Saturday, October 15, 2016

The narc/narcissist will make sure you are isolated to the point of having no friends,
no family to support you, no ability to further your education or increase your income.

The narc will gaslight you to death in order to convince others that you are crazy and
he is sane and logical.

The narc will always be right. He can't be wrong. Ever.
You will be blamed and take the blame for any and
all mistakes, wrongdoings, chance circumstances that have a negative outcome
regardless of whose fault it is; even if no one is at fault, it is still your fault.

The narc will persecute you over the tiniest mishap as well as the biggest mistake
and will you remind you of these mistakes frequently and forever.

The narc will keep you in the dark, not telling you what is going on, then
accuse you of not listening when he supposedly told you what is going on.

The narc
will shut you out shut you down tell you to shut up

always attempt to appear perfect flawless polite to the public, to strangers
but not to their partner

will prevent you from being healthy, obtaining proper medical treatment

invalidate minimize your feelings opinions wants needs emotions inspirations

take over your space your things

criticize and condemn you and others relentlessly, rarely or never give you a true compliment

call you stupid to your face, call other people they are not close to stupid behind their back

destroy any joy happiness fun from your life

eliminate your ability to smile and feel good

complain about all of your basic needs to live,  the things you need to use to survive
air water food shelter clothing transportation communication warmth love touch
expression of feelings wants needs desires hopes wishes

seek happiness in all of their desires and deny you the chance to be happy in
achieving your desires

accuse you of being just like them: mean, angry, hateful, selfish, unthoughtful (a word
he made up, it's not in the dictionary)
selfish, making food only for yourself when in fact you frequently make food for them
at the same time you prepare food for yourself

he will pamper himself with luxiour and offer or give you the bare minimum of
anything and act like you should appreciate his minimal and thoughtless efforts
of giving

will not give anything to anyone he wants for himself






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