fears rule him

 stiff, wants certainty, hates changing things owned in house home environment.  fearful fear based scared afraid box square rigid inflexible 

pushy pushes his ideas opinions thoughts beliefs activities desires habits food preferences hobbies anything about him onto anyone around

cant take or accept differences disagreements. 

my free spirit confidence flexibility ideas myself is biggest threat to him

believes in control of others total compliance

thinks everybody is watching him because he watches all ithers

has to be right about everything

wont listen to ideas advice information