I love clean places and activities.

 hospitals, schools, gyms, businesses like walmart and professional grocery stores

offices and intelligent people.

MY ocd about cleanliness makes it so hard to not clean up other people's messes anywhere. HUGE challenge to walk away and let it pile up.

Never trust a filthy, messy, hoarder person. They are a disaster. Immature.

 They accumulate any and everything packing things away hiding them.

It gets to the point they cannot clean up after themselves.

They do not acknowledge that they are the problem, the one touching everything with their dirty hands spreading germs and diseases. Licking their fingers and touching things. Not paying attention to their hands or things they move around.

They eat while doing anything such as while walking moving around and even while working.

They do not admit they are the one leaving dirty messes behind for other people like me to clean up.

They expect me to do their laundry, dishes, clean up the floor after they track shit all over the place and leave crap and things all over the patio, the yard and any area they have been to.

As they get older they can't concentrate much on one thing at a time and try to multitask 

they do not pay attention to me or any one person, the conversation at hand.

Their mind wanders constantly. Distracted easily. They pile up things and make a disaster out of any area they work in or do anything in.

Their beds are dirty nasty full of bugs and they do not see the point in changing their sheets linens washing their clothes and bedding or any thing they have. 

The dust and dirt piles up in all places of the house and any place they work at.

Countertops are rarely wiped off anywhere including bathrooms and kitchens. They freak out when the floor is cleaned properly by thorough sweeping vacumming and mopping and polishing.

They do not mind filth dirt mud rocks or any item laying around on the floor. They wear shoes almost all the time and have stinking feet and socks and shoes and boots. They wear shoes because they don't want to hurt their tender feet. If they would walk barefoot as soon as they enter the house they could feel the filth and dirt and sticky junk all over the floor.

If they would focus on their immediate environment instead of on the tv, the internet, the cell phone, the videos, the news, the radio, some crap playing thru their earphones, ear buds, headphones they would see and realize the true nasty mess of a bug and animal haven they live in.

They love to have huge pieces of electronic equipment like stereos, televisions, speakers, radios, amplifiers, reel to reel players and are easily mesmerized by the audio and videos pictures of things that are somewhere else. They ignore the person they live with and shut them out by blasting junk thru these devices.

They do not like to clean. They do not know how to do deep cleaning. Don't care about bugs, spiders, cobwebs, mice, rats, snakes coming into the house. They say it is no big deal, it is part of life living with creatures crawling all over the house and in the walls.

They are afraid of seeing a drop of water anywhere and scream and yell if they see it.

The place starts stinking and they can't figure out where the smell is coming from. The person I live with did this many times and once he took furniture polish that smells like lemon and sprayed it on my kitchen counter where I do food prep.

they put wrong liquids into inappropriate wrong containers and usually do not label the can or bottle with what is inside of it. This is a dangerous and stupid thing to do.

Instead of getting to the core, the root cause of the mold, mildew, stink they do temporary patches and buy products like "toilet bowl cleaner" or any chemical that makes it sound easy to quickly cover up the issue.

They blame other people for their problems like losing things and their impulsive and angry temper tantrums they throw every single day. They refuse to take responsibility for their own creation of disastrous messes they make.

They like to keep old boxes and containers items came in instead of tossing them immediately.

One i know even keeps a used condom of all things as if he will use it again. He also finds outdated condoms at the park and brings them home. Why? It is no good.

they love to keep expired items in the refrigerator the bathroom medicine cabinet, the food pantry basically any place. expired paint, auto chemicals, pharmaceutical drugs, ointments, creams, lotions, shampoo. toothpaste mouthwash. cleaning products. 

the one i live with puts old silicone ointment cream on his legs this ointment was acquired over 20 years ago from super flea and it was expired at the time he got it.

they are scared to death to throw away anything thinking they will need to use it someday.

they treat me and people like trash and treat all the material things and money like the most precious things of all.

they do not listen to me or anyone or any business, government professionals about tossing old expired things, being sanitary, sneezing into the elbow instead of spraying into the room or any other technique to stay clean and healthy.

they are not health conscious. 

they love to eat fast food anything that requires no prep.

they do not wash off fruits and vegetables before eating them.

they grab any piece of food laying anywhere and will eat it if they think it is edible

they do not believe in washing  old clothes bought at the thrift store, garage sale or anywhere. they think if the item smells good it does not need to be washed. they have no idea where it came from and do not care. i have warned them it could have bug eggs in it like lice, fleas or any disease bacteria you cannot see or smell.

Clean up after myself/yourself. Number one thing.

 It is my responsibility to clean up after myself and not after anyone over the age of 7.

I am responsible for my own area only.

I refuse to clean up messes of any kind made by any person who is supposed to be a mature adult.

Simple men/people/women

 Simple men 

dont like govt and technology computers accounting planning ahead.. like animals. 

don't like lengthy in depth discussions about anything

short sweet to the point

wait til last minute to empty the trash

hate daily cleaning maintenance

wait until something gets bad, a huge problem before they do anything about it

do not know how to nip things in the bud

gravitate are drawn to filthy nasty disgusting things like news, media trash, 

food, clothes, work projects that get you dirty, 

porn or searching for women anywhere and everywhere

 just to look at lust after in mags videos and/or pick them up use them for sex and discard them once they get off

pile things up in wrong places and various areas 

lack organizational skills 

lack ergonomics. setting things up for ease of use

hate making lists or listening to them

can't see connections between everything

think things are only for the moment and can't see

consequences or their words and actions

hard time making things simple so things end up complicated

do things for the moment right when they think of it

wait til problem is huge before taking action

cant see patterns

hard time predicting things in advance

lack preparation in some areas

seek variety in sexual conquests

get bored easily with the woman they have

will talk on phone to the one woman wife or girlfriend  saying i love you while at 

the same time trying to get the woman present in the room

lie consistently

hide money, things, any item they are afraid someone might see that

could embarass them

cannot be trusted when alone or not around their wife or girlfriend

scope out areas anywhere for conquests

My natural self

My natural self

beautiful pretty cute playful easygoing accepting balanced 

see all sides colors vibrations flexible

organized fun loving

practical island open friendly

beach lover party parties get togethers

socializing loving kind helpful

empathic understanding free freedom loving unique

all of my qualities he hates and steals from me by deliberately saying and doing things to hurt me with no regard to my feelings yet expects me to be sensitive to all of his feelings and needs

Solution. Have life of my own with people he has never met thus does not know.