https://psychcentral.com/blog/psychology-self/2018/08/narcissist-arguing#5
Tuesday, November 30, 2021
Monday, November 29, 2021
Slow burning anger; when I realize I have been ripped off my entire life by criminals
a huge list of
fraudulent criminals
they say these things
"I am not stupid"
'You are gullible"
You are stupid
I don't want to hear your philosophy
Trust me
To be honest with you..
What do you want me to say? ??
Openness HUGE Mistake, mine. Need to keep to myself; be quiet, slow to reveal anything
gullible
easy
naive
nice
sweet
honest
quick to love and appreciate
giving forgiving
grateful
Comparing is an attempt to destroy the unique spirit
Comparing is an attempt to destroy the unique spirit
comparing ; first step to
destruction of the spirit
Sunday, November 28, 2021
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ef·fi·cient | \ i-ˈfi-shənt \
Essential Meaning of efficient
: capable of producing desired results without wasting materials, time, or energy
an efficient worker
efficient machinery
Full Definition of efficient
1: productive of desired effects
especially : capable of producing desired results with little or no waste (as of time or materials)
an efficient worker
efficient machinery
2: being or involving the immediate agent in producing an effect
the efficient action of heat in changing water to steam
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effective, effectual, efficacious, fruitful, operative, potent, productive
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EFFECTIVE, EFFECTUAL, EFFICIENT, EFFICACIOUS mean producing or capable of producing a result. EFFECTIVE stresses the actual production of or the power to produce an effect. an effective rebuttal EFFECTUAL suggests the accomplishment of a desired result especially as viewed after the fact. the measures to stop the pilfering proved effectual EFFICIENT suggests an acting or a potential for action or use in such a way as to avoid loss or waste of energy in effecting, producing, or functioning. an efficient small car EFFICACIOUS suggests possession of a special quality or virtue that gives effective power. a detergent that is efficacious in removing grease
Comparing Efficient, Effective, and Proficient
These three words cover some overlapping territory.
Efficient most often describes what is capable of producing desired results without wasting materials, time, or energy. While the word can be applied to both people and things, it is far more commonly applied to things, such as machines, systems, processes, and organizations. The focus of the word is on how little is wasted or lost while the desired results are produced.
Effective typically describes things—such as policies, treatments, arguments, and techniques—that do what they are intended to do. People can also be described as effective when they accomplish what they set out to accomplish, but the word is far more often applied to things.
Proficient typically describes people, and it often is followed by the preposition at. If you are proficient at something, you are very good at it. You are, in fact, so good at doing it that you are unusually efficient when you do it. One can also be proficient in something, such as a language.
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Like a page-turner of a novel, [Nomar] Garciaparra keeps you eager to see what comes next, especially this season, when he will have the most efficient RBI machine in baseball, free-agent signee Manny Ramirez, riding shotgun with him.
— Tom Verducci, Sports Illustrated, 5 Mar. 2001
Short and muscular, he is as efficient as a surgeon, cracking eggs with one hand and tossing the shells into the basket under the counter behind him without looking, flipping bread into the slots of a row of toasters, and literally throwing "to go" orders ten feet down the counter to the guy manning the cash register.
— Paul Baumann, Commonweal, 18 July 1997
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Fun and fluid, the new interface animations and transitions are also more energy-efficient.
— Julian Chokkattu, Wired, 17 Nov. 2021
Eric Paschall just hasn’t been as efficient in scoring as Georges Niang was.
