He's got the What's in it for me? attitude.
He knows the cost of everything and the value of nothing.
Cold, hard cash, gold and silver is his god and the only he recognizes as
something of value.
He frequently states that people, animals and plants are worthless.
He devalues, invalidates and minimizes the deeds of others, ignoring the
countless words, talk, actions, gifts from other people that allow opportunities
for him to benefit through his work or simply by being alive.
He is impatient, almost always in a hurry to get there, to arrive at the destination
and to get the thing or things he is after, rarely enjoying the journey along the way.
He complains often.
He threatens often.
He is angry, bitter, vengeful, hateful and prejudiced.
His thoughts and actions are based on fear and this propels him to act.
He is rarely grateful or appreciative of anything or anyone.
He expects to receive large, expensive gifts. He gives small gifts related to something he likes.
He says "That's nothing" when he receives gifts or money from others.
He pretends to give things or money to others but always expects to be paid back.
He is sad, moody, depressed, down, miserable, frustrated, mean
He is self-righteous.
He can never be wrong.
He is authoritarian, dictatorial.
He is submissive at work, at a job where he receives money and pretends
to be meek, kind, considerate, thoughtful and agreeable as long as he gets the pay check.
He is very protective of material things and property and will fight to preserve it but
will not fight to protect a person from harm be it verbal, emotional or physical.
He knows nothing about ethics, standards, morals or pure goodness and does not care to know.
He frequently says "Shut the f*** up" to his spouse, whom he views as an object he owns, possesses,
dominates and rules over.
He is most concerned with his outward physical appearance as well as the outside appearance of others and material things.
He believes in competition and that one is better than the other.
He equates his self worth with how much money he has, how much property he has and how much
money it is worth.
He thinks there is always something better out there to be had.
He covets and wants things that other people have, including food, even if he is not hungry.
He is always watching, looking outside of himself.
He is rarely happy with anything he has or anyone he knows or sees.
He often says "I don't have a choice"
He becomes mad,pissed off and angry when he sees others happy and having a good time.
He frequently calls people stupid and says "I'm not stupid!"
He accuses others of not understanding, often saying, "You don't understand" as well as
stating the same about himself ; "I can't understand" or 'I don't understand you or this or that"
He often says he has been or feels ripped off , taken advantage of
He accuses others of stealing, lying, cheating, destroying and tearing things up, saying
people don't take care of things.
He uses lots of name calling and threats and expects to get good results.
He has no regard for the feelings of other people, lacking empathy and concern.
He will attack hardest when you are weak, tired, ill, sick, sad, down, depressed, financially
broke or devasted or if you show any sign of having anything other than good health.
He will not fight against someone bigger than him or one he thinks of as an authority figure.
He will not protect his wife, any children or anyone else's family.