Monday, November 3, 2014

Signs of a weak man

Signs of a weak man
This is so good, so true, so accurate I just had to post a synopsis.
Signs of a weak person, man or woman.


Signs of a weak man


Signs of a weak man

Physically strong men acting as cowards, physically impressive men not being able to stand and defend themselves. . .

It's not a strange thing!

Here is why: strength in men doesn't come from the body but from the mind.

The first sign of a weak man is being indecisive.
This is the major sign of a weak man.

The second sign is that a weak man is afraid of the unknown

This is the reason of the first sign, a weak man will be always afraid to make decisions because of some "unknown" reason he has.

The third sign is blaming others.

What does it tell about a man when he blames others for something that happened to him?

It says that he can't take responsibility and that he's coming with excuses to not take actions!

Blaming is the root cause of all psychological issues in the opinion of nearly all motivational speakers; it's the root of low self-esteem and weakness.

Here is the antidote to stop blaming: "I AM RESPONSIBLE"

The fourth sign is a weak man never wants to change

You are going to see that he will make the same mistakes over and over and he'll always get the same results.

But when you ask him about it, he'll deny and defend his ideas and even deal with you like you were a threat to him.

BIG men aren't afraid of failures and mistakes, only small men are

The fifth sign of a weak man is expecting others to change

This is the root cause of blaming!

When you expect the others to change for things to be right for you, you will always stay at their mercy.

And let me give you this one little idea I've found in people: People think only of themselves.

You will rarely see someone thinking of other people and doing the right thing for them without expecting something in return.

You may think that a lot of people are philanthropist and give a lot of themselves, but if you think seriously about it, you are going to find out that nearly all these people do so to impress others or a woman or even a dead parent!

People will never give importance to you if you don't give it first to yourself.

The sixth sign is a weak man will expect others to start first

It sounds like the last sign, but it's a bit different.

This trait will stop any man from achieving good in his life because he'll always want the others to do the first step and then he'll get the courage to do it then.

It's extremely important to have a strong character.

The seventh sign of a weak man is that he will say " sorry" a lot

Sorry is a bad word if you didn't do anything that deserves saying it!

That's the thing I notice every time with weak guys.

They think that by saying sorry a lot, they will get out of troubles and that people will not hurt them.

Don't say sorry when you didn't do anything bad!

The eight sign is that a weak man is a pleaser
By pleaser, I mean that he will want to do good to others every time.

This may look like a good thing, but the truth is that it's the contrary.

Why?

Because a weak man will want to do good for a reason: getting others to approve of him.

Trying to get the approval of others is in my opinion the worst thing you can do to hurt yourself of growth and development in life.

The ninth sign is he wants others to lead him

What's the first trait in leaders?

They lead people!

And the tenth sign of a weak man is that he will not defend himself

This is the most obvious trait.

I've seen so many guys not being able to stand for themselves or other people they cherish just because they felt threatened.

And the eleventh of these signs of a weak man, a bonus one, is: he will get mad at people easily.
The weakest beings are the easily irritated!

Be stronger than the pain; be forgetful of the rude people around you.

If you don't like something someone has said to you, look him right in the eyes and say:

"Don't talk to me like this" with ease and calm, if he/she keeps on doing it, then please leave.

The most hurtful words on the universe can't match the power of leaving a nasty situation or person; you will always be the strongest.

Thanks for reading and have a great strong life.

Noah Alam




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