Friday, July 25, 2025
world is a stage we are actors
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Games
I dont games in a cut throat way like chess cards checkers. I know people who play for competition and get mad mean upset violent if they lose at any of these or even chance games like dice rolling.
What stops someone from committing murder?
What releases them from guilty conscience or fear of punishment from killing someone or anything?
I wish I knew the answers to these questions.
july 22 2025 appt physicians assistant surgery discussion
on july 22 up at 8 am dr appt arrived 11 am. 1145 appt time.
had ride pick me up to appt saw pa physicians assistant kevin watson st lukes neuorological & spine surgery. neorosurgery. he said not recommending surgery. due to osteoporosis low bone density . and if done the rod in my back 13 14 inches long at t10 level begin due to severe curvature scoliosis of my spine.
said feels like getting hit by a truck in your back after operation. would help with leg pains not back pain. stiffness rigidity afterwards.
jan 27 2026 1 pm follow up appointment with watson.
he wants past records mris xrays. asked when i had last mri was may 2019. and why didnt they do another one?
waiting for endocrinologist to call schedule appt within 2 weeks they will prescribe medicine to replace bone loss.
husband drive his car to st likes we left in his toyota corolla went to cvs 350 hwy raytown i picked up my clobetasol prescription from dr emily gray for my female issue she diagnosed december 2023 i think it was.
lichen sclerosus diagnoses
Thursday, July 24, 2025
Breakfast at 1030 pm july 24
finally ate. up until 530 am july 24. slept til 1245 pm
on july 22 up at 8 am dr appt arrived 11 am . had ride pick me up to appt saw pa physicians assistant neorosurgery. he said not recommending surgery. osteoporosis bone density low. and if done the rod in my back 13 14 inches long at t10 level begin due to severe curvature scoliosis of my spine.
waiting for endocrinologist to call schedule appt within 2 weeks they will prescribe medicine to replace bone loss.
People I know have these characteristic traits
has places for cats and or other animals all over the house and outside. does not clean the spaces the animals sleep in.
his face in the screen be it tv television cell phone computer when i am talking to him ..mls plays computer chess often or looks at multitudes of websites while having a "conversation" which is no real talking at all
won't look me in the eye very often..looks at anything else but my face
clutters up spaces makes piles of stuff anywhere they live or have access to such as other people's storage spaces like sheds or houses
eats stuff that is convenient and tastes good not thinking about how healthy it is
loses temper fast over any little thing
drives too fast, cusses out other drivers, likes to take the highway.
always in a hurry to get there wherever it is or may be
gets upset pissed off over any item being moved around
throws temper tantrums over any item being tossed into the garbage
hangs onto old and useless things thinking he might use it later
watches me with close eye when i am cleaning which requires moving things around then gets pissed off if any piece of furniture or any item is moved or tossed into the trash
calls me bad names like naive gullible stupid worthless "you dont know what you are talking about" "i dont understand you" "why dont you just shut the fuck up and leave me alone!"
paces around the room when i am eating to see what i have and grabs something i have or off my plate thinking this is normal behavior. usually does not do this to other people just me. why?
leaves their plate of food open uncovered while eating then jumps up answer the phone or runs off doing something else leaving the meal unattended while flies land on it or maybe the dog or cat or other animal jumps up onto the counter and gets into the food
loses temper when loses at board games like monopoly chess etc
Wednesday, July 23, 2025
Good enough for
a free roll in the hay
cleaning up other peoples messes
paying bills
running errands
grocery shopping
buying groceries and household items
cleaning house
washing dishes
hit kicked slapped punched
sarcastic comments about what i love, the way i look, how i feel. what i say
writing letters
doing taxes
selling on the internet
writing in my journal, diary
working low paying jobs
Should have
been with, around, married...a clean mature man perhaps in the medical field. One who studies and practices medicine, science, health care, psychology, sociology..something..anything other than the men who do hard manual labor like mechanics, lawn care, construction, plumbing, electrical, manual labor trade jobs as these jobs are filthy and often these guys are dirty about themselves and have unclean habits.
Spreading their germs, dirt and filth randomly about. Touching anything and everything and not properly washing their hands.
Bug infested house
this house is infested with many bugs.
One day it might burn down and it will be cleansed. I try to clean properly and get resistance constantly. Same story throughout my life with many different people ...except my grandma Sarah and my sister Joyce.
