislike reading a book

would rather look at fast moving  pictures

these guys must have constant aggravating competitive stimulus and they do not listen to their wives do not like peace calmness relaxation originating from within themselves

they have short fuses blow up quickly lose their temper over little things like other drivers spilt water or any substance

they cuss curse god alot at every opportunity

stare profusely at naked or partially nude women or faces of pretty cute females girls

must have dessert immediately at the end of a meal

eat too fast or eat while working or walking

think sex is just a form of exercise

leave mess after eating

ignore laundry

let trash stack up

keep tabs on me and what others are doing

think big things are what counts most

do not keep me informed ongoing basis instead toss things at me last minute

shoot orders

hate artistic minds like mine

detest poetry cant understand it

make secret phone calls and texts

praise each others prowess work

demoralize women








say i am mad pissed off that just burns my ass i ought to knock you on your ass i should bust you now in the face. you are lazy for relaxing reclining when you eat. you are worthless good for nothing stupid dont deserve anything

say shut the f up get outta my face





Thursday, September 18, 2025

he does not want to

 do things for others. 

will do things for money. self satisfaction gratification, physical pleasures like eating, sex

clean his room

do laundry, deep clean house

cook or make prepare own food or cook for others

raise children

relate to others

empathize

(will work hard or long hours for material gain, to boost ego, own material things)

seek spirituality understanding

do something for someone else for free

self analyze, reflect

respect, appreciate his mother

enjoy simple things

admit his mistakes. shortcomings

follow rules. laws guidelines 

go to the doctor






Saturday, November 2, 2024

Those who expect me to be available at the drop of a hat...

 and cater to their whims of the moment

they don't give me much notice or no notice about anything

expect me to do what they want and be available instantly yet they will drag on and on when i want them to do something and will come up with any excuse in the world to avoid doing what i like or want or need

they refuse to do things with me that i like

scream at me stuff like fix me something to eat!  clean it up!

say stuff like it's no big deal, i dont care what you think or what you want, that is stupid, what are you, a moron? 


Thursday, October 3, 2024

Junk Man

 Wanders around getting supply for his all of his needs from many sources, mostly from people

Ignores, abuses wife girlfriend partner spouse

He invalidates minimizes woman frequently saying invalidating comments such as: 
 "It is no big deal" "I don't understand", "What do you expect/want from me?!", "I don't care what you want. This is what I want." "It's my way or the highway", "I don't have to put up with your shit", "What do you expect me to do, treat you like a queen?", "You have no common sense",  

He talks in a condescending manner about most people and is the worst with his partner

Is not affectionate at home or in public

Will not hug kiss or embrace his woman in front of anyone else

He rarely if ever compliments his wife

He eyeballs and stares at other females when with his wife. Totally rude.

He has an obvious wandering eye wherever he goes. He cranks his head to see people when he is driving and in any store, place or environment he happens to be in

He flirts with the waitress either visually or orally talking saying words even in front of his spouse

He can become suspiciously quiet in the presence of others he is attracted to in an attempt to appear cool and nonchalant as if he is a true gentleman

He expects wife to be a workhorse slave then gives her no credit for her work, duties, help, intelligence, accomplishments, beauty, success, purpose, life

Resentful and reluctant to do anything for wife. He acts like its a chore. He is hateful and dreads having to do anything for his mate

Will bend over backwards for anyone else

Often lives with mommy and daddy as long as possible sometimes for his entire life

Has no urge to move out on his own when typical teenager desires to get a place of their own as soon as possible

Does not want children or any responsibility for them

He maximizes his importance regarding his duties, work, interests, hobbies, ideas, thoughts, needs, wants, desires

He blocks spouse from formal education unless she already obtained a diploma or college degree before he met her. If she already has a professional education he downgrades her accomplishments and intelligence, her abilities and dreams and aspirations

He takes credit for anything he deems positive in life and blames partner for anything that goes wrong

He prides himself on how smart and clever he thinks he is

He calls most people stupid, thieves, robbers, burglars

He says most people will take whatever they can get and do anything they think they can get by with. Anything, regardless of laws.

