IMMATURE childish arrogant impulsuve

IMMATURE childish arrogant impulsuve

can't see consequences of his words and actions

violent hateful pushy aggressive loud mean haughty

UPBRINGING and gestation in his mother's womb formed him.

This created his diet, habits, thoughts, feelings, opinions.

He says he has his own mind and thinks for himself. True for some things but 

most things about him were formulated by family and experiences. Just like

most people. 

I really think the massive sugar he consumes,sodas, fruit juices, gatorade..old powder that

has been down in the pantry for years, bbq and  hot sauces, salt, artificial colors, flavors and food, 

alochol...rum in particular along with whiskey wine bourbon and beer,

the chemicals he has been and is exposed to have affected him terribly.

Something causes his hands to shake and I don't know what it is.

VISUAL is primary function. Constanly looking around. Miscalculating what I am

going to do, focusing on things and people and animals  he sees and frequently misjudging them. 

Will throw a fit over a scratch, real or not, on something like the car, a countertop or floor

but not bothered by grainy crap dirt and dust of floors and all thru the house and yard, garage and sheds.

Not bothered by bugs, spiders, ants, roly polys, flying insects. One day when he wakes up with bugs 

crawling all over him or mice in his bed on the garage floor he might be bothered.

scatters shit all over the place inside the house and in and around the yard.

says he cant find anything if it is put away out of his sight

covers kitchen table with papers, cups, mail, ads, seed packages, anything he feels like putting on the table.

Misplaces things then accuses me of moving them, taking them or throwing his stuff away

usea the wrong items and tools, kitchen items  to do things

wrong knife, uses same one for everything, a long bread knife

microwave lid, any big bowl, turkey baster pan ...uses any available container to get stuff out of garden instead of 

containers i bought specifically for that purpose

keeps old shit crap junk items no longer usable or inefficient for its purpose 

such as: the same old bathtub drain plug, metal, that leaks and does not fit right and has no strainer to keep hair or anything from going down the drain.

even smalls pieces of cloth, rags, jewelry, lots of things can end up going down the bathtub drain

does not know how to foresee consequences of projects or design things to prevent accidents

puts large fan in doorway from garage to entryway. i cut my leg open on it. he doesn't care. it

didn't happen to him.

leaves garden hose draped across the yard so people can trip over it and tells me

this and anything else he puts in the walkways or hallways is NO BIG DEAL JUST go around it

or move it out of the way. Same goes for the refrigerator disorganized often crammed with stuff

puts filthy shoes boots on top of surfaces we eat off of like the patio table

i bought or any surface top outside. 

plants trees, bushes, vegetables in garden and can't foresee how big they will get thus

causing lots of extra work and maintenance. totally unnecessary work that wastes time

will not listen to any information advice from me or anyone else. things  i learn from others or by doing internet searches

he will not listen to... just says shut the fuck up you think you know it all

thinks he automatically knows how to do anything without researching, asking advice

says whatever he wants to me without filtering it, without thinking first yet instantly

blows up if I say anything he deems is in disagreement with him

Makes quick decisions on things doesn't think them through ends up working more than twice as hard

as a person should on many things around here then blames me for all the stuff he has to do and

says I cause problems and start fights, harass and nag him every day