He is all these things

 hoarder, pack rat, scrapper, junkyard dog

resourceful, rude, impulsive, impatient

controlling to the max maximum 

misogynist. thinks women are stupid incompetent

believes women ask to be raped

has not raped me and says often we dont have enough sex

keeps locked file cabinet porn magazines i saw one day this or  last year when he was looking for paperwork

faux strangled me several times. i can recount each incident and cause. 

nov 13 2005 first time pushed me to ground floor i was at my desk sun eve just got home from working at super flea. he barged in my bedroom looked at curtain got pissed sd you always tear things up. he got back from tim nolan next door neighbors funeral or wake before funeral. i still dont know what he was actually mad about that day. i did nothing as usual to cause his physical assault 

no fun period. acts old stern grouchy bitchy nearly all the time. no joy in hardly anything. 

refuses to do or participate in any good feeling activities like festivals concerts fairs dancing movies playing ball or any game except solo chess on his laptop computer.

each time dining out eats same stuff too fast has to have dessert eg ice cream at burger king or dairy queen immediately after the burger fries chicken etc.

each meal at home when i eat he gets pissed about something has to be critical of food or how much i eat monitors my food yet eats any random trash he wants all day long. thoroughly upsetting my digestive system. has to get up see what i am eating every time. paces floor gets behind me grabs food if he thinks it looks good eats not because he is hungry. picks fight during meal. cannot sit still stay put during any meal breakfast lunch dinner. gets up opens fridge for individual things. he cant get several items out at once. puts one type of food on plate then gets up to get additional different foods sauces spreads .

watchful, watching things constantly people neighbors places things news weather.. eyes darting constantly wherever  he is

addict .. junk food sweets sauces cookies fast food, porn, conspiracy news online or in newspapers things promoting paranoia and one sided viewpoints black and white thinking,  

opinionated 

redneck

fear based

reactive

lacks empathy

vengeful

impulsive impatient 

fixed resistant to any changes of anything 

language deficient lacks understanding of word meanings 

sarcastic arrogant haughty mean hateful passionate one track minded at times

cluttered disorganized piles of everything he saves anything he comes across even a used condom

incorrigle unteachable

maintains false beliefs lies and argues with the dictionary definitions and people that are professionals in their field of work hobbies or anything 

will not listen to anything that contradicts what he believes

argumentative provokes instigates fights and problems 

picks at all people criticizing their looks beliefs habits appearance clothing cars trucks what they drive where they go and pastimes they have. when the pastimes hobbies beliefs ideas differ from his he becomes irate and often out of control going off like an atom or hydrogen bomb

does not want to let go of any material thing

hides things, money, activities 

closes up windows house fearing someone will see in especially when lights are on at night and closes blocks windows thinking it lets air in. mls put metal bars in wall over one basement window and boarded up the other window which does not allow escape in case of fire or emergency. totally against the law and building codes anywhere 

adamant about locking house doors and keeping garage door shut

jealous insanely 

hypocritical

righteous indignant full of haughty pride

yells often daily. 

frequently says why do you bring up the past which includes the last few minutes and anything before that.

says i dont want to hear it. talk about it.. go away get out of here/my face before i hit you. 

 denies treating me bad. feigns amnesia refuses responsibility for anything bad negative he says or does. 

physically active. deems his actions as the only important ones.

believes in master slave idea

can't have a real mature relationship or marriage with any women due to the deep level of childish emotional maturity level 

treats me like a mindless empty headed plastic wooden doll who has no brain or feelings because he doesnt care cannot comprehend that i am a live human being 

will leave piles of junk, trash, any item stored at any property or other people's houses storage areas

jwl had 3 large storage units at super flea full of old junk household and stuff used to sell at the music store

keeps shit from anyone he has had contact with as "memoirs" 

follows me around freaking out anytime i move things or clean or cook or eat or do anything

shoots orders at me to do what he thinks ought to be done in any area i am thinking about talking about or am visually doing

socially inept

bossy authoritarian dictatorial

jwl and ecm addicted to sports like football

mls addicted to news that he thinks is real regarding world issues politics trash

all addicted to sugary drinks; soda, sweet tea, gatorade, fruit juices

will leave plate of food unattended and run off do something else and answer the phone while eating then go back later eat stuff that flies have landed on ..will not cover the plate