Grandma got upset with me. I didn't understand why.
I was sitting at the kitchen at the table wearing a big white t-shirt that belonged to grandpa. I had just got up that morning after sleeping in it.
The garbage disposal repair man was in the kitchen working under the sink. I had let him in the house after he rang the doorbell.
I sat in a kitchen chair and was talking to him. I had on panties but no shorts or pants so he must have been able to see my crotch area pretty good at that angle.
She came in the kitchen and said, "Sarah what are you doing.! Go in your room. "
She came in the bedroom and said "You don't do that. Put on some pants. You don't sit there talking to a man dressed like that!"
I had no idea what was going on. Now over 50 years later I still remember her anger. It's something she was well aware of and I was not. She was 45 years older than me. Had been married 5 times, bore 3 children and had 8 grandkids at the time.
Its called the way it's so easy for a man to get sexually turned on by what he sees.
There was no provocation on my part. I wasn't even aware that he would look at me in that way.
And as I got older through the years I still have a hard time understanding that I need to fully covered up at all times even when I am home and my husband is the only person here.
And not only fully covered but be careful about wearing tight clothes especially jeans leggings tights paired with a top that shows my hourglass figure.
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