— Andy Larsen, The Salt Lake Tribune, 16 Nov. 2021
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First Known Use of efficient
14th century, in the meaning defined at sense 2
History and Etymology for efficient
Middle English, "active, immediate (of a cause)," borrowed from Middle French & Latin; Middle French, borrowed from Latin efficient-, efficiens "producing or giving rise to something, immediate (of a cause), active," from present participle of efficere "to make, bring about, produce, carry out" — more at EFFECT entry 1
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efficient adjective
ef·fi·cient | \ i-ˈfi-shənt \
Kids Definition of efficient
: capable of bringing about a desired result with little waste (as of time or energy)
an efficient worker
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efficiently adverb
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Saturday, November 27, 2021
Thursday, November 25, 2021
fallacy fake phony false teaching beliefs that ruin your life
work yourself into a frenzy
hard work never killed anyone
you're lazy unless you push yourself
always someone and something better OUT there,
better than what you are and what you have
your best is never good enough
competition is the way of life
you must cut throats and kill to get what you want
survival requires eliminating any others that are around who can eat your food take whatever you have
i will be happy LATER on, when such and such happens
i will be happy when .... i have this, i win the lottery,
other people change to suit me, outside circumstances fit what i want
Some people men mostly, (less often some women) spend a lot of money and or time fantasizing about one they do not have
people, any male or female
predominantly males
buy things like magazines, books, videos,
movies, tapes, gadgets
so they can fantasize imagine live in a fantasy
that they have
or are having sex
with a real person they have seen
be it neighbor, friend, family member
or a fictional person or people
they don't know
and will never meet
such as a multifude of stranger, strange, strangers
unknown
celeb celebrities
imagine, imagining being with some person somewhere
who exists in their mind not physically present not living in their life
Some people focus on fantasizing about having this
wonderful sex with another and
at the same time do not fully appreciate the person
they have in their life
always thinking that there is something and someone better
out there somewhere
That who they have is not good enough
Some will say anything to get the prize/dessert/sweet reward
lie connive cheat steal
manipulate
to get the thing they want
then do a 180 flip and
go back to being the real monster self
they are
until they are
hungry again
I love lighthouses. Light house. Why? I don't know
Loved to look at light houses ever since I was very young.
Don't know why because I never lived by one and
haven't been inside one.
It is a single tower by a body of water.
Solo. Expressing mystery and wisdom of nature and life at the same time.
Tuesday, November 23, 2021
stupid males think they can say whatever they want then buy you something and you will forget and forgive repeated ass hole behavior
they believe they can
buy their way out of being
a complete insidious nasty rude ass hole
they think you will automatically forget all of the
rotten crap they have said and done
if they buy you flowers, any gift at all
give you money
or do some hard work
they believe in punishment and reward system
Generalised thinking
I'm hungry so
I will eat anything
around, any food i see, smell that is convenient
i'm horny i will desire and screw what is available
i heard you say i want something so i will get you a general
vague item i thought i heard you say but i won't take the
time to find out exactly what you want because it take too much time and effort
not real picky or choosey about majority of things
Specific I am . General he she they are
very specific
not generalized
pinpointed
intelligent
accurate
definitive
to the point
exact
exacting
precise
Impudent
impudent
Definition of impudent
1: marked by contemptuous or cocky boldness or disregard of others : INSOLENT
2obsolete : lacking modesty
I (female woman) am the one to discern be picky as to choice of male company NOT the other way around
i choose associates, mate
who to be with in any situation
be it friend, spouse, in the company of any stranger momentarily
i choose to never tolerate rude nasty impudent improper any person male or female
Focus is key to accomplishment, a narc wants to break your concentration so you will fail to reach your goal of happiness
they know if they can
disrupt your focus on one thing at a time
they will destroy
your mission
keep focusing
A belief, a result of experiences, rote repetitive messages, repetition, instinct
belief is just a personal opinion
sometimes based on fact
usually upon individual experience
interpretation
messages pounded into conscious mind
by associates
media
world
Cinderella watch age 7. Birthday present 1968 July 7
Pink wrist watch with Cinderella on the face.
First watch I had.
Story of my life!