Laws don't apply to him

He is a showoff and hates people that brag

He likes to keep things a complicated mess 

He imagines he is in control of all people and things around him

Cleanliness, order, accounting and efficiency upset and appall him

He glues his face into the tv, the media, his object of interest at the time and often states how amazing some people are when they do bizarre things that they began practicing since they were children

He cant understand how or why some people are wealthy for "doing nothing" 

He is easily awestruck by performers in the entertainment industry

He is never in awe about his mate surviving all of his abuse

He is getting filthy dirty often. Some take a shower. Some don't.

His body odor doesnt bother him much. Other peoples odors usually do. He wont do anything about it unless people he is trying to impress someone and they complain about how much he stinks

He grabs and eats food that is not his. He will not wait for the entire meal to be served for him or anyone else. He freely takes over another persons refrigerator, cabinets, pantry, shelves, counters or the like. He acts like an unruly savage.

He will not consider the safety of others. He strews things about and does not care if someone else could trip fall hurt themselves. These types often hate night lights, motion sensors or adequate proper lighting that remains on. 

He often lives in junk hoarding piles of accumulated stuff sometimes trash

Waits till the last minute to get rid of garbage

Uses things and people up until they are worn out exhausted dead

Seems to be unaware of how obnoxious he is

Proud of himself when he takes advantage of some stupid naive sucker fool.

He spits about wherever he happens to be. If he uses snuff snus chew chewing tobacco he spits it anywhere disregarding the fact that someone else might step in it. 

He sneezes out loud without covering his face.

He belches loud, farts passes gas and makes other noises without so much as a glimpse of a polite apology

He refuses to open or unlock a door for people especially his wife

He often has a limited vocabulary. Some of them use cuss/curse words often.

He is a hypocrite. What is good for him is not good for his wife, family or other people

He refuses to get dressed up in nice clothes. He prefers to wear the same old things daily, usually blue jeans, the same type of shirts and shoes daily. 

He expects his partner to look good only for him.

He expects to her to smile and be in a good mood regardless of the abuse, insulting comments, threats and negligence he tosses out to her daily if not hourly


Prefers fast food and portioned out items already cooked and prepared by someone else. Something easy to eat without having to think about it.  Instant premade processed food is most desired . Shopping getting all ingredients cooking homemade food is too hard takes too much time and besides cooking and being a cook is considered a lowly worthless mundane job which he feels he is too good and superior to do. 

He watches like a hawk what other people do, judging, rating, grading, criticizing, counting every bite of food they eat, how they look, how they are dressed, what they are doing, how they smell,  how much money they cost him, how much of his precious time they wasted.

Stingy with time, attention, money and things










Thursday, August 22, 2024

Sunday, August 11, 2024

Thursday, May 23, 2024

Immediate gratification people

 John layson wanted immediate gratification. 

He is just one of some people i know who expect instant results and satisfaction.

Fast food, sex, porn is perfect, material things.

Responses from others. Answers. Driving. Money. Cash preferred. Cant wait.

Quick fix. Sugar. Pills. Ointments for pain.

Tv. Videos. Movies. Music. Internet.

Lived in the media majority of time. 

Few friends associates

Never married. No children.

He thought cleaning was a waste of time and money.

Wouldnt take a shower or brush his teeth very often.

Used earphones in his ears, over the ear headphones

Constantly listening to music watching videos 

Hoarder hoarding disorder

Paranoia bipolar diagnosed with

Freaked out if anything was moved, cleaned, reorganized by anyone but him

Ate all day long. Candy snacks desserts breads rye wheat 

Ate food any kind while working

Sugar addict. Any sweetened artificial or natural. Flavored artificial candy coffee tea soda

Had to drink diet soda with each meal

Expensive beers brew 

Political science major in college st louis missouri

Argumentative

Demanding

He pointed out things he had during conversation. When paul anderson visited from south dakota john would steer the conversation to some item he had and showed me instead of being attentive to paul talking



Nothing wrong with me. Just not his ideal match. He likes blondes with big tits. But has not admitted it to me.

 All his previous girlfriends were blondes, light colored hair.  All of his sisters bleached their hair a light color blonde with a little b...