Him

 consistently misinterprets what i say

frequently says does things i specifically told him I don't like

misplaces things accuses me of moving taking or throwing giving away

repeats himself like a parrot Minaj bird

buys things i mentioned i am going to shop for by himself my presence input not included

calls me a know it all and that what he is

constantly uses the word "should" telling me what to do

confused angry anxious upset most of the time

makes phone calls in his garage bedroom outside planning things sometimes informs me at last minute he is leaving or someone is coming over sometimes does not tell me then claims he did

shopping together incidents are crazy bad 

walking together is him almost running 20 feet or more ahead of me then he stops and turns around to see if i am still there

feeds stray cats and says i am sick if cats. uses our dishes does not use enough soap disinfect plates bowls we eat off of

pounds in repeats any flaws mistakes i made or make ..goes on and on for lengthy periods of time about any perceived defect i have physically personality speech actions what i am wearing 

remains faultless 

rarely apologizes says i am sorry for his bad behavior then promptly repeats the same abusive words and actions then acts like he did nothing bad 

accuses me of being exactly like him: nasty, mean, hateful

he looks around the room to see how old people look compared to him

constantly comparing himself to others by looks of his physical body and ownership of material things and abilities

snackaholic

easily influenced to buy whatever he sees

worldy. does more for any other person except me

money focused. will do it for pay

shakes. hands are shaky i dont know why but i will find out. could be massive sugar intake along with caffeine.

has to know everything i am doing when i am in the kitchen, the pantry or laundry room downstairs, outside, in any room i am in then tries to change what i am doing, directing, ordering, advising, giving shooting orders about what he thinks i should be doing or should say. this covers most things i do including cooking food. he seems to think i should be making food only he likes. takes contol of the vacuum cleaner, house cleaning, dusting, movin, g anything around unless it is in my room (the only area I have some control over). even is he sees me writing he has to butt in, interrupt me and ask me "what are you doing?" and thinks I should be watching tv or always have some outside media influence on at all times like he does

he cannot sit still reflect, meditate, concentrate even on a small thing like a blade of grass, a bug, a candle, rock, the sky or any thing of nature

full of angry constantly daily 

he is the war zone, warmonger monger

misinterprets others actions and words consistently and says oh he/she is mad at me because i won't go there haven't been there when the truth is he is always mad at someone else then blames me for his outbursts. the madness stems from him his feelings reactions. he is reactive not responsive and frequently wrong about my and other people's motives feelings actions

he projects himself onto me and other people constantly

he doesn't want anyone else to think bad of him in anyway yet he says and thinks horrible thoughts and things about other people daily

he projects his own inabilities and failures lack of certain skills upon me and other people frequently saying "I doubt it",  "You can't do that", "I don't believe it", "You are too old", "That costs too much money", 

will not listen to medical professionals about diet, health, eating, drinking, mental issues

he seeks out bad news, disasters, wars negative influences people, the most horrible things and outcomes of all

he makes sure to say the most insulting things at every possible chance

misfit

never happy. always miserable

says "I don't want to hear it!" and covers his ears with his hands like a small child

and "Shut the fuck up before I knock you on your ass!" and has often ran up the stairs shaking his fists at me and has pushed me, knocked me down to the floor, punched me in the jaw, 

cannot handle any truthful analysis of his behavor or disagreement with what he thinks about anything

rebellious, mean, vengeful, hateful, 

pissed off majority of the time

unable to make fast best decisions on things like car truck purchase, house insurance because it takes him forever to get professional advice and research

is constantly confused about most things

will repeat things he heard on conspiracy theory news sites and proclaims them as truth

easily persuaded by advertising at times,

brainwashed by news

will talk about things he knows about such as mechanical things and some things he learned in about dinosaurs the big bang and act like he is so smart and all knowing about science

says "it's complicated" on most things. cars, processes. cannot simplify most things

is simple. expects simplicity

laughs at stupidity of other people all the time, rarely admits his own stupid idiot words, sayings, thoughts, actions, motives or deeds

believes in hoax hoaxes aliens ufo abduction travis walton 1975, billy meier betty barney hill, psychic readings (he had one as a teen young man and taped it on cassette) sleeping prophet edgar cayce

lacks critical thinking skills

becomes angry, frustrated, mean, violent at any sign of me or anyone disagreeing with what he believes

constantly looks for "proof" of things delusions like alien abduction, stolen election of president trump, reincarnation and insists I and people listen to him and watch videos about these subjects

has hearing loss refuses to see a doctor for hearing test

turns up audio volume loud when i am gone on stereo system in living room playing all kinds of stuff from the laptop computer..first one thing and another; conspiracy theory news sites, pandora music that auto picks and makes a playlist, 

uses headphones plastered to his head in living room while sitting in his recliner. often gets irritated when i try to talk to him and says nastily "I can't hear you!" blocking me out as if I am not here

lives in the past of the 60s and 70s regarding most music, choices of vehicles cars truck, subjects he was interested in since he was a child. mechanic, building things out of wood, concrete, moving rock stones yard work

says i make derogarotory comments about whatever he likes says or do when that is exactly what he does to me