Grandma used to say "Monkey see, monkey do."

Grandma used to say "Monkey see, monkey do."

We're like monkeys and that's what we do.

5-4-2020

The walker. The talker.

The walker. The talker.

Yesterday my neighbor Peter
told me I am the walker.

Husband has told me for many years
Too bad you can't make money
talking because
that's all you do.

5-3-2020

The cracker incident.

On April 17, 2020 the only things I ate were a half a package of "generic"
Ritz crackers from Aldi's, about 3 ounces of hot pepper white cheese
and a can of Campbell's chicken noodle soup.

The next day I was miserable.  Contrary to my usual going
to the bathroom with ease, I was bound up, locked up and feeling
like "crap". Constipated by the glue in the gluten I ate along
with the  gooey cheese.

So on April 18, 2020 I decided to stop eating crackers, bread, noodles, buns,
cookies, cake, pie, donuts (yuck!! I haven't eaten those
disgusting things in years)--- anything made with flour
for one month to see what would happen.

As of today, May 2, 2020 I have lost ten pounds without even
trying. My intent was to feel better in my gut, not to lose
weight.

Foods That Cause Constipation

Anger and intolerance are the twin enemies of correct understanding. -- Mahatma Gandhi

Anger and intolerance are the twin enemies of correct understanding.
-- Mahatma Gandhi

He doesn't care about how much money you make.

He doesn't care about how much money you make.

He expects you to look good, the way you looked when you met him.

He wants you to be real and natural.

A man is designed for hard, strenuous work. He doesn't
expect a woman to do the kind of work he does.

If you have piled on makeup to look good and done other phony stuff
he will be shocked and scared half to death when he sees you without
all that makeup, glitter, glam, flashy, fake stuff.

If you allow yourself to add 30 pounds or more, gaining a lot of
weight because you are "comfortable" in the relationship and
believe it's okay to let yourself go because he will still "love you"
for your "personality"
regardless how you look, think again. This is a huge turnoff for a man.
He doesn't want to feel like he's having sex with a waterbed.

The minute he hears you are a feminist he is turned off.

He loves your/my long hair.

If you wear makeup keep it to a minimum. He expects you to
look like you did when you met him. If you look totally different
without makeup it scares him off.

Big muscles belong to men. If you look like a sumo wrestler
it's a turn off.

Alex is a man. He is a natural born mesomorph.
He likes to get up early in the morning.
I am naturally an ectomorph.
I like to sleep late and am slow to awaken.

He and his roommate, Travis LeVee talked with me at
length and we compared our arms while standing
outside in the driveway.

Alex has very wide shoulders and is musclebound with huge arms.
Travis is leaner and also has lots of muscle in his arms, abdomen
and legs.

I, on the other hand, have skinny little arms,
a lean abdomen and more fat distrubution in the
rearend and thighs. I am a girl/female/woman with this
natural born shape.

We all appreciated who and what we are.

Thanks guys!!


Thank you, Alex Tate and Travis LeVee
 Conversations in February, March and April, 2020.

No man has wanted to share me with any other.

No man has wanted to share me with any other.

They desired to possess me.

Why?

5-1-2020

Sarah Wilson Stillwell

I learned the most important things at home, with family, through experiences not in school.

I learned the most important things at home, with family, through experiences not in school.

4-29-2020

Sarah Wilson Stillwell