Cinderella
Little mommy
Monday, November 22, 2021
wimp man chicken shit actions
the weak wimp wimpy male
does not want to any other male viewing the female woman wife gf girlfriend anywhere at
anytime
will not want to be in the company of others or in any crowd of people
with the woman because he will not stand up for
defend her ever at any moment in time for any reason
is not proud of the woman in his life
will not tell her any positive things about her so that he
can try to destroy her self confidence and feelings of self worth and
adequacy
he spends massive amounts of money on himself and any items
he wants and throws a super fit temper tantrum if he think that
his woman has or desire any thing service, activity that
costs any money and
even becomes irate when she does any action that is completely
FREE costs no money at all
and that activity makes her happy
so she is beautiful without having any extra anything to try to
make herself attractive
he will not compliment her in public or rarely say any nice thing to her in
private. this is designed to keep her down in in control as if she is an
inanimate material object such as a piece of wood or plastic, metal or any other
material that cannot breathe eat or do any other life function
Male typical
spend large amounts of money on big ticket items for the self
spend money on self for any and all things he wants
deny the woman, wife, girlfriend, family, kids, children things they want
tell me the female that whatever i want is too costly, costs too much, is stupid,
unnecessary, that i don't need it,
house
building
car
truck
tools
equipment
machinery
hunting fishing boat boats boating
sports item hobby hobbies
guns ammo ammunition
whatever item he is interested in collecting
be it movies music entertainment items
electronics stereo amplifiers speakers
entertainment centers
view any type of porn pornography of any person place thing that
turns him on
block me stop my communication limit my interactions with anyone else
to go anywhere do anything
Top priorities for typical person: News, money, material things. Spectator sports. Designer clothing.
Expensive cars
merchandise
clothes shoes makeup perfume
Sunday, November 21, 2021
Hoarder beginnings
Clutter piles in majority of building
Can't find things
Cramped quarters
Tight hallways
Difficult to get through walkways hall entrance exits
Shelving and racks too much too high
Difficult to clean
Too time consuming to clean
Piles in each square inch or foot of space
Saying I don't have enough space
Says I don't have enough time
Minimizing the time it takes for other people to do something anything
Difficulty moving freely in the home or office or business / building
Entryways crowded
Stacks of stuff fall unexpectedly or
When walking thru small tight pathways in home
No or low maintenance or upkeep of properties
Simple tasks are impossible or take much longer than normal
Buying multiple products of same items because it is hard to find anything in the home
Saturday, November 20, 2021
all of us are children at heart regardless of age
re-creating
and seeking youth
in ourselves
and in other kids children
young people
teens
teenagers
20s 30s 40s 50s 60s 70s 80s 90s 100s
amass fortune or be poor: all seek youth
rich with money?
poor without?
all seek want desire
youth young
all like the cute
return to childhood
return to adolesence
teenage years teen teeny bopper
pubescent
prepubescent
innocent looking acting
active
bouncy
running jumping playing curious
iquisitive
What is the deal with some ugly old ladies and men owning beautiful expensive things?
I wonder if it makes one ugly as they age
to be obsessed with
owning material things
that cost a lot of money.
Noticed this phenonmenon.
"You don't need that" things I have been told I do not need
Formal education: college
Makeup
Expensive office software
such as microsoft office, intuit quickbooks, any similar item
Who wears celebrity clothing? Why does anyone use food, makeup, cologne/perfume or any item designed and sold by a celebrity?
Do celebrities wear their own clothing ?
Do they wear other celebrity clothing?
Do they wear each other's perfume/cologne or
makeup line?
Thursday, November 18, 2021
grandma said they all want sex, pick a man with some money, which i did not do
i chose love
did not pick any guy due to the amount of money he has or had
the thought of coupling with a man
i cannot stand is so revolting
even once
and especially having to live with one
and have intimate relations for years
hundreds of times
i chose love
none of them loved me
it was purely to take out their sexual desires upon me
because they couldn't get anyone else
a hole is all i have been treated as: like celie in the color purple movie and many other movies/stories
maid
cinderella
alice in wonderland
sex object hole
not one male has ever had interest in me as i am
who and what i am
myself
my mind
what i want
what i need
simply around for a replacement
hole
convenient
to take the place of some one else some other
woman they want and fantasize about
Wednesday, November 17, 2021
Get house and fill it with stuff. Society teaches us this concept as if it should be the Goal
Is this really the meaning of life?
To fill up all available space
with stuff.
Cram the home so full you can't even move around?
Tuesday, November 16, 2021
Barking dogs are like crying babies. Disturbing us by calling attention to themselves
how can some people tolerate
constant barking dogs
and ignore
a baby crying
it drive me up a tree nuts
bat shit crazy
i cannot ignore it, these sounds of
animals crying calling out for help
Unreal ideas that do not exist: cause of destruction and problems
first last
best worst
winner loser
beautiful ugly
smartest dumbest
Monday, November 15, 2021
Girl I am going to fatten you up. He gave me doughnuts at super flea every weekend.
skip, duren sleyster owner at super flea in the old
montgomery wards building
would give me donuts in the morning when I
came in to work at the booth on the weekend
(saturday and sunday)
he said, 'girl , i / we are going to fatten you up!"
