He is an insane control freak

 Exactly opposite of me.

Tries to take control of each thing I think say or do. 

He is the same way with all others.

Low class man characteristics

Autonomy: Encouraging people to have independence of thought and action that expresses themselves best.

If he doesn't fall in love with you at first sight he won't grow to love you.

 He will chase the woman he wants. 

If he is standing still, not moving towards you then he is not interested.

 

Perfection expectations of other people....

 are if the person is what you think they should be. No one meets all of the criteria on my list. 

I don't meet all of the criteria of perfection of myself, the perfect woman I would like to be, either. 

 

I no longer seek the perfect man

 as I began doing as far back as I remember into my childhood

 

Habits and routines determine lifestyle