Lazy. Laziness.

 Forms of being lazy are many and varied. There are the physical and the mental kinds of laziness.

In his mind he believes physical activity especially work requiring hard manual labor and body strength shows that he is not lazy. He does lots of physical body labor often. 

I am very limited on my ability to lift objects even things over 5 to 10 pounds. I used to lug heavy things around like buckets, ladders, tool boxes, heavy things like boxes full of stuff, televisions, stereo equipment, sheets of 4x8 sheetrock and plywood, vacuuming with that old 20 lb pound vacuum cleaner he finally got rid of a few months ago and replaced it with another fairly large vacuum cleaner, etc but it is more and more difficult for me to maneuver these items.  

My body is unable to lug this heavy stuff around like I used to so I must used my mind, my ingenuity in order to get things done. 

My mind is anything but lazy. Constantly on the go and working. Wanting to find the best and easiest way to get things needed like food and do things that need to be done. Organizing, straightening, cleaning. Wanting to know why and how and what to do, when to do it and who, if anyone, to do things for or with.

His mind looks for ways to get out of doing basic stuff like food prep, meal planning, laundry, proper house cleaning or any other streamlined way of doing anything.

So he looks for any kind of fast food ready to eat, not taking much effort. Eat the food, leave dirty plates usually in the sink and immediately jump out out of the chair either at the table or the recliner and go do something else after he puts food away that needs refrigerated. 

It is an eat and run attitude action. 

His laziness of mind includes putting forth no effort to get along, have a normal happy relationship with me, doing any fun activities that may or may not require planning. He makes no effort to think carefully about what he is saying before he speaks his mind about me or anyone else. 

Interesting that the things he hates to most are:
laziness, sloppiness, someone saying or doing anything without considering him and doing it his way, lateness, sliding on paying bills on time, criticism of any word or action of his, any comment contradictings anything he says or does,

items that stink and are smelly to him such as certain foods like coffee popcorn perfumes smoke from fires burning outside in yards, people not 'wanting to " pay him, stinginess, greed of others, stupid stupidity of anyone, know it all egotistical bragging braggarts, 

Basically he hates lazy, stupid, thoughtless people. Inconsiderate, rude, sloppy who don't pay attention to him and the details he thinks about.