Saturday, November 8, 2025

Birthdays

 I have spent almost all of my birthdays alone for many years

my 50th birthday  I was with my grandpa in Belton, Missouri

he took me to a bar where he played poker, one of the games he liked to play

it was someone else's bday party and it happened to be mine, too

I played some poker games and was doing quite well with luck then a very large obese

black man won the last game and took all of my chips

another birthday without my husband

this was 15 years ago July 7, 2011

the summer after I was forced to go cold turkey off cigarettes begininning December 2010 when the transmission went out in my van and I was stuck at home for 8 months with him

my last bday age 64 I spent at hyvee urgent care with bug bites all over me. I didn't spend any time with him. we did nothing. no celebration, no dinner, nothing



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