Wednesday, June 18, 2025

Family Pattern of my inlaws

 Family Pattern 


blames others for situation and problems such as family members, partner, spouse is the one that creates problematic situations

acts like the victim 

paranoid


believes everyone uses each other out to get them

nitpicks nags complains bitches at partner and the world

looking for the "perfect" person with no "flaws"


trouble organizing things

accumulates too much stuff making life far more complicated

says things are complicated and can't see the simplicity and simple solutions to solve problems


immediately finds fault with anyone or any situation, place, circumstance

refuses to listen to simple solutions

negative focused


finds shit immediately and focuses on how aggravating it is, 

how much things suck, stink, get on their nerves

can't understand much of anything


another persons happiness and joy pisses them off because they are miserable with themselves

jealous of success of other people

says people who have lots of money don't deserve it because they should have it 

either because they work so hard or simply because they deserve it for no reason


accuses other people of screwing up their life when they are the ones who screw up

other's lives

self defeating

no one is good enough for them or good enough at any task or job


thinks they can do everything better

calls almost everyone stupid, incompetent and

says people "drag their feet" when in fact they are the ones dragging their feet


tries to make people realize "the truth" and avoids facing facts

aversion to smoke especially cigarette smoking and smells it when it is not there

outer world focused, external 


relies on external things to change before being "happy"

sabotages other people's efforts and joy and happiness

loses things accuses someone of stealing it, taking or moving it and

will move other peoples things without asking


crosses boundaries of others and gets irate if their boundaries and areas are crossed

keeps tabs on everything they "give" to anyone

expects a return on whatever they give to anyone


thinks they ought to be paid money for just about everything

takes advantage of any person or situation 

will not do a thing out of sheer kindness of heart desiring to see someone happy and smiling


sabotages parties events get togethers 

demands to be center of attention 

looks at lots of other people as worthless undeserving 


does not appreciate and yet demands to be appreciated and recognized

confused constantly 

thinks police are watching and after them


has head in the sand, foot in the mouth, head up their ass

spews out nasty comments and can't take any form of criticism, critique 


looks at self as GOD in control of all

ulterior motives are behind whatever they do and they accuse all others of 

having ulterior motives


gardening in dirt hobby in the family

marjorie sharon dorothy michael

seems to bring temporary joy


early morning risers

no dancers or dancing in this family

rigid hard work is glorified


some had several boyfriends girlfriends on the side 

like john and karen


"gives" people stuff they don't like expects them to act happy about it

sometimes gives me or a person a thing they like then acts like it is a

huge big deal that they were so "generous" and thoughtful


keeps things secret from spouse and tells each family member news

then acts like they told the spouse when they did not


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