a balance must be made so i am not selfish or self sacrificing
if i sacrifice all if myself to self serving people i am no longer myself and a happy sane balanced person
i used to give all to make someone else happy only to discover i cannot make them happy. they suck all my energy, drain me, want more and demand more. never happy. the more i give the more they expect
and when i give too much i am not respected, not appreciated.
when i give in to something i do not want i am considered a weak stupid fool.. a naive idiot
so i have learned to set boundaries and some selfish people dont like it
too bad. wish i would have known a long time ago i am not a doormat
it is up to me to take care of myself first. clean up my messes and others should do the same.
masters and slaves are out of the question. both are miserable creatures
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