Tuesday, July 22, 2025
Bullies don't impress me. Cracking skulls is destructive not creative
bashing brains, breaking bones
contact combat sports are zero interest to me
this is NOT self improvement to me
Monday, July 21, 2025
Radio in his car is the first thing he showed me
i was 25. he was 26
as a child i was addicted to the radio and tv television. escape methods from insanity at home.
is this common?
Sunday, July 20, 2025
intense dreams during baos. usually nightmares
had a very bad one recently . slept in my recliner thot it was that chair. now i know it isnt the chair . still have bad dreams sleeping in the floor. i eake up crying in the morning also.
dream interpretatiion driving van up staircase
540 to 7 pm july 20 2025 sunday. crying eyes out before falling asleep. up at 9 am asleep around 230 to 3 am
tjust woke up from nap. intense dream. mike driving old brown chevy xab uup tight stair spiral against my will wishes.
damon was with us. he needed his diaper changed full of pee.
his destination a place building full of rooms halls childrens bathrooms
i couldnt find my big purse bag carry all. u thought it fell out the van diir because he was driving too fast tight curves .
swimming i wanted he blocked
i an dying if thiret need water
he needs to beat up his partner whoever it is
to feel superior better smarter than her/him
girlfriend wife co worker relative sister mother brother
Bug infested rat hole house. Front looks fine. Inside filthy
I live in this bug infested nest . I am tired and sick and sneezing all the time. Feel like shit most of the time in here. Suicidal.
ants all over in master bath
spiders everywhere inside and outside
dust mites june bugs stink bugs millipedes centipedes roly pollies mosquitoes flies housefly fruitfly gnats ticks body mites fleas chiggers
sometimes roaches
thorough deep cleaning impossible because he is in the way at all times
shit junk piled up around the outside of house and piles and boxes of tons of useless crap cardboard papers newspapers inside the house.
Wifey Me: NO MORE. The other woman has all the benefits
other one not owned is treated like gold.
she is adored wanted desired respected sought after
she never begs or pleads for anything
she is showered glorified given everything
she is never a people pleaser
Don't like
crowds, earling mornings 7 am to 10 am
being rushed, pushed, forced
being forced to deal with alot of people esp grumpy complaiining bithcing whiners
clutter, filth, piles of anything and many piles of mixed up stuff things
stinking smelly anything includes people, animals, dirty laundry clothes, rooms,
people pushing me or themselves to be first
impatience, rudeness,
being interrupted in anything; thoughts, work, cooking, talking, moving, walking,
being stopped
being questioned
Nervous habits throughout my life
thru the years..
fingernail biting
alcohol ingestion
smoking
fearing unfaithfulness of partner
seeking company due to loneliness
overworking
oversleeping
not sleeping enough
excess coffee tea food
reading too much
movie tv show watching binges
sex overdoing hours
telephone talking for hours on end
over talking to people strangers or familiars
no talking silent treatment
hibernating
excess self criticism
perfectionism
fantasizing
He works hard physically
And I noticed today his hands shaking uncontrollably while working on my van.
His movements in work is slowing down and thought processes are slowing, showing some forgetfulness and confusion.
He works and tries very hard especially in mechanical things. I dont think he is aware of his shaking, slowing down and aging functions and appearance.
I dont think he is as aware of himself as he is of external things.
Saturday, July 19, 2025
Thursday, July 17, 2025
Dad July 17, 1927 would have been 98 today
We used to celebrate our birthdays together in July. 2002 summer must have been the last time. He passed January 28, 2003.
He took me to many places to eat. Golden Corral in Independence, Missouri..it was on Noland Road. Outback Steakhouse. Mr. Steak in Independence had all you can eat crab legs. I took my time eating that crab. Loved to break apart the claws and fish out the meat.
Arthur Bryant's barbecue downtown Kansas City, Missouri. Gates bbq.
We also had many family get togethers, picnics, outings, lunches and dinners.
Wednesday, July 16, 2025
Don't dwell on what went wrong.
Don't dwell on what went wrong.
