begins first thing in morning
sees food grabs eats it
begins first thing in morning
sees food grabs eats it
constant outside focus on something like audio radio video tv internet physical activity
loud mouth news or sports people
loud music of various genres
control
listen to crap and watch stuff so they dont have to sit with their thoughts and think
games played like chess
never meditate, be introspective
never candle gaze or look at beauty of nature like a butterfly
dislike reading a book
would rather look at fast moving pictures
these guys must have constant aggravating competitive stimulus and they do not listen to their wives do not like peace calmness relaxation originating from within themselves
they have short fuses blow up quickly lose their temper over little things like other drivers spilt water or any substance
they cuss curse god alot at every opportunity
stare profusely at naked or partially nude women or faces of pretty cute females girls
must have dessert immediately at the end of a meal
eat too fast or eat while working or walking
think sex is just a form of exercise
leave mess after eating
ignore laundry
let trash stack up
keep tabs on me and what others are doing
think big things are what counts most
do not keep me informed ongoing basis instead toss things at me last minute
shoot orders
hate artistic minds like mine
detest poetry cant understand it
make secret phone calls and texts
praise each others prowess work
demoralize women
say i am mad pissed off that just burns my ass i ought to knock you on your ass i should bust you now in the face. you are lazy for relaxing reclining when you eat. you are worthless good for nothing stupid dont deserve anything
say shut the f up get outta my face
do things for others.
will do things for money. self satisfaction gratification, physical pleasures like eating, sex
clean his room
do laundry, deep clean house
cook or make prepare own food or cook for others
raise children
relate to others
empathize
(will work hard or long hours for material gain, to boost ego, own material things)
seek spirituality understanding
do something for someone else for free
self analyze, reflect
respect, appreciate his mother
enjoy simple things
admit his mistakes. shortcomings
follow rules. laws guidelines
go to the doctor
and cater to their whims of the moment
they don't give me much notice or no notice about anything
expect me to do what they want and be available instantly yet they will drag on and on when i want them to do something and will come up with any excuse in the world to avoid doing what i like or want or need
they refuse to do things with me that i like
scream at me stuff like fix me something to eat! clean it up!
say stuff like it's no big deal, i dont care what you think or what you want, that is stupid, what are you, a moron?
Wanders around getting supply for his all of his needs from many sources, mostly from people
Ignores, abuses wife girlfriend partner spouse
He invalidates minimizes woman frequently saying invalidating comments such as:
"It is no big deal" "I don't understand", "What do you expect/want from me?!", "I don't care what you want. This is what I want." "It's my way or the highway", "I don't have to put up with your shit", "What do you expect me to do, treat you like a queen?", "You have no common sense",
He talks in a condescending manner about most people and is the worst with his partner
Is not affectionate at home or in public
Will not hug kiss or embrace his woman in front of anyone else
He rarely if ever compliments his wife
He eyeballs and stares at other females when with his wife. Totally rude.
He has an obvious wandering eye wherever he goes. He cranks his head to see people when he is driving and in any store, place or environment he happens to be in
He flirts with the waitress either visually or orally talking saying words even in front of his spouse
He can become suspiciously quiet in the presence of others he is attracted to in an attempt to appear cool and nonchalant as if he is a true gentleman
He expects wife to be a workhorse slave then gives her no credit for her work, duties, help, intelligence, accomplishments, beauty, success, purpose, life
Resentful and reluctant to do anything for wife. He acts like its a chore. He is hateful and dreads having to do anything for his mate
Will bend over backwards for anyone else
Often lives with mommy and daddy as long as possible sometimes for his entire life
Has no urge to move out on his own when typical teenager desires to get a place of their own as soon as possible
Does not want children or any responsibility for them
He maximizes his importance regarding his duties, work, interests, hobbies, ideas, thoughts, needs, wants, desires
He blocks spouse from formal education unless she already obtained a diploma or college degree before he met her. If she already has a professional education he downgrades her accomplishments and intelligence, her abilities and dreams and aspirations
He takes credit for anything he deems positive in life and blames partner for anything that goes wrong
He prides himself on how smart and clever he thinks he is
He calls most people stupid, thieves, robbers, burglars
He says most people will take whatever they can get and do anything they think they can get by with. Anything, regardless of laws.