2009 he died at age 85
he knew doughnuts are a type of food that causes
fat swelling and weight gain
I learned this fact when I was 15 from personal experience
boyfriend bert kaderly would take me to get doughnuts
in the moring before school
i gained 10 pounds in one month
so i quit eating 2 or 3 doughnuts a day and lost the weight
Sunday, November 14, 2021
What I experienced
Some are nice some are not
All can be both
Some are nice most of the time
those are genuinely kind
All people know how to be polite in public
Fake or real natural
Phony or. Genuine
Out for what they can get at someone else's expense
Thieves back stabbers robbers selfish stingy greedy
Inherently cruel mean hateful killers
Dream destroyers
Out to sincerely help others out of desire to see all happy
Benevolent kind helpful sweet trustworthy truthful
Don't understand cruelty
He will look at you or me if he wants sex. Or money. Period.
Duties errands
Chores
Business
Sex
Why he looks at me or you
He wants something from you
He cares only about what he can get or gain
He doesn't care one iota about me or what I want or need
Just like an animal
Example my pet cat. She hangs around me only when she's hungry
And circles hovers around her food bowl dish
She leaves promptly after she gets what she wants...food
Water milk
Saturday, November 13, 2021
Scud bucket behavior
Empty threats
Complete threats followed by criminal action
Stealing, lying, cheating
How to beat a slumlord at his own game
How to beat a slumlord at his own game
https://stories.avvo.com/money/how-to-beat-a-slumlord-at-his-own-game.html
Slum lord landlord behavior
"The goal is to use and abuse tenants and do as little as possible, all the while collecting as much income as possible, while the property steadily declines."
Are You Dealing With A Slumlord? Five Signs To Watch For
https://www.forbes.com/sites/forbesrealestatecouncil/2020/03/11/are-you-dealing-with-a-slumlord-five-signs-to-watch-for/?sh=6b966bc44f62
Property is registered with government offices for valid reasons
If we did not have the government offices to properly register
ownership of property such as a house, home, automobile,
boat, trailer, etcetera
and marriage licenses issued
an unknown number of people
would steal, rape, lie, cheat, rob, pillage and do
whatever they want with anyone anywhere any place and
anything without regard or respect for
any person, place, animal or thing
Friday, November 12, 2021
Cabin in the woods. Live simple. Swim. Fire pit. BBQ
sun bathe
swim
orchard
farm
animals
space 5-10 acres
Thursday, November 11, 2021
NO pleasing is possible with narcissist
Forever controlling, attempting to control everyone except themselves
Miserable
and can't figure out why... doesn't want to know why...
doesn't want to hear IT,
IT being anything except for BAD news
nasty stuff and
WARS, crime, hate ,,, and talking about how
HORRILE people are and the world is
Identifying snake dick ass behaviors and rotten personality
Easy to do:
Are you/they complaining
criticizing
whining bitching moaning a lot?
Are you being greedy, selfish, self-centered me first and plain mean?
Nasty?
Rude, pushy, hateful, resentful, vengeful?
Egotistical, cocky, holier than thou
my shit don't stink attitude?
Is each and everything an episode of destruction
with you or them throwing a temper tantrum fit
like a little tyrant who can't have their own way
with it all?
Are you threatening someone, somebody, some thing with some
kind of destruction or loss?
Do you place too high of a value on your stuff
saying well I have got to get at least this much money out of
that thing or else I am NOT going to sell it
then turn around and
not want to pay anything for anything expecting alot of things
to be plain FREE and people to do stuff for you for NOTHING
because you think EVERYONE OWES YOU
and YOU DON'T OWE ANYBODY A GOD DAMNED THING!
Do you HATE to do anything for anyone?
Do you DESPISE others and hate animals and children?
Chronic stress destroys it all regardless of diet, exercise, money.. Dump it.
