Proverbs 13:3

 Proverbs 13:3, NIV: Those who guard their lips preserve their lives, but those who speak rashly will come to ruin. Proverbs 13:3, ESV: Whoever guards his mouth preserves his life; he who opens wide his lips comes to ruin. Proverbs 13:3, KJV: He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life: but he that openeth wide his lips shall have destruction.

Proverbs 13:3, NIV: Those who guard their lips preserve their lives, but those who speak rashly will come to ruin.

Proverbs 13:3, ESV: Whoever guards his mouth preserves his life; he who opens wide his lips comes to ruin.

Proverbs 13:3, KJV: He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life: but he that openeth wide his lips shall have destruction.

Proverbs 13:3, NASB: One who guards his mouth protects his life; One who opens wide his lips comes to ruin.

Proverbs 13:3, NLT: Those who control their tongue will have a long life; opening your mouth can ruin everything.

Proverbs 13:3, CSB: The one who guards his mouth protects his life; the one who opens his lips invites his own ruin.

What does Proverbs 13:3 mean? [⇑ See verse text ⇑]

Few things are more difficult, yet more important, than learning how to control one's words. Doing so can keep a person out of trouble and may even save his life. This is a repeated lesson of the book of Proverbs (Proverbs 10:8, 14; 12:18).

Those who threaten or revile other people open themselves to revenge and backlash. In modern English, a common description for those who talk too much is that they have "loose lips." That echoes the imagery given here by Solomon. The person who speaks without thinking, or without control, may make rash promises that he does not keep. He may insult others or lie or tell secrets or offer unsound advice. He may gossip or criticize others unjustly. His careless, harsh language will rebound to harm him.

Another English phrase related to these sentiments is a person who must "eat his words." This applies when someone's statements have come back to accuse him or condemn him. Knowing this is possible is yet another reason to be sure that any words we speak are "edible," so to speak (Proverbs 12:2). It is wise to pray as David did: "Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight, O LORD, my rock and my redeemer" (Psalm 19:14).

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs%2013:3&version=NIV

Leader is self propelled

I Clean

Do phonies like fake food. The shiny gold flashy and mass media influences .??

 Do they not like real natural people and simple ordinary things

Are they sucked into the void : Vacuum world of empty advertisements 

Did they lose childhood innocence 

Confused about needs versus wants

 https://www.yourdictionary.com/highfalutin

Which soda do you prefer? Coke or Pepsi? Neither one. NONE

 survey question 

10 bipolar symptoms no one wants to talk about

 https://veryhealthy.life/10-bipolar-symptoms-no-one-wants-to-talk-about/7/

 https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/personality-disorders/symptoms-causes/syc-20354463

Crazy thing about being crazy is you dont know you are.

Where's Beck? I don't know. Call her. See if she will come

 She's not Beck and call

Wants or needs? What is the difference? Discerning.

Celebrity says or does it : Credibility, imitated, followed, respected, admired ......

 common ordinary unknown person says or does the same things

it is unheard ignored 

the nobody unknown non celeb person is disrespected, shunned, hated, avoided, not listened to

labeled as crazy stupid foolish 

Treasure the love you receive above all. It will survive long after your gold and good health have vanished." -- Og Mandino

 Your Daily Quotation:

"Treasure the love you receive above all. It will survive long after your gold and good health have vanished."

-- Og Mandino

Friendly Enemy

 Norman talked about this often. 

Now I am becoming more aware of this and who is or might be

Or could be

Little stage. HOME is the center of your attention.

