Authoritarian Hitler personality he has

 Like Eric fromm figured out he masochistic ically irrationally submits to people who appear to be leaders like Trump Donald, Mike lindell, Alex Jones and any other similar types of narcissist sociopath psychopaths.

He has a fatalistic negative attitude and view of the world and most people. Expecting the worst side of man human woman child all the time.  

He feels choiceless as if he has no choice in what he thinks says or does. All things are done out of his belief it's a duty and obligation.

Insecure lacking confidence weak fearful afraid.

I am the one living in the same house so he tries everything he can to dominate me to no avail.

He has been unsuccessful in trying to dominate anyone else as far as I know.

Told me once when I asked him who has he succeeded in controlling he said "no one.i can't even control myself"

No partner/spouse is ever good enough for him or his siblings, cousins, uncles, aunts, mother

 all of them criticized, condemned, threatened, got into fights with any person they had an intimate relationship with

that is their family way/method 

His father dad had ECT shock therapy treatments for schizophrenia

 Electroconvulsive therapy.

1960s 1970s 

Joseph Olney stillwell 

January 1911 to September 

Pattern: He thinks about stuff at the last minute it needs to be done. Pays bills thru mail last day to send.

 thinks about momentary things 

immediate food. instant sex. taking trash out last minute. not wanting to take out trash bag unless it's full.

pays bills thru mail last day it can be sent thinking the companies make interest off the money sent

birthday cards or any holiday stuff usually purchased day of event

You think all you gotta do is make cookies? !!! he said years ago

 nasty sob inferring that I should be doing mans work and that my cooking means nothing at all

He keeps things in in car/truck and acts like this in public

I SEE THESE ITEMS IN VEHICLES MOST OF THE TIME:

gloves, several different kinds can be in there. he keeps large supply of boxes of gloves in garage

flashlight

bungi cords

lots of napkins paper towels

pullover ski mask with face hole 

various variety several pairs of sunglasses he says he found while out walking which he never wears in front of me

gps unit "tomtom" to find directions which does not save the information so it can be used and not trackable. this is in both car and his pickup truck. he's had for many years 

 lots of snack items in bags and usually has opened ones he clips shut. always flavored and intensely spicy and or sugary like honey roasted peanuts jalapeno flavor hot, taqis, chips, candy

bottled water sometimes left in direct sunlight for days or weeks

emergency flares

dental picks used over and over

nail clippers

pens pencils notepad / notebook 

extra pair of shoes/hiking boots for walking in park cave springs so if it is muddy out he can use them clean them at park with stick or knife then switch to cleaner boots

PUBLIC FACE IS :

nice, low key voice talking, logical, rational appearing, helpful, kind, interested

active, walking, moving fast. quick shopper.

He mirrors other people quickly. Monkey see. Monkey do.