He has always pushed me, thinks he has to tell me what to do in regards to almost everything. HE NEVER needs to push me, EVER

 what i drive, the way i drive
how i dress, how i look, talk, move, where i should work, what i should say or not say, who i talk to, activities i "should' be doing
food, what i eat and drink
interests,

it simply boils down to this: he thinks i should think and do exactly as he does and/or exactly what he wants and likes therefore stripping my individuality, my freedom in all ways