Sunday, September 20, 2015

male man female male narcissistic control tactics and behaviors

male man female male narcissistic control tactics and behaviors

only do what you want to do
only do what interests you
perform activities that are absolutely necessary, do the bare minimum
and only work when you are sure to profit from those activities, especially
when making the most amount of money from doing them and receiving the
most amount of personal pleasure

force, insist, demand, coerce your spouse/partner/children, close family members
to associate only with your chosen family members/friends,neighbors, co-workers and
any other person you may know (because you are confident you
can manipulate these people)
and insist that they abandon any of their own family, friends,
co-workers or associates

force, insist, demand, coerce your spouse/partner/children, close family members
to give up any activity you do not approve of that makes them feel happy,
confident, secure, wanted, valued, appreciated and loved

push, force, coerce onto others those things you do not want to do
and things that do not interest you and be sure to remind them
and enforce the idea that those things they do are of little
importance, significance or worth and the things you do are
highly valued, much more important and worth more than
anything they could ever do

repeatedly remind those around you, especially the people you
live with of their low self worth and that they will never amount to anything
use examples of people they are close to or have been close to when possible
to reinforce the idea that they will never succeed at anything of value
ie: you're just like your mother, brother, father, cousin --a worthless mess-- and you
will end up just like them, a nothing with nothing, a nobody who no one wants around

don't do anything with anyone that does not interest you
steer the conversation back to your interests every time you talk to someone

only want, desire, respect people you've never had sex with and never will have sex with.
worship, idolize and  glorify models, super models, actors, actresses, musicians, sports professionals while at the same time
condemning, criticizing and showing almost no respect for any
person you have personal contact with

have highest respect for those in the media, people you cannot be
close to and have a personal relationship

disregard and disrespect those you are close to including family,
spouse/mate/partner/friend/neighbor/co-worker

demand that your desires, wishes, wants and needs are fulfilled
disregarding the same for others

maintain control of every situation and encounter

do not participate in anything that makes you uncomfortable

when you do anything for anyone or give something anything
be sure to remind them continually and eternally about all of
the things you've done for them and how they owe you -- forever

ignore, don't listen to, minimize, undermine and condemn the thoughts, words, feelings, wishes, actions, deeds, gifts, talents, status, worth, abilities, intelligence and importance of those common people around you especially the people you live with

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