DYNAMICS OF DICTATOR

 DYNAMICS OF DICTATOR

The AUTHORITARIAN RULER IN HOUSE

takes off when he/she wants at a moment's notice

sometimes takes off with no notice at all

demands to know when i am or you are

leaving and where i am going

demands respect from me and others

does not respect me or anyone else

appears respectful in public and to neighbors and 

criticizes/critiques/ridicules 

them all behind their back

entitled 

feeling and acting as if he/she deserves any and 

everything they want at any time 

regardless of how it makes

another person feel

disregards feelings of others

does not care what anyone else wants

judges scrutinizes nitpicks others 

cant stand to be judged

criticized or corrected 

domineering, pushy, forceful

grandiose superior sense of self 

masking their inner feelings of inferiority

doormat: the wife or husband is

condemns humiliates ridicules 

mocks the woman wife child husband

walks all over people

takes advantage of any person

that looks like a good candidate 

the willing subject to be used to

get something they want 

such as:

money, sex, chores, work, duties, someone

to make them look

good in public 

the showpiece person is used 

as a public display so

strangers will see

they are with a good looking 

young attractive smart 

famous intelligent or 

person who has notoriety

caretaker caregiver

one who pays bills at home 

they dont want to pay

person who will do mundane chores

 and "shit work" they refuse to do

such as; cleaning, cooking, shopping,

errands, chores, dirty work or any type 

of activity they personally hate to do

sneaks around sometimes doing illegal 

criminal activities may or may not get caught

thinks they can outsmart authorities like police 

government officials 

believes they are smarter 

more intelligent than everyone else

treats spouse (wife, husband) and

children like morons and idiots and calls

them bad derogatory names like "stupid"

frequently 

uses name calling and threats 

towards family members

pushes, shoves, throws people around

forces ideas and self upon others

demands that you :

look good

make them look good

take their treatment without complaining

accept gifts that are not exactly what you want

be satisfied with whatever crumb they throw at you

you are to look and act good regardless 

of how you feel while

they will often look and act like a monster 

they will not look at themselves in the mirror

shapeshifting shapeshift shapeshifters:

suddenly looking nice and good when a neighbor 

or stranger is around

smiling at these people they do not live with

what would the neighbors think is one

of their mottoes

what will other people think of me of you

 

you are supposed to appreciate everything they do 

while they can criticize and condemn 

whatever they want about you

will not tolerate being criticized

they will get you the wrong thing/'gift' often 

and act like they are doing you a favor

they expect me/you to give them precisely 

what they want

and will throw a fit, complain, 

demand you take back an item

that does not suit them

most of the time whatever you get for them

or what you do is wrong and not enough 

never satisfied with what they have

looking for the better anything or anyone

grass is greener on other side of fence mentality

hypocritical

do as i say not as i do

prejudice prejudiced

walks far ahead of me/you when talking a walk in park

or hiking or shopping ..does not want to 

walk beside me anywhere

family members suffer and over the years

the wife/husband/children begin 

looking tired, worn out, distraught, drained

and often succumb to illnesses and disorders

including addictions addictive behaviors

such as:

eating disorders anorexia, bilumia, overeating,

obesity

any physical disorder that they were not born with

but acquired due to chronic stress

inflicted upon by the dictator

mental disorders: anxiety, panic attacks, bipolar,

schizophremia, virtually any kind of psychological

issue indicating the person is off balance, 

not normal, not right and disrupts the

natural life force of the individual