huge people pleasing mistakes i have made
been many places
was taught to always be nice to everyone
bad thing to do. wrong advice.
wasted years
missed great opportunities
at gatherings social scenes some undesirable person starts talking to me and i talk back not wanting to appear snobby rude hateful arrogant proud goody 2 shoes and they wasted my time because the desirable ones saw me associating with crumbs and walked away
if i would have had a brain i would have understood what grandma sarah told me ...keep them at arms length. ignore the undesirables. keep to yourself. dont tell everybody everything. dont mingle lie down with dogs scum trash they will drag you down to their level.
when young i let people take advantage of me fearing i would be injured or killed or called bad names like a prick teaser.
the injuries and humiliation i endured is far worse than it would have been if i would have kept quiet to most and reserved my discussions to a select high quality few people
mind your own business. keep personal things to yourself.
look good. be classy. be aloof.
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