Grandma Sarah

 she always made sure i had and she taught me many things

best food
best clothes
best home, new house
cleanliness: body
wash my hands often before eating, preparing food, before touching anything
never share combs, brushes
do not eat or drink or smoke or anything after others; this spreads germs making us sick

clean home, clothes, activities
best choice of friends "friends"
carefully choose associates
she should have let me choose my own so i would have found out sooner than later about people

she had brand new cars : buick skylark, dark green color i picked then she got a red pontiac fiero when she was 80 she wanted a corvette 

money in my pocket
work

duty
ethics: do the right thing
honesty, tell the truth
sprituality
worship god source
pray
i remember age 5 and up praying on my knees at the edge of my bed 

nice birthday cake and presents

holidays celebrated

xmas, thanksgiving, mothers day, halloween, 

the prom, got me a beautiful yellow dress, a crocheted purse, i was decked out looking gorgeous

my date got me a corsage, bert .. he drove a mercury cougar yellowish tan color

made sure i had brand new clothes every year for school until the last time when i was 14 and i told her i didnt like what she picked out so she said that's the end of that young lady

watch my mouth, language; slapped me on the leg for starting to say "sh...." shit

birthday cake topped with

dancers rock and roll symbols when I was 13 or 14

hysterical neurotic i thought she was. screaming banshee

narcisstic

hypocrite

unconditional love, conditional love. told her she had conditional love when i was 15. she got so mad at me calling me the woman of the world

just ignore people and go on about your business

jealousy is the #1 top emotion people display in life
she called it insane jealousy

she said you are intelligent beautiful you have everything going for you

said men will want you women will hate you won't want you around their husband, boyfriend, man

you wont have many friends as a result

poor white trash say and do and act certain ways
"white trash" was one of her favorite terms however these activities apply to any ethnic background anywhere in the world

ignorant, not teachable

lazy

lying, cheating thieves. liars criminals drug addicts alcoholics are out of the question for her 
they eat cheap food like lots of casseroles which make you fat and 
drink lots of "belly wash" sugar filled laden drinks like "kool aid" which she never bought, and soda pop 

eat lots of cheapest white bread dough balls 

don't cook real meals, fix ready to eat or prepared box or packaged food

eat at fast food restaurants alot; one of her favorites hated places was mcdonalds which she called dog food and would never eat there

dress in clothes that are flashy trashy torn bright wild looking prints 
girls/women show off too much flesh on their body

dirty bodies, they don't shower or bathe often
dirty filthy homes 

potty mouth, corrupt perverted minds 

perverted sex activities (a lot of different things she called abnormal and disgusting)

that's disgusting, one of her other favorite sayings

the floor shows how clean the house in. walk in socks or barefoot you will find out
most don't do deep cleaning they surface clean she said "I do deep cleaning and that requires moving all of the furniture out of the way and cleaning all the baseboards, walls, everything.."

she had filtered water 5 gallon container man brought to the house each week and replaced the bottle

said often i am the best friend you will ever have. one day you will thank me