bright colors mom wore, mother my

 bright colors mom wore

purple

orange red

sewing things clothes pillowcases

art work

drawing, artist she drew faces extremely well

crafts

painting

had beautiful hand writing

gentle nature

beautiful person

queen 

patient 

kind

slow

loved kids great with children

loved to learn 

read magazines books all the time

puzzles crossword

wore makeup everyday

fixed her hair every day

religious

church went to every sunday

prayed for people

work jobs labor manual factory maintenance child care thrift store maid cleaning 

music 50's 60s 70 80 90 2000 to 2003 death december 14, 2003

model modeling

sexy

dancing

iced tea nestea instant with sugar

pepsi cola

cake chocolate ice cream

dayquil sinus congestion

nice pleasant easy going 

avoids negative people but has to live around them in the worst neighborhood in kansas city northeast where to dirt poor poverty people stay 

astrology

horoscope daily

taurus sun sign rising sign cancer she never knew this i didn't have a chart for her while she was alive

poetry

Read every book, watch every movie, listen to every song: A goal dream I had as a child

 Is it childish or is it hope

Is it real or unrealistic? Doesn't matter does it

My grandson said "Grandma I'm gonns suck up all the stars in the sky with a vacuum !!!"

when he was 3 years old. We were walking in the neighborhood at night.

Is it hope, a dream, a desire,wish, .... is it possible?

Who cares !!!

Dream it.

Have something .... to strive for regardless of how "foolish, impossible" it seems or

what anyone else thinks about it.

it is excitement, enthusiasm

Head face ages first. Comes out at birth first

I cant eat, lose my appetite around angry upset people or situations

 Extremely tuned into sensitive

Intuitive

Instinctual

Guts

Throw out energy it boomerangs in your face

Fast when needed. Cleanse system mind spirit amending. Come back refreshed clean start

 Atonement

Born unique as we are. Remain that way throughout life

Youre not going to beat the artist out of me

 Or dreamer

Dancer

Simple practicality

Plain ness and honesty

Writer

Peace maker

Lover

Integrity

Exercise body appropriately. Exercise mind. And spirit soul

 Grandpa and ma frequently said exercise physical body.

Believing is before seeing. Skepticism reserved for those who must see before believing

Broom bucket water rag elbow grease

Destiny

Broom

bucket

water

spray bottle sprayer

mop

cloth rag sponge

vacuum

duster

soap

cleaning maintenance 

cinderella

care giver

home health aide

You don't need to go to school .......... said by certain people

Lady is the word I use to describe females / women woman girl

 even though some have said to me she's no lady

and i say 

we are ladies when we are treated that way

Competing with self NOT with others. Excellence progresses with self awareness activity accomplishment

Get the H out of my/your way !!!! Then watch what one does. Miraculous.

You're right as rain ... said by a man I knew over 20 years ago.

Some people are only nice to those they deem rich elite or powerful. They are ruled by mammon, money

 some are only nice to some they think have money

not realizing 

no one is born with it

we are all born with our body only

and that is all you every have for life

ONE Body, That is it

Daily expenditures add up fast: One dollar a day = 30 dollars a month average

 30.4166 average per month 

12 months in year

365 / 12

HYPOCHONDRIAC, SOME PEOPLE PERSON HAS SAID THIS TO ME ABOUT ME

5 SIGNS YOU'VE ENDURED NARCISSISTIC ABUSE

 5 SIGNS YOU'VE ENDURED NARCISSISTIC ABUSE

1. Difficulty in making simple decisions 

2. Feelings of helplessness 

3. Social withdrawal 

4. Anxiety specific to the relationship 

5. Chronic sense of second guessing & paralysis

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lt56nGmGG-0

SCARED TO DEATH OF MAKING ANY 'WRONG" MOVE OR HAVING ANY FACIAL EXPRESSION, EXPRESING ANYTHING, VOICING ANY WORD OR SOUND, OF EATING, DRINKING, BREATHING, MOVING, DOING, RELAXING, ANY TYPE OF ANY THING PERIOD THAT SETS OFF THE A BOMB ATOM HYDROGEN BOMB AGGRAVATED ANNOYED  NARC NARCISSIST WHO BLOWS UP AT ANY TYPE OF THING DUE TO FACT THEY ARE ALREADY AGITATED ABOUT LIFE TO BEGIN WITH

SCARED OF LOOKING AT ANY ITEM OR LOOKING PHYSICALLY ANY WAY 

XRAYS BACK SPINE NOVEMBER 2022

 