Avoid stressful people
and situations you/I don't need
Conflict on constant basis with no relief and no possibility of joy
is the same as being chased by a wild animal (lions, tigers and bears
ha ha)
and you're running at top speed to get away
to save your life
but you can't get away from the beast
chasing you mentally
eliminate any unnecessary stress
Your kidneys overproduce adrenaline
your liver and kidneys crash
you're dead, going to push yourself into an early grave
running yourself ragged into the ground (the GRAVE)
for the WHAT? the almighty DOLLAR
working for a slave owner who thinks they are your master
HUH! Who is the master, who's your boss??
Ideas inventions business, products, activities, collaboration
Now sold as ellipse the pedal machine to move feet i invented in my mind when i worked at irs as a data transcriber 1997 january to may
Sitting for 8 hours a day in a chair was horrible for my body legs back neck arms . A bicycle like pedalling device placed in front of the chair so i could move my feet id what i thought woulc be brilliant to aid circulation and pain relief
My life is fraught with many ideas and inventions i never got credit for . I didnt know how to go about implementing them for prototypes and resale
My lack of know how, lack of media input and influence, is the only differenve between me and the wealthy, famous, rich people
Mud manure slingers and gold dust sprinklers: two types of people
To the shit slingers throwing mud
hey I grow better and better with more crap you throw on me!
thanks to you A holes talking from the butt end rear
gold dust sprinkling fairy godmothers:
thank you so much for your sweet love and my and all dreams you support
dreams are where life begins/starts and the reason to keep on going!!
cheer leaders rule!
Wednesday, November 10, 2021
Found whatever I sought
each time I wanted to learn know
anything
have found what I was looking for
seek and ye shall find
'I don't know' is not accepted by some people
those who can't understand
think they have to know each and every little thing
are controlling, fearful
I answer alot of questions with I dont know because IDK
and one who cannot get it
badgers me repeatedly with endless identical questions
demanding a fixed solid answer as to what is going on
and who is doing this or that and why are they and
what is going to happen
with certainty
and I simply say
I don't know
drives him nuts bat shit crazy
over the edge
bend over; bending over is all it takes
bend over; bending over is all it takes
he instantly thinks of sex
"round thing in my face"
why he follows me around
he has to know what i am doing every second when i am around
trying to determine my state of arousal
am i ready or not
he does the SAME thing to every female anywhere at any and all moments
he is trying to figure out what i am doing
thinking feeling
going to do
and usually has no clue as to what i am
so he or she remains confused as heck
scared because has no control over me or it all
I / we Instantly recognize what we see hear smell taste touch to determine what it is
male determines desire for and access to sex instantly
female scans entire area for same to determine suitability and desire
Monday, November 8, 2021
What purpose did I serve to him and past males?
sources of use: sex and money
being used for stable reliable sex partner
(I fell in love, they simply want sex, period)
errand runner
house cleaner
maid
child bearer (they did NOT want any children, giving birth was not planned,
it was an accident)
doormat
some "BODY" to have around as if I am an inanimate DOLL
without any brain, feelings, thoughts or anything of my own
Veritas Truth Light bulb comes on with realizations
truth
finally knowing realizing
why now and past things people said and done
are making more and more sense to me
I've had enough of chicken shit little boy adult males
immature
impolite rude
easily angered
lie cheat steal
dont want commitment marriage
cant understand anything
dont want to understand
constantly saying i am not stupid
perverted sex obsessed
pornography is their thing
cant treat one woman right and desire to have sex with all
egotistical tyrant
selfish
hoard things hoarders
wont give skin off a grape to anyone
miserly miserable
hateful
micro managing
humiliate others
no regard for anyone's feelings
materialistic
believe having money and things are top priority
think they can have sex with any woman they want
treat the woman they have like dirt filth and cockroach
buy expensive things for themselves and deny
even simple things and free pleasures to their woman
feel entitled to everything
do not respect boundaries
disrespectful of me and others
cant admit not knowing
dont want children
dont like children
want sex act performance and no responsibility of the effect which is
producing children
self satisfaction is first and foremost for them.. everyone else is
non existent, unimportant trash in their mind
Hoarder house lessons I learned realized this year 2021
Matthew 6:19
Verse Concepts
“Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal.
Ecclesiastes 5:13
There is a grievous evil which I have seen under the sun: riches being hoarded by their owner to his hurt. When those riches were lost through a bad investment and he had fathered a son, then there was nothing to support him. As he had come naked from his mother's womb, so will he return as he came.
