College education, formal learning does not guarantee simplicity and joy

 she has 26 years of formal education and can't/won't scrape her plates of food after eating
she can't clean her own house, do the dishes, the laundry, clean floors, yard work
she won't take a walk further than the end of the driveway

won't take out the trash
talking about MHB , one I am the care giver for since October 2022