Instead focus on what to do next. Spend your
energies on moving forward toward finding the answer. Denis Waitley
Monday, July 14, 2025
he threw a fit again today
this one generated because i told him i am throwing away a broken cheap food processor crofton xb9018 i bought for 3 dollars at a thrift store
he doubled up raised right fist. said shut the fuck up. told me i was stupid . said maybe youre the trash
accused me of slamming my bedroom door
Rage begins in the self, in the home
extending from the self
first existing in individual
ending up in home. work. job. neighborhood. family
the killers rage
criminals rage
is driven from within himself or herself
I wish the nights were longer
the days and years were longer
I wish I was 21 again for 40 years and had knowledge then it took me 64 years to learn
Sunday, July 13, 2025
Saturday, July 12, 2025
Hygiene. Cleanliness. Self awareness
Aware of where I am/where you are.
All body movements. Touching anything with hands, feet, fingers, body.
Friday, July 11, 2025
Work tail off all day to live in a nice safe neighborhood
work most of the day and spend time sleeping safely at home.
the cost for safety in a neighborhood so one can get a good nights rest is very high
Wednesday, July 9, 2025
If you are like the 5 or more people closest to you then
I need to do some serious friend changing
current and former associates are a mess
Tuesday, July 8, 2025
Horse back riding grandpa took me when I was 10, 11, 12 or 13
I was a little girl
He took me to benjamin stables in kansas city, missouri. Ironically enough, it was located not far from this house I have lived in since December 15, 1991.
I cried when he kicked the horse because he wanted it to go faster. That was grandpa LeRoy's personality. Push, shove, have no empathy. Strong drive for strenuous physical activity daily. Early riser.
I cried when he rammed the old horse's side and yelled at it cussing "go faster goddammit". He was paying for our ride. I felt so sorry for the old horse and upset with his yelling as he often did.
He took me to see Bambi when I was 5. I cried. Bambi's mother was killed by deer hunters in the woods.
He and I were watching some western movie about cowboys and indians. Wagons were getting robbed, looted and people were assaulted, shot stabbed, killed. Women were abducted and raped in the movie. I was only about 12 or 13 years old. Immediately I asked "What if she was on her period and wearing tampon and he tried to rape her?"
Grandpa shirked, smirked as if it was no big deal and said something like "Well I guess she would have to take it out, wouldn't she?"
Monday, July 7, 2025
Ps of engineering. Planning prevents poor performance
learned back in 1984 early 80s from engineer step father in law
One of the most difficult, time consuming things to do: Plan ahead on anything.
Unpredictable people and things that happen out of "nowhere" sometimes alter my or anyone's plans.
Being flexible, free flowing, adaptable and going to plan "b", c, d, e, etcetera is possibly the most important quality of a person's character they can have. Mutating, changing, learning to go with changes.
Found out it is also a military saying. Previous prior planning prevents piss poor performance.
Days I have lived. July 7, 1961 to July 7, 2025 Correction: Days I have been alive but not LIVED
From and including: Friday, July 7, 1961
To and including: Monday, July 7, 2025
Result: 23,377 days
It is 23,377 days from the start date to the end date, end date included.
Or 64 years, 1 day including the end date.
Or 768 months, 1 day including the end date
Correction: Days I have been alive but not LIVED
Sunday, July 6, 2025
He called me
before trip to branson sunday night june 29 2025
trip to kc chiefs stadium party. someone gave him free tickets most expensive seats in house. took his girlfriend
trip to overland park festival october 2024 her birthday
all trips involved common denominator kayla going
Dad. Born July 27, 1927. Died January 28, 2003
From and including: Wednesday, July 27, 1927
To and including: Tuesday, January 28, 2003
Result: 27,580 days
It is 27,580 days from the start date to the end date, end date included.
Or 75 years, 6 months, 2 days including the end date.
Or 906 months, 2 days including the end date.
Mom. Born May 14, 1939. Died December 14, 2003
https://www.timeanddate.com/date/durationresult.html?m1=05&d1=14&y1=1939&m2=12&d2=14&y2=2003&ti=on
From and including: Sunday, May 14, 1939
To and including: Sunday, December 14, 2003
Result: 23,591 days
It is 23,591 days from the start date to the end date, end date included.
Or 64 years, 7 months, 1 day including the end date.
Or 775 months, 1 day including the end date.
Saturday, July 5, 2025
Predator minds differ greatly from cooperative minds
As a cooperative person I find it difficult to think like, deal with and anticipate what the predator mind is thinking and likely to do.
I don't want to be a predator or think like one. I don't want to face the truth that predators do indeed exist. Denial of this fact is one of the facets of my personality, falsing believing that people are up to good and will be good if they are treated good. Truth is, the better I am to them, the worse they are.
