he does many things right. pays bills on time. changes oil in vehicles regularly. maintains house car his truck my van. sometimes buys something for me for my birthday or christmas or randomly like new sheets pillows cases or another thing i mention if i said i like it such as the red plastic bucket he got for me at menards. he typically takes a shower in the morning because he is worried about his hair looking a mess and cant figure out how to wet it with a comb to make it straight, showers after doing hard manual labor in the yard or mechanic work or other dirty jobs.
i believe many years ago when he was a child and teen and in his 20s he was really trying to learn how to do the right things and look good and keep up appearances. over the years and all the accumulation of tons of stuff it has been getting more difficult to keep everything and maintain it all correctly.
he does not seem to understand that bugs insects pests dust accumulate more and more and hide it all places making it very difficult to live in a clean home. once in awhile he will wipe down things and discover just how dirty things are.
he does not seem to understand basic hygiene practices for cleaning and preventing spread of germs and illnesses. he cant understand easily that all things have a shelf life and freezer life and will go bad and not last forever. he always says oh that will be good for a long time, it is sealed, it is in a can or other sealed container.
he has no filter on his mouth and does not understand that he cannot take his words back, that i and people remember and dont forget what he said.
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