Fallacy: Being first, the first in line, the first one there increases your chances for success. This is not always the case. Being first does not guarantee you will be accepted. It doesn't guarantee you will get the job, get the girl or the guy, get the prize or be the best. Being first is just a number. It is position number 1 but doesn't mean you will be number one.
On the contrary it could mean you're the experiment, the one that takes the most beating, the one that is first rejected. Being first might mean you're the
guinea pig, just a test subject being tortured to see how much you can take.
It doesn't guarantee love, it doesn't guarantee success, it doesn't mean you
will win.