You don't tell someone

they are lazy because they are tired or sick/ill

they don't want to work because they can't/are unable to

they don't understand because you think you do

they are succumbing to their "filthy dirty bodily physical
desires" because they need to have sex/ an orgasm
or they are hungry, thirsty, cold, have to go to the bathroom
to eliminate waste

they are stupid because they don't yet know what you know

they are worthless for any reason

12-1-2019