Just had a Vision of his past after he displays anger at me frustrated pissed ticked off about foundation repairs needed at house 

costs too much 26,000 estimate from foundation company
house is semi bad neighborhood
not worth it to spend that much on it never get your money back if when it sells
don't have the money
can't do it all by himself
doesn't want to hire anyone else
thinks he can do it but takes a long time and is very hard work

his father and mother fretting worrying 

neither one of them doesn't /don't know what to do when a situation arises

something is missing

something is broken

needs fixed repaired replaced

so frustration leads to blaming the closest person and/or people around

to take their anger out on

because they can't figure out what to do

because they are broke poor dumb and ignorant

proud and paranoid

can't let anyone in the house for fear of stealing thieves