Showing posts with label people. Show all posts
Showing posts with label people. Show all posts

Monday, November 3, 2025

Rabbit hole

 he has been sucked in the hole of the media like so many people end up doing.

quite by unintentional accident

eyes and ears glued into what everyone else is doing

attempting to control the world

and failing horribly

it can happen to anyone regardless of age 

however it seems like lots of older people fall into the pit of media hell much easier as they don't have much else of a life after the family and job and friends have dissipated

they might spend lots of time alone and don't know what else to do

instead of being meditative and instrospective and concentrating on bettering themselves and their lives they focus on others and attempt to tell them what to do 

giving opinions on how people and things should be

and losing track of their own obligations duties and cleaning up their own messes

look in the mirror people!!



Wednesday, June 8, 2022

Many things i wish i had learned as a child

many things i wish i had learned as a child

12-30-18  December 30, 2018

health: food diet nutrition
  how to cook


wealth: money management and attaining money and property

wisdom

happiness
  stress management and elimination of unnecessary stress
  appreciation what is and what has been and what will be

socializing
  how to know and understand myself,
relate to different kinds of people
 friends
family
neighbors
co-workers
bosses
employees at businesses I do business with
strangers I meet when I am out walking, shopping
psychology
 how to read people,  accept myself as i am and
others as they are
practice self control instead of thinking i can control everyone and everything around me

freedom



drives of life... what motivates people
the reasons why we think, feel and do what we do
purpose: procreation, replication, sex, self expression, control
recognition, appreciation

necessities :
air first
water second
food third
shelter housing
 clothing
transportation

I repeat this to myself daily:
I am healthy, wealthy, wise, happy, free and have lots of friends and family.

I grew up in a well meaning family who did the best they could with what
they had.
However I didn't know anyone who wondered why they thought and
did what they did or how they arrived at where they were.

Dysfunction at its best. Nobody explained to me what was going on.
Nobody knew what was really happening or why
and they didn't want to know why.

I questioned the behavior of myself, my family and other people I knew.
I asked many people why, why, why.?
Often I was told to shut up, not question anyone and not to
disagree with anyone.
Agreeing with everyone is impossible. I resolved to agree to disagree and
not force my opinions upon others but let them know what I think and
they are free to think any way they want to think. That is okay with me.
I have been told I think too much, am crazy, don't understand
I have been humiliated, criticized, laughed at, minimized, shut out,
ridiculed





Sunday, June 5, 2022

How to end nagging tantrums and whining by chiildren

 https://www.kidsbusket.com/how-to-end-nagging-tantrums-and-whining-by-children/  


https://www.lifehack.org/315185/7-clever-responses-stop-negative-people-from-whining

Tuesday, March 15, 2022

It is interesting to watch, to observe people those who are most to blame remain blameless

It is interesting to watch, to observe people

those who are most to blame remain blameless

acting like they did nothing wrong

as if confused as to why their loved one is in 

such miserable shape/condition

their state of mind and physical health worsened

deteriorated over the years with daily constant

continual unrelenting angry outbursts from the narcissistic tormentor

who rarely if ever experienced true joy nor allowed such

a joyful emotion with their partner/friend/family member


the one who makes your life a living hell for years

acts like a sheep around other people

when he/she has spent years making life miserable for

the happy go lucky light hearted free spirited butterfly

the tormentor full of hate and anger

all of the sudden shows loves and acts/pretends like he/she

 cares about the one who is dying, holding their hand while they die

or are already dead

the free spirited one who might have lived a whole lot longer 

had they been in a happy joyful environment with 

loving positive people or one person (the partner/mate/spouse)


Nothing wrong with me. Just not his ideal match. He likes blondes with big tits. But has not admitted it to me.

 All his previous girlfriends were blondes, light colored hair.  All of his sisters bleached their hair a light color blonde with a little b...