Living in peace seems to require being aware that these different kinds of people exist and that they will take advantage of any opportunity to destroy peace because they hate it.
Does this mean one should build a wall around themselves literally and figurately, sprititually, emotionally and physically at all times in order to maintain the peace?
Clean, balanced, peace, simplicity, nice things I always liked.
Grandma Sarah used to tell me that me and my little brother Kenny (Kenneth/Ken) always liked nice things and places. She saw it in us when we were small children.
My youngest brother Ken was very neat, clean, orderly, quiet, well mannered, good natured and liked. So was I. Peaceful by nature we both kept to ourselves and did well in school and at home. I never remember getting a spanking and never got in trouble at school.
Our other brother, the third born of our mother and 9th from my father, also liked nice things when he got older. However he was destructive when he was an infant, toddler and youngster. He died at 33 due to being a drug addict and alcoholic.
Friday, July 4, 2025
Fortunate to try stuff got bored with
casino gambling
a little bit. had enough of that bull shit when the neighbor took me over 10 years ago. she would give me 5 dollars. i lost it in slot machines a few times.
she and i stuffed our guts at the buffet. tasted good. paid later with pain. no good.
ex mother in law also did ameristar and paid for my food buffet a few times. she also gambled heavily at the slots.
i got nothing good out of sitting on a chair on my fat ass and watching other fat women and men pouring their money into the cracks and losing it.
discovered i had more fun walking around getting exercise and watching fools and lights flashing
Escaping
various ways methods used
school work workaholic over exercise starving eating too much or not enough
reading anything signs books manuals literature magazines catalogs brochures instructions cookbooks
writing
drinking alcohol
attempting to smoke myself to death cigarettes cigars with tips..it didnt work
acetaminophen ibuprofen for pain they didnt work
3 pots of strong coffee a day
6 to 12 bottles of soda pop a day
a gallon of strong home brewed black tea no sugar or sweetener
fasting
gorging
cleanse parasite liver gallbladder enemas
roast in hot sun
strip clothes off in subzero weather
overdosing on pink pills. threw up
scratching gouging self with fingernails
bashing back of head bathtub cinder block wall
being silent or talking too much for long periods many hours 4 5 6 7 8 10 12 18 24 48
forcing too much in the kitty self
taking care of someone else ignoring myself. does not work. more i do the less they care about or value me. in fact their hatred of me increases
pinching pennies so bad i can hear abe lincoln scream
random splurging on useless things
hiding anywhere
leaving the scene of discontent
choosing solitude when company was no good
Rescuing
a young person i know lives in hell.
the outside world thinks it is heaven due to outside appearances and having all the things money can buy
i know what is going on in there
no one else listens
a miracle of fortune is needed to save this soul
so he can live his life in peace and harmony and grow up to be a wonderful mature man
it will probably take the rest of his life to heal and understand all of the things that have happened
Incognito. wear a mask. go to strange places. talk to strangers
that i will never see again
that someone else / me/ looks poor, plain, unadorned
the other side is rich beautiful and fancy and nobody knows it
Thursday, July 3, 2025
Tuesday, July 1, 2025
Daddys boy. Mans man
both my sons and all 3 husbands
desecrates denounces disrespects women me and mother
not Affectionate or empathetic
woman is for sex maid work doormat slavery
children are robots are punished for differences or disagreeing
New clothes yesterday. Dumped more trash. Donated
a bunch more stuff. My closet is looking better. Bedroom better
Kicked out of the nest or flew off independently
i flew off early. 16 and gone. didnt give a damn what anyone thought. chose my partners
he hung onto mama and family. 31 when we got together. slow to wean.
Monday, June 30, 2025
Huge mistakes
being available. taken for granted. admitted love devotion loyalty to a man especially one not worthy of it
accepting less.
tolerating bad behavior.
going back after abuse.
allowing touching or sex after any abuse.
valuing a man more than myself
respecting him and not myself
settling for second best last place
making excuses for losers
feeling sorry for a bully
Sunday, June 29, 2025
Cruelty of the man or woman who worships money
mental emotional physical abuse especially towards soft hearted kind spiritual people and beings
Donated 4 more containers ar goodwill today
and tossed raggy old clothes and old painting clothes i used to wear over 30 years ago.