Lesson 2021 “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal.
Matthew 6:19
Verse Concepts
“Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal.
Matthew 6:20
Verse Concepts
But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys, and where thieves do not break in or steal;
Source: https://bible.knowing-jesus.com/topics/Storing-Treasure-On-Earth
Saturday, November 6, 2021
Poor parenting and people skills. Mothers and fathers who do NOT know best
Poor parenting and people skills. Mothers and fathers who do NOT know best
Telling the person what to do in each and every single moment
Asking repetitive unnecessary questions
Questioning each thought, feeling, action of the other
Judging the child, the person's own judgment as to what they need
Believing you know when the other person is hungry and what they want to eat
Acting like you don't know why someone does any particular thing they do
Forcing nonsense information upon another
Pushing trivia onto others as if it is the meaning of intelligence
NOT allowing the child/person to learn for themselves
Taking over each and every activiy of the other
Name calling
Threats, punishment
Restricting any or all movement of another
Micro managing constantly
Assuming the other person is ignorant, stupid, incapable and can't think or
figure or do anything for themselves as if they are an idiot
Physical: Pushing, shoving, hitting, slapping
Interrupting the other not allowing them to finish a sentence or
an activity they are involved in
Expecting someone to immediately stop doing what are doing and
respond to your demand
Assuming you know what the other is thinking and what they are
going to say
Putting words into someone's mouth
Unrealistic expectations
Expecting perfecion
Demanding respect and not being respectful
Being a hypocrite
Be seen. That is all it takes for a female such as I am
Female such as I am
in my own experiences
learned countless times
that being seen is all it takes
for a heterosexual male,
not any one man in particular
but virtually any variety of man or boy
in any type of living circumstance
be he single, married, attached or not
who has reached adolescent sexual maturity
who has been anywhere I have been or has
seen me in a photograph but never in person
to approach me
and his goal is SEX
The female doesn't have to DO anything to be desired
or approached. Just be seen, sometimes just heard
His one and single aim is to
do that one thing
trying and hoping to accomplish that
and get it over with
so then he goes on to the next
female /woman/ girl and the next
and the next onto infinity
Some are truthful upfront honest about it
some are direct quick fast in their approach attempt to gain access
some lie, deceive, manipulate, coerce
some force push insist rape injure physically mentally
some are demanding insistent feel entitled
some beg plead get down on their knees bow their head
some desire ownership possession total control
some don't do anything they act shy and scared
some woo be nice polite gentlemanly
some tease humiliate criticize
some try to get some kind of reaction out of me; a testing ground
some try to buy it will offer to pay with money goods services
some expect it for free
some think they have to work hard for it
some show off with physical strength, money flashing, loud things
like cars and trucks
some are bold
some are weak
some are humble
some love
some don't understand love
some do not love
some only have lust
some don't know why they do what they do
some don't have a clue
school, college did not teach me these basic life lessons
each person is unique and has their own personality
each animal is unique
some people change their personality persona when around different people
one is not better than the other
7 deadly sins: "Sin"being a mistake:
pride / EGO
avarice (greed)
wrath/anger
lust
envy covet covetous desire what someone else has or what you think they have
gluttony; wanting more than what I you need
sloth lazy laziness not paying attention to simple things and taking care
of them
lack of self awareness
talking too much or not at all
words without action
house i own all my life is my body. the place I live in can change at
any moment
material things are easily had and replaceable, people are not
do I own stuff or does stuff own me?
spirit cannot be contained and controlled
trying to forcefully control someone backfires with their resistance
Acting like a parent/being parental produces conflict
Examples, IE:
"You should feel, think, do, be this or that"
"I know what is best for you and everyone else"
"I know what you need and what you want.
You don't know yourself therefore you
can't and are not able to think for yourself"
"I know what you are thinking"
"Here let me do it for you"
"I am only trying to help" does not help
thinking you can run someone else's life
you or I know what someone else OUGHT to do
the tighter you hold onto someone or something the more you
lose them and it
watching someone eat food does not satisfy my hunger
nobody wins we all end up dead eventually
experience the moment; that is all I /you/we have
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