Public personality different than private

 To outside public neighbors he appears calm not rattled rational sensible common ordinary mild mechanical reasonable hard working meek agreeable clean neat organized together 

Little do they know of the anxious fearful skeptical paranoid distrustful threatening terrorist actions behaviors hypocritical micromanaging unsure and cocksure hateful egotistical arrogant name calling sneaky opinionated illogical imaginary accusatory restrictive unreasonable goings on at home