he hates accounting for his expenditures. he claims he spends his money wisely. he does spend it wisely at times. other times very foolishly.
he refuses to take responsibility and accountability for his words and actions, his thoughts. he is not self reflective. he blames others for his reactions, reactive behavior.
it is never his fault.
Rely on appearances looks only. Think physical looks of someone's body, money, cars, houses, material things are top priority. Do not take time to consider the inner workings of another being whether it is human, animal, plant or any other life form.
They do not work on themselves.
Competitive. Believes they have to compete and fight with others to prove themselves better and superior, smarter, more able and capable and more important.
Looks at surfaces. Lacks ability or comprehension of the individuality and personaility of any being.
Compares others and self to everyone else constantly. Will say things like "Why can't you be like so and so?" and "Just shut up!" anytime someone expresses a difference any thing different what they like prefer or believe which is only their opinion.
Can't distinguish their opinion from fact.
Fights with family spouse girlfriend boyfriend husband wife trying to force their ways opinions beliefs hobbies habits upon other people and tries to make animals do what they want without considering the nature of beasts.
Are impatient, critical, rude, mean. Zero patience. No tolerance for anyone ever slipping up making a mistake, spilling something, having an accident yet if they slip up they diminish what they did and say 'OH, well"
Expect immediate satisfaction in all things. Are not willing to wait for anything.
Pushy. Arrogant. Status seeking. Flashy things.
Tend to eat whatever is fast and easy and lying around.
Tend to be addicted to sweets, drinks, food, alcohol. Trash crap food and drink.
Drive like maniacs. Cuss out other drivers. Road rage. Sometimes will jump out of the car and confront other drivers on the road or give them mean looks, yell and scream and threaten them. Some will shoot stab harm others due to their anger.
Easily angered then blame others for their own behavior and reactions
Reactive instantly.
Treat other people like slaves, servants and doormats. Expect others to do their bidding instantly without any regard to the other persons time, feelings, situation.
Selfish.
Grabby. Grabs things anywhere including other people's food, items
Opens the bathroom door or bedroom door on people with no notice.
Crosses cuts defies boundaries of others
Into the neighbors business.
Thinks they know what everyone else should be doing, dressing, saying, working at instead of focusing on their own things they ought to be doing.
Outer focused.
NO meditation. No self reflection.
Will not look at themselves and accept blame for what they say or do and will say "I wouldn't have yelled, screamed, attacked you, hit you, strangled you if you didn't act that way."
Judgmental of all except themselves.
Has to have constant external media going like radio, tv, internet movies videos noise, music.
Always talking about how stupid and disgusting people are. Never looking at how disgusting they are . Making comments about how they hate fat people the way they look
Maintaining repulsive evil heinous thoughts about life sexual desires and horrible things they would like to do or have done then denying they thought said or did it.
Cruelty to people and animals. Justifying it.
Should be ashamed of themselves but project their shame humiliation upon others . Inflict their guilt upon others. Projection and denial.
psychology. etymology word meaning. the bible trying to understand it. world war 2 ii he was in the army. cars trucks mechanic stuff. at a loss and couldnt figure out his sexual attraction to linda his niece or to me... i was 25 in 1987 he was 65. 40 years older than me. i ended up being his niece in law marrying his nephew. he claimed linda bore his child a girl named becky.
a real talker he was friendly. would spout off wise wisdom quotes once in awhile.
he would talk about lesa wilkins a girlfriend of mikes and say she came around looking for him at his place in raytown missouri on pershing road. she pulled up and had 3 of her kids in her car supposedly by other men not mike.
then if she was married why did she look for mike? then she went to mikes duplex in independence.
he was basic plain simple lived without running water or a telephone in the city where everyone has water and all utilities. rough country character old man.
his 4 acres of land was a junkyard. people called the city on him. he had to leave they condemned the property. cars buried there and dumped over the hill.
he said the worst thing is being crazy and not knowing you are crazy
and friendly enemies are the worst kind.
he a rutherford. was the mediator reason i met his nephew mike.
