A weak, fearful, frightened little boy in a man's body
has poor social skills
no one can ever pay you back
everybody owes you forever
doubting skeptical negative mean selfish
lording over behavior
demands respect but doesn't give it
believes in slavery and imprisonment (slaves and prison)
uses torture, either ongoing mental, emotional, psychological and/or physical abuse
can't easily make a decision
can't make a mistake
never forgets another persons' mistake
can't accept what is perceived as a fault, weakness, illness in others or self
demands perfection of self and others
avoids responsibility for own behavior
diverts blame to someone else, it's never his fault
cannot use logic when dealing with any situation that involves emotions,
feelings, ethics, rights of other living beings
easily frustrated when confronted with truth about the self, motives and intentions
then becomes angry, threatening, belittling, critical, blaming
believes victims causes bad things to happen to themselves
and does not blame or rarely blames the perpetrator
justifies own criminal or bad behavior blaming victim for bringing it upon themselves
gives the self credit for all things good or beneficial
denies having said what he said and claims he meant something else if
confronted in front of a third party
submits to authority figures, fears institutions, government officials, the boss at work
appears mild and meek mannered in social situations, in public, to authority
but is the opposite in personal one on one situations

encourages and feeds codependency, the master/slave relationship
keeping others in the place he wants them to be by exercising control
over their behavior
keeps chaos going on to induce anxiety so the thoughts of victim must
be centered on the controller, rarely upon the self
attempts to strip individual of their own identity by eliminating their
choices, sense of self, reasoning, abilities, talents and admiration, love
and respect by other people besides the narcissistic controller
tries to cause individual to distrust their own feelings, intuition and sense of power