Family Pattern
blames others for situation and problems such as family members, partner, spouse is the one that creates problematic situations
acts like the victim
paranoid
believes everyone uses each other out to get them
nitpicks nags complains bitches at partner and the world
looking for the "perfect" person with no "flaws"
trouble organizing things
accumulates too much stuff making life far more complicated
says things are complicated and can't see the simplicity and simple solutions to solve problems
immediately finds fault with anyone or any situation, place, circumstance
refuses to listen to simple solutions
negative focused
finds shit immediately and focuses on how aggravating it is,
how much things suck, stink, get on their nerves
can't understand much of anything
another persons happiness and joy pisses them off because they are miserable with themselves
jealous of success of other people
says people who have lots of money don't deserve it because they should have it
either because they work so hard or simply because they deserve it for no reason
accuses other people of screwing up their life when they are the ones who screw up
other's lives
self defeating
no one is good enough for them or good enough at any task or job
thinks they can do everything better
calls almost everyone stupid, incompetent and
says people "drag their feet" when in fact they are the ones dragging their feet
tries to make people realize "the truth" and avoids facing facts
aversion to smoke especially cigarette smoking and smells it when it is not there
outer world focused, external
relies on external things to change before being "happy"
sabotages other people's efforts and joy and happiness
loses things accuses someone of stealing it, taking or moving it and
will move other peoples things without asking
crosses boundaries of others and gets irate if their boundaries and areas are crossed
keeps tabs on everything they "give" to anyone
expects a return on whatever they give to anyone
thinks they ought to be paid money for just about everything
takes advantage of any person or situation
will not do a thing out of sheer kindness of heart desiring to see someone happy and smiling
sabotages parties events get togethers
demands to be center of attention
looks at lots of other people as worthless undeserving
does not appreciate and yet demands to be appreciated and recognized
confused constantly
thinks police are watching and after them
has head in the sand, foot in the mouth, head up their ass
spews out nasty comments and can't take any form of criticism, critique
looks at self as GOD in control of all
ulterior motives are behind whatever they do and they accuse all others of
having ulterior motives
gardening in dirt hobby in the family
marjorie sharon dorothy michael
seems to bring temporary joy
early morning risers
no dancers or dancing in this family
rigid hard work is glorified
some had several boyfriends girlfriends on the side
like john and karen
"gives" people stuff they don't like expects them to act happy about it
sometimes gives me or a person a thing they like then acts like it is a
huge big deal that they were so "generous" and thoughtful
keeps things secret from spouse and tells each family member news
then acts like they told the spouse when they did not
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