PERSONALITY : UNIQUE TO THE BEING

 BORN WITH CERTAIN CHARACTERISTICS

TENDENCIES

PREFERENCES

ANGER : CAUSED BY MATERIAL THINGS AND ASS HOLE BEHAVIOR

SUZY SUZIE SSASSY SAYS SO AND SAID NO TO YELLING SCREAMING ABUSE ABUSIVE LANGUAGE

CLEAN IT UP !!! JOHN YELLED AT ME MAY 2021

 RIGHT BEFORE HE WAS TAKEN AWAY ON MAY 11, 2021 

911 CALL TO PARAMEDICS

ON HIS DEATH BED

HOARDER STAGE 5

Your refrigerator is so clean ! comment from Karen S many years ago

I SAID I KNOW I WORK ON IT KEEP IT THAT WAY 

WE LIKE CLEAN FRIDGE

 sister in law who died

born februrary 23 1960

paranoid schizophrenic female woman ended up on meds medications one of which was zyprexa which made her gain about 100 pounds

JEALOUSY JEALOUS OF ANY ONE ANYWHERE 

In the middle of difficulty, lies opportunity." -- Albert Einstein

 Your Daily Quotation:

"In the middle of difficulty, lies opportunity."

-- Albert Einstein

The formula for peace of mind is simple: Don't worry about anything -- pray about everything." -- Author Unknown

 Your Daily Quotation:

"The formula for peace of mind is simple: Don't worry about anything -- pray about everything."

-- Author Unknown

Some people i know say "You dont have to show me", I get it, i dont want to hear you

 I dont want to see you

They focus their attention on anyone else in the environment and shut me out

..........

Others never say those things to me. My friends never treat me like i dont matter

 

 

 https://www.healthline.com/health/levoscoliosis

 https://scoliosisinstitute.com/scoliosis-pain/

Whatever you give a woman she will make it greater ......................

 “Whatever you give a woman, she will make greater. If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby.. If you give her a house, she'll give “Whatever you give a woman, she will make greater. If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby.. If you give her a house, she'll give you a home. If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal. If you give her a smile, she'll give you her heart. She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her. So, if you give her any crap, be ready to receive a ton of shit!"

ERICK S GRAY   QUOTES

Jump on the train Jane

Owning nice things does not make one nice

 I learned this by observation witnessing behavior from those who had/have nice or expensive items many years ago...over 40 years ago

Our power is in our ability to decide." -- Buckminster Fuller

 Your Daily Quotation:

"Our power is in our ability to decide."

-- Buckminster Fuller

STRONG SENSE OF SELF I HAVE, MY IDENTITY IS MYSELF ME

You've crossed the line too many times

Get off your ass

 Had enough of being shit on .. treated like an idiot fool as  if im worthless and dont matter

 Of being loving

 Respectful considerate to those who have no love or respect for me

And no respecf for my grandson who really loves me

 I already cried my eyes out for him

His mistreatment

I cant stop it or change what happened 

 

Motto: My philosophy, ideas : We all win at life, your belief is your truth and reality

 everyone wins, all are winners

we all eat

we have plenty of food and anything we need or want

we are all happy

there is enough to go around for all people animals and life 

no one goes without 

game, i dont play games when it comes to truth, no shit bull exists

Full of excuses and whining.. when one can't figure out how to accomplish a thing

 Handwriting with pen is much easier for me than typing keyboard pad tablet

Change results from awareness realization epiphany light bulb in me

Is this also true with others.?

 Exorcist needed for brainwashed person,a member of the Trump cult

Little did I know that all the work I've done is futile: APPEARANCE RULES IT ALL

 the way I look determines everything 

Awareness intuition in tune not luck or chance

 Awareness intuition in tune not luck or chance

 Not chance 

Here current circumstances 

Same pattern throughout life

 My guess is she he

 Has same m.o. from git go

Beginning of life

Predictably 

 Pretty simple 

Moves around places does same things

 Personality consistent 

 

  

Weak powerless person : jealous, destructive to others, destroys happiness and opportunities

The first test of a truly great man is his humility." -- Ruskin (person, man or woman)

 Your Daily Quotation:

"The first test of a truly great man is his humility."

