Questions asked start the fight because he/she doesn't understand me, my thinking, reasoning or methods

in fact this applies to everyone else in the world as he can't seem to understand differences in people period. and this behavior is like my ex mother in law, my grandmother (both my moms mom and dads mom), my step grandpa leroy mitchell. control freaks 

and i do this same thing ... seeing what someone is doing or going to do and giving advice suggestions and all and guess what..they do not listen. the person continues to do exactly what they feel like doing.

q's like 

"what are you doing?'  

what are you going to do with that? 

what food are you going to make? 

any plans for today? 

where are you going? 

the best thing he can do is shut the freek up 

 never ask me any of these ridiculous questions about 

anything I am doing or planning to do 

or how i feel or what i want or 

where i am going who i am talking to 

what i am talking about, what i want, what i think, how i feel

why i am doing this or that

why i dress like i do

he is in a state of constant confusion about me and most people

regardless of how i answer the question he comes up with something he thinks

i should or should not do and believes this is the only way to do it