He

 cocky. arrogant. acts entitled. lacks empathy, appreciation, respect. 

inconsistent emotions. unsteady. volatile. moody. hateful. vengeful. mean. 

rarely demonstrates affection such as kissing hugging pats on back or anywhere. no cuddling or pleasant love conversations even after having sex. he says sex is good exercise, period.

becomes upset when i hug other people, when i talk to anyone, when i am me freely expressing myself.

 focused on the physical such as sex and hard work. money material things and self gratification are top priorities 

poor social skills especially with me. publicly appears polite nice clean hard working thoughtful.

always says what is your objective. what is your point. what are you trying to say. you think you know everything. just shut the fuck up. you are a dimwit, stupid, make no sense. dont know what youre talking about.

like a child/baby/infant easily wakened/ distracted. i must get him to focus on something else or wait til he is asleep or gone before i can accomplish anything. i must be quiet, not make noise, do not make any smells or sounds or be near him or touch him or have lights on otherwise he will wake up if sleeping or inquire about what i am doing if he is awake. sometimes i wonder if he ever really sleeps. seems like he doesnt deep sleep like i do. it is like he is half awake with one eye open all the time.