Grandma would say "I like to have fun" and Grandpa agitated her to get her mad destroying her good mood

 Just exactly like my husband and former 2 husbands

These all think money and material things are/ is the answer. 

The last two are always looking for that "perfect" looking doll woman and never investing into the woman they have. Some other woman is always better than what they've got.

Wrapped up into movies, porn and images of someone somewhere else 

NOT having fun with me. Ever