Love is desired by most

 love is wanted 

but not to be had by force

it's either there or it's not

i remember some who asked 

do you love me...

it's a question that should not be asked

some demanded i say it (I love you)

they needed to hear the words

i dont say it unless i mean it

it's a choice not a forced thing

are you loved because of what you do?

or simply because you exist, you are there?

because you are you, the thing is what it is

who you are

what you are

are you loved because you love something else?

are you loved because you love a person, a thing, place, activity?

are you loved because you love what you do, love yourself, love life, love a thing, 

are you loved because you dont care if anyone loves you 

you dont demand love from a person....

you're nonchalant, free spirited, self willed, focused on life/living and enjoying yourself

Oblivious

Unaware of anyone looking, listening, paying attention