-- Ruskin

No phony fake bone in my body or soul. Genuine. For real here

EVIL is Devil with a dropped D

Media: TO stir the emotions of us

Natural genuine people and animals love me, Fake indoctrinated hate me

Welcome to weirdo world where i am natural genuine

 real hair all over my body

NOT PINK or PURPLE OR GREEN but its natural colors

real body not fake no plastic silicone implants metal or any other foreign objects in my body

Fake despises natural

Easy to get sucked into the vacuum vortex of fake

 Easy to get sucked into the vacuum vortex of fake 

SERVE YOURSELF FIRST

 SARAH STILLWELL

NOVEMBER 4, 2022

I don't know what your destiny will be, but one thing I do know: The only ones among you who will be really happy are those who have sought and found how to serve." -- Albert Schweitzer

 Your Daily Quotation:

"I don't know what your destiny will be, but one thing I do know: The only ones among you who will be really happy are those who have sought and found how to serve."

-- Albert Schweitzer

Unexpected signs smarter than the average person

 https://www.inc.com/marcel-schwantes/unexpected-signs-smarter-average-person.html

Imbalance

 Way too much time doing duties mundane shit 

Not nearly enough time feeling good having fun things

Mammon money material worshippers

 wants to impress

put on good impression 

nice face (which is fake)

status is of utmost importance

cares what strangers think

concerned about the neighbors and what they see think and do

does not care what i think or people or person that lives with them such as spouse child 

feelings do not matter regarding spouse, those who live in the same house

do not have to respect those close in the home yet

demand respect and total compliance from the people in the home

grabs things out of my hand when i am trying to figure out how to do something

violates personal boundaries consistently yet won't tolerate same 

throws shit on feelings wants desires like preferences of those in the home

restricts others and demands total freedom of the self

perfect looking hair OR cuts it all off so they don't have to groom it

CASh preferred payment method, NO tracking, no accountability, NO TRACE, not trackable,

suspicious distrusts mistrusts others due to knowing the self is not trustworthy

expects everyone else esp household to be agreeable totally compliant with them yet will be intolerant inflexible and demanding of others 

blows a gasket over anything i do 
yells at me for "cooking too much food" or I don't cook, only cook a couple times a week
and has 90 percent or so of house filled up with his stuff 
as if  i am not to spend any money, not eat, not have things i want do things i like have anything because "it's expensive, costs too much money"

has zero interest in my mental physical or emotional health
says doctors are out to rip people off
all the ads are out to get your money

blocks me out doesn't want to see or hear me and puts on headphones to hear outside media world and stares at screens or any other thing when possible

DEVIL appears to be an innocent sheep lamb first impression to public strangers

 can look so nice

clean innocent sweet 

impeccable appearnace might even be dressed in white (the color doesn't matter)

TURNS like a SNAKE

into a vehement vicious devil wolf instantly

Some think you should do anything for money. If they pay you. LACK of ethics, standards.

 Would they do anything for money? In exchange for any type of item...

I am a nail hitter: truth

 hit the nail on the head with the hammer (of my brain and mouth realizations)

which makes some people very angry pissed ticked madder than hornets

they don't wanna hear it

Avoidance behavior

 We do lots of things to avoid taking action to solve issues ongoing or otherwise

wrap your mind up into any type of thing so you don't have to take care of current or future issues

watch tv

listen to some thing some where that has nothing to do with immediate daily life activities that are effiicient therefore productive

watch vids on the internet

watch, look and watch things some more so you can criticiize the fukkk hell out of those stupid idiots that dont know how to do anything therefore making yourself believe you are superior smarter than others while you sit there in a big mess of confusion not solving your own basic needs 

make excuses

pretend like you don't know about a thing

pretend like you cant do anything about such and such

fake it to the maximum

complain you dont have enough money

you dont know the right people

you cant do anything to change a damn thing about much.. believe you dont have a choice 

believe you are stuck

maintain rut rutful thinking 

You always pass failure on the way to success." -- Mickey Rooney

 Your Daily Quotation:

"You always pass failure on the way to success."