Saturday, June 28, 2025
Eat and drink trash, act like and look like trash
I have experience feeling and acting like trash after eating and drinking bad things and witnessed many people who suffer from the same thing.
Bad behavior: anger issues, depression, negativity, violence, aggression, unprovoked nastiness
High quality
I tend to choose the highest quality and often the highest price items in shopping situations.
Quality = durability, long lasting, practical, useful, needed, appearing simple/classy
Price =
He
cocky. arrogant. acts entitled. lacks empathy, appreciation, respect.
inconsistent emotions. unsteady. volatile. moody. hateful. vengeful. mean.
rarely demonstrates affection such as kissing hugging pats on back or anywhere. no cuddling or pleasant love conversations even after having sex. he says sex is good exercise, period.
becomes upset when i hug other people, when i talk to anyone, when i am me freely expressing myself.
focused on the physical such as sex and hard work. money material things and self gratification are top priorities
poor social skills especially with me. publicly appears polite nice clean hard working thoughtful.
always says what is your objective. what is your point. what are you trying to say. you think you know everything. just shut the fuck up. you are a dimwit, stupid, make no sense. dont know what youre talking about.
like a child/baby/infant easily wakened/ distracted. i must get him to focus on something else or wait til he is asleep or gone before i can accomplish anything. i must be quiet, not make noise, do not make any smells or sounds or be near him or touch him or have lights on otherwise he will wake up if sleeping or inquire about what i am doing if he is awake. sometimes i wonder if he ever really sleeps. seems like he doesnt deep sleep like i do. it is like he is half awake with one eye open all the time.
Friday, June 27, 2025
Thursday, June 26, 2025
Wednesday, June 25, 2025
He believes and is
eveything is difficult and it is
he pepetuates difficulty and complications
weather, animals, people are "crazy" (and these things are actually normal with their behavior and changes)
things are crazy because they do not meet his expectations
his opinions are facts
addicted to snacks, sugar and salt, artificial flavors and colors
poisons are the way to deal with bugs and pests
name brands of certain items are the best and is loyal to buying them
any differences expressed are arguing with him
Tuesday, June 24, 2025
Sunday, June 22, 2025
Overstimulation in all things he suffers from. This is why he gets bored so easily
food, drink, noises, sounds, videos, physical work and activities, all 5 senses overloaded with little time for relaxation with no outside stimulation
he needs to sit quietly in dark room with zero stimulus in order to learn to appreciate small things like movement of a thing like a curtain or sheet blowing in the wind
The wife is apparently not the best thing to be for me
after being in the role (a predicament like jail)
since i was 17. i am 63. 46 years of futile effort
married to three different men (grown boys)
it seems being the girlfriend would be a better choice indeed if i want to be respected loved appreciated adored desired treated like a queen
taken out given gifts attention time
as the girlfriend i can cut off the connection immediately when he is bad, never go back. no explaining. no me trying to make things right with a fixer upper male who will always be a turd toad
once married things have to be cut in two by law and is time consuming costly financially and emotionally draining
Saturday, June 21, 2025
yesterday his sister asked me if he had any guns
saw his only 2 living sisters sherry and dorothy in raymore mo last night . havent seen sherry in over 5 years.
she said she doesnt invite him for dinners anymore due to his political obsession fanaticism pushing it on everyone
sherry concerned asked me if he had any guns. i said only one i know of is single shot 22 rifle. he hides stuff all around in house and sheds in cardboard boxes so how would i know if he had any more?
she concerned because fanatics can turn into shooters like mass or anonymous or random or targeted shooting people in crowds or individual people
he sprayed furniture polish lemon scent on kitchen countertops
a few months ago when he smelled something bad which was really in the trash can
i had to reclean all counters with soap and bleach water
How well can I tolerate these things
Living with person male man who ignores me tells me to be quiet. shut up, stay out of it. keep my opinions and ideas to myself dont tell anybody anyhing
walks many feet in front of me never holding hands
thinks all he has to do is say and do whatever he wants pay some bills , do hard manual labor around here and for other people
know it all personality
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Friday, June 20, 2025
Organization declutter necessary in this house.
Just talked to him about getting rid of old vhs tapes in basement, for one and any other misc junk down there and moving the stand up deep freeze into the basement as it should have been years ago.
As soon as I turn my back he runs off talking to other people...
