I have been instructed not to wear this summer blouse in public by a male counterpart.

I have been instructed not to wear this summer blouse in public
by a male counterpart.

Reasons given:

Makes me look bigger on top. Shows cleavage.
Shows my (nice female) shape from the front.
Shows the hump in my back from the backside.

Looks like something one female would wear
underneath other clothes.
Looks sexy.
Wouldn't want to attract other men or turn anyone on.
You are married.

"It's a summer top," I said. "It's not like lingerie. It's
not silky or flimsy. It's heavier material and covers well.
It will be cool in the summer."

Well, maybe in the summer if everyone else is wearing them....he said.

I just want to feel cool, at the right temperature when it is hot outside.

5-16-2020

Sarah Wilson Stillwell
58 year old woman with scoliosis.  haha 

I cut out the shoulder pads in my long grey sweater because I want to look like the woman I am.

I cut out the shoulder pads in my long grey sweater because I want to look like the woman I am.
Shoulder pads were designed to make a woman look more like a man, that
triangle shape with broad shoulders and narrow hips. I am quite the opposite
having wide hips and narrow shoulders.

Getting brave here: I cut the tags off of the new towels and have been cutting off more tags as I find them.

Spring cleaning.

Sorted sock drawer and donated socks I no longer want to wear because they are
too tight, too thick, not appropriate for me or women.

Sorting shorts and shirt drawer.

Emptied closet of lots of clothes I don't wear. Going to donate to a friend.

Donating shoes I will no longer wear. They don't fit right or are old and worn out.


3-13-2020