-- Mickey Rooney

Hoarder disorder MHB

 takes 5 different meds pills prescription drugs for disorder that causes anxiety frustration from noises made from other living beings humans animals machinery 

NOISE ANXIETY https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/anxiety/triggers-for-noise-anxiety/

drugs don't stop the symptoms 

hoarder disorder mhb 

section 8 housing 

in violation

https://www.propertydo.com/section-8-landlords.htmlEvicting Section 8 Tenants for Violation of Lease

You can also evict Section 8 for repeated or serious lease violations. Tenants conducting illegal activities on or near the property are also grounds for Section 8 evictions. Primary examples of such breaches include:

The tenant refusing to pay for property damages caused by abuse or negligence by the tenant, listed occupants or the tenant's guest.

The tenant causes disturbance or harassment to neighbors or co-tenants on multiple occasions.

The tenant subletting or assigning the lease without the landlord's consent.

The tenant housing squatters (unlisted occupants) on the property.

The tenant keeping pets on the property without the landlord's consent (except in the case of service animals for the disabled).

The tenant committing illegal drug or criminal activity on or near the property.

The steps on how to evict Section 8 tenants for lease violations are largely similar to the ones that we have already mentioned above.

The only difference here is that you'll send to send the tenant a comply or vacate notice instead of a pay or quit notice. This notice will give the tenant a last chance to rectify any violations (typically within a 3 day deadline)

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believes fried chicken stays good edible for weeks and is safe to eat because it is cooked all the bad stuff has been cooked out of it   https://www.makefoodsafe.com/does-cooked-chicken-need-to-be-refrigerated/

eats rotten spoiled food

wants to keep hang onto almost everything

too many things going at once 

one 5 minute job can take 5 hours to complete

keeps many other people busy doing things he she cant or wont do

nitpick fault finding in others 

saying they mistreat her stuff mishandle don't do job and/or don't do it right according to her specifications, 

finds something wrong with all of the care givers

said that I you are being negative when stated consider having a sale to get rid of things...the house is jam packed it's hard to get around in most rooms of the home. it's a tight squeeze for me and i am skinny you are fat

she is very full of information, intelligent, been around to many cities and countries

she is obese fat overweight diabetes can barely get out of the bed 
unable to do much daily house work chores duties except to eat, carefully maneuver around the house,
use the phone (can talk very well) 
said can barely reach to wipe her rear end butt ass so a bidet is close to being a 
necessity.

one of my wake up call people i know and witness see hear experience

Some people want problems not solutions

 solving the problem would end the conflict and leave them with nothing to do

Sometimes people don't want solutions that way they perpetuate the problems and have conflict and something to do

The more material things I have the worse I feel and the ass hole comes out quickly and often in other people

Serving the spirit of self and others tops accumulating material things and money

 SERVICE TO the spirit of god essence OTHERS TOPS ACCUMULATING MATERIAL THINGS

Being accepted as you are is desired by us

Being completely accepted as i am by any one person: miracle of the ages

Spectator thinks they know and can do better than the player

The only person in the world universe is what lots of people act like

Multi tasking :THE BIG lie

Some say you are beautiful as you are and i respond with

Some say you are beautiful as you are and i respond with 

thanks for your compliment opinion

my mother was beautiful

i am

remaining humble humility

beauty is in the eye of the beholder 

my grandfather taught me when i was a child so i don't have a big head ego 

I skim over stuff real quick and decide I DON"T NEED THAT most often

 and i have been told by many people

you don't need that ... makeup, that thing, item material thing whatever it may be 

minimalism,

less is more

People are Spending money on things junk crap we don't need: Marketing ads all over the place

 Marketing ads advertising focused on telling me you us what we "need"

our vanity ego pride AIMED at

trying to make me you feel insignificant , less than, with shortcomings because they are selling this or that and tell us we have to have it to be accepted like normal just like everyone else