Incident in 2022
Timothy Alan Phillips born May 14, 1983 on my mom's birthday. He died January 13, 2022. An 18 year old man shot and killed him in Independence, MO by 300 block N. Leslie apartment complex housing area. The shooting was related to a girl Tim was seeing is what his mother Debra told me.
I am inside the building in Independence, Missouri at the celebration of life for Tim Phillips sitting at a table. The room is filled with many tables and a hundred or more people. He was sitting next to me.
Suddenly he gets up at leaves the building. After a few minutes I decide to go outside and catch him standing outside talking to two teenage girls. One girl is the granddaughter of debra phillips wall. Debra Wall was born in January 1962.
He later says he asked the girls, "Who is your grandmother?" I had told him that one of his ex girlfriends back in the 80s had a daughter related to debra and that girl is dating Tim.
Debbie's granddaughter is "Crissy" , Tim's only daughter.
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The almost daily occurance is he is gone and disappears and if at home runs off to one of the neighbor's yards or houses. Or he has taken off to someone's house like one of his family members, a friend of his or ours, one of my family members.
If I am awake he will usually tell me where he is going. Not always.
Never trust a man. Never trust a woman. Humans are deceitful, manipulative.
Same message in the movies, television programs and books/literature. Ulterior motives. Diabolical minds. Split brained. Cunning, lying, two faced.
Adjusting their appearance, personality and attitude according to whom they are around.
Children around age 4 or 5 learn this survival tactic quite well.
A certain look comes upon the face when the child has done something wrong or is about to do it.
9:30 am he is gone Friday morning June 20, 2025 12:57 pm pulls into driveway
last time his phone was on the internet was 721 am. It is now 12:43 pm and he is still gone.
He tends to leave in the morning after 9 or 10 am. Now I am wondering if he has been taking off at the crack of dawn or thereafter and I have not known about it.
he said he went to raytown lawn mower spark plugs for neighbors mower, oil, dollar tree independence got several bottles of sweet drinks bread we dont need..he bought 2 loaves a couple of days ago
Great physical intimacy is not enough
In an hour or so it is over. What is life like the rest of the time? My father talked matter of fact and practically about the sex act. It is vitally important in life but does not constitute a good relationship.
Thursday, June 19, 2025
Wednesday, June 18, 2025
Sugar intake dementia adhd
mood changes issues problems deterioration of brain and body
impatience anxiety hallucinations
Family pattern of my family
fun loving
giving, free spirit, free spirited
direct, friendly, open minded
loves dancing, get together, parties
plans ahead and organizes events
encourages individuality and self expression
entrepreneurship is common
some were alcoholics or drug addicts some abstained from those some were addicted to sugar starch fat causing
some health conscious exercise eat right
Family Pattern of my inlaws
Family Pattern
blames others for situation and problems such as family members, partner, spouse is the one that creates problematic situations
acts like the victim
paranoid
believes everyone uses each other out to get them
nitpicks nags complains bitches at partner and the world
looking for the "perfect" person with no "flaws"
trouble organizing things
accumulates too much stuff making life far more complicated
says things are complicated and can't see the simplicity and simple solutions to solve problems
immediately finds fault with anyone or any situation, place, circumstance
refuses to listen to simple solutions
negative focused
finds shit immediately and focuses on how aggravating it is,
how much things suck, stink, get on their nerves
can't understand much of anything
another persons happiness and joy pisses them off because they are miserable with themselves
jealous of success of other people
says people who have lots of money don't deserve it because they should have it
either because they work so hard or simply because they deserve it for no reason
accuses other people of screwing up their life when they are the ones who screw up
other's lives
self defeating
no one is good enough for them or good enough at any task or job
thinks they can do everything better
calls almost everyone stupid, incompetent and
says people "drag their feet" when in fact they are the ones dragging their feet
tries to make people realize "the truth" and avoids facing facts
aversion to smoke especially cigarette smoking and smells it when it is not there
outer world focused, external
relies on external things to change before being "happy"
sabotages other people's efforts and joy and happiness
loses things accuses someone of stealing it, taking or moving it and
will move other peoples things without asking
crosses boundaries of others and gets irate if their boundaries and areas are crossed
keeps tabs on everything they "give" to anyone
expects a return on whatever they give to anyone
thinks they ought to be paid money for just about everything
takes advantage of any person or situation
will not do a thing out of sheer kindness of heart desiring to see someone happy and smiling
sabotