consistently misinterprets what i say

frequently says does things i specifically told him I don't like

misplaces things accuses me of moving taking or throwing giving away

repeats himself like a parrot Minaj bird

buys things i mentioned i am going to shop for by himself my presence input not included

calls me a know it all that is what he thinks he is

constantly uses the word should telling me what to do

confused angry anxious upset most of the time

makes phone calls in his garage bedroom outside planning things sometimes informs me at last minute he is leaving or someone is coming over sometimes does not tell me then claims he did

shopping together incidents are crazy bad 

walking together is him almost running 20 feet or more ahead of me

feeds stray cats and says i am sick if cats. uses our dishes does not use enough soap disinfect plates bowls we eat off of