Simple men/people/women

 Simple men 

dont like govt and technology computers accounting planning ahead.. like animals. 

don't like lengthy in depth discussions about anything

short sweet to the point

wait til last minute to empty the trash

hate daily cleaning maintenance

wait until something gets bad, a huge problem before they do anything about it

do not know how to nip things in the bud

gravitate are drawn to filthy nasty disgusting things like news, media trash, 

food, clothes, work projects that get you dirty, 

porn or searching for women anywhere and everywhere

 just to look at lust after in mags videos and/or pick them up use them for sex and discard them once they get off

pile things up in wrong places and various areas 

lack organizational skills 

lack ergonomics. setting things up for ease of use

hate making lists or listening to them

can't see connections between everything

think things are only for the moment and can't see

consequences or their words and actions

hard time making things simple so things end up complicated

do things for the moment right when they think of it

wait til problem is huge before taking action

cant see patterns

hard time predicting things in advance

lack preparation in some areas

seek variety in sexual conquests

get bored easily with the woman they have

will talk on phone to the one woman wife or girlfriend  saying i love you while at 

the same time trying to get the woman present in the room

lie consistently

hide money, things, any item they are afraid someone might see that

could embarass them

cannot be trusted when alone or not around their wife or girlfriend

scope out areas anywhere for conquests

My natural self

My natural self

beautiful pretty cute playful easygoing accepting balanced 

see all sides colors vibrations flexible

organized fun loving

practical island open friendly

beach lover party parties get togethers

socializing loving kind helpful

empathic understanding free freedom loving unique

all of my qualities he hates and steals from me by deliberately saying and doing things to hurt me with no regard to my feelings yet expects me to be sensitive to all of his feelings and needs

Solution. Have life of my own with people he has never met thus does not know.

He has time for everyone but me

Neighbors friends relatives lesson. I need to keep at arms and legs length. Includes anyone I know that he knows.

 he is at neighbors houses frequently and especially without telling me all his contacts with them

he does not want me at any of the neighbors houses becomes angry pissed and inquisitive if i ever visit any neighbor 

yet he goes over to any of their houses constantly anytime he wants to go and expects me to stay out of it

he used to get jealous pissed when i was visiting debra phillips later debbie wall back in the late 90s. her and i would just visit sit and talk. 

best for me to keep neighbors at arms length because he is tight with all of them and any of these people would tell him anything i say or do as he has them convinced he is such a useful and nice guy

this goes back over 34 years of his bonding with people in the neighborhood

tim lois nolan, irene and don rogers and family, mike michael wall and debra phillips wall, steve sharon duggan, chris rixner and wendy and anyone else he had over there, mark pollock down the street, ellen next door who stays in chris house he died 3 years ago, traci corsaut, barbara and darrell chism, ken and nancy matteson, peter webber on meadow lane, alex and mary lovely across street on kings hwy used to be rogers house

he sneaks around and texts chats talks to them in person sometimes telling me later he conversed with them

i should not say much more than hello to any of them due to him controlling the entire neighborhood

none of these people are beneficial to me anyway. they do not need to know any of my business or anything about me

he takes over every relationship i have with anyone he meets including my own family sons and seems to convince them he is such the intelligent smart capable nice guy and that i am the bitch the one causing problems all the time

every single friend and relative that he met... chuck strand, john layson, tony gomez, darin wise, jr huell bracher, kirk hupp, 

he wants to know any person i know and get to know them to pry information out of them

Snowball iceberg of stupidity he is

 stupid ball of stupidity. snowball effect. tip of iceberg reveals it all

warped thinking

have idea then look for proof

lacks scientific method

comes to conclusions based upon feelings with lack of evidence

is the problem and blames me for all of his problems

He acts like he lives alone