This friend tried to get me to meet him at a motel wanting sex

 I never told anyone who

Which is named stitz

And he has known me and my husband for many years, since 2002 or 2003

I refused the motel offer he said one time and ignored sex offer every time he mentioned it

I have zero interest in him or intention of ever doing anything with this person. It is strictly business and friendship, I thought it was anyway. 

It appears no man can be my friend and he not having ideas other than friendship