Laws don't apply to him
He is a showoff and hates people that brag
He likes to keep things a complicated mess
He imagines he is in control of all people and things around him
Cleanliness, order, accounting and efficiency upset and appall him
He glues his face into the tv, the media, his object of interest at the time and often states how amazing some people are when they do bizarre things that they began practicing since they were children
He cant understand how or why some people are wealthy for "doing nothing"
He is easily awestruck by performers in the entertainment industry
He is never in awe about his mate surviving all of his abuse
He is getting filthy dirty often. Some take a shower. Some don't.
His body odor doesnt bother him much. Other peoples odors usually do. He wont do anything about it unless people he is trying to impress someone and they complain about how much he stinks
He grabs and eats food that is not his. He will not wait for the entire meal to be served for him or anyone else. He freely takes over another persons refrigerator, cabinets, pantry, shelves, counters or the like. He acts like an unruly savage.
He will not consider the safety of others. He strews things about and does not care if someone else could trip fall hurt themselves. These types often hate night lights, motion sensors or adequate proper lighting that remains on.
He often lives in junk hoarding piles of accumulated stuff sometimes trash
Waits till the last minute to get rid of garbage
Uses things and people up until they are worn out exhausted dead
Seems to be unaware of how obnoxious he is
Proud of himself when he takes advantage of some stupid naive sucker fool.
He spits about wherever he happens to be. If he uses snuff snus chew chewing tobacco he spits it anywhere disregarding the fact that someone else might step in it.
He sneezes out loud without covering his face.
He belches loud, farts passes gas and makes other noises without so much as a glimpse of a polite apology
He refuses to open or unlock a door for people especially his wife
He often has a limited vocabulary. Some of them use cuss/curse words often.
He is a hypocrite. What is good for him is not good for his wife, family or other people
He refuses to get dressed up in nice clothes. He prefers to wear the same old things daily, usually blue jeans, the same type of shirts and shoes daily.
He expects his partner to look good only for him.
He expects to her to smile and be in a good mood regardless of the abuse, insulting comments, threats and negligence he tosses out to her daily if not hourly
Prefers fast food and portioned out items already cooked and prepared by someone else. Something easy to eat without having to think about it. Instant premade processed food is most desired . Shopping getting all ingredients cooking homemade food is too hard takes too much time and besides cooking and being a cook is considered a lowly worthless mundane job which he feels he is too good and superior to do.
He watches like a hawk what other people do, judging, rating, grading, criticizing, counting every bite of food they eat, how they look, how they are dressed, what they are doing, how they smell, how much money they cost him, how much of his precious time they wasted.
Stingy with time, attention, money and things
And makes life miserable for anyone living with them
Or I might run into something because I am not used to it
Things are fine right where they are. I don't know why you think you have to keep moving things around all the time..
John layson wanted immediate gratification.
He is just one of some people i know who expect instant results and satisfaction.
Fast food, sex, porn is perfect, material things.
Responses from others. Answers. Driving. Money. Cash preferred. Cant wait.
Quick fix. Sugar. Pills. Ointments for pain.
Tv. Videos. Movies. Music. Internet.
Lived in the media majority of time.
Few friends associates
Never married. No children.
He thought cleaning was a waste of time and money.
Wouldnt take a shower or brush his teeth very often.
Used earphones in his ears, over the ear headphones
Constantly listening to music watching videos
Hoarder hoarding disorder
Paranoia bipolar diagnosed with
Freaked out if anything was moved, cleaned, reorganized by anyone but him
Ate all day long. Candy snacks desserts breads rye wheat
Ate food any kind while working
Sugar addict. Any sweetened artificial or natural. Flavored artificial candy coffee tea soda
Had to drink diet soda with each meal
Expensive beers brew
Political science major in college st louis missouri
Argumentative
Demanding
He pointed out things he had during conversation. When paul anderson visited from south dakota john would steer the conversation to some item he had and showed me instead of being attentive to paul talking
All his previous girlfriends were blondes, light colored hair. All of his sisters bleached their hair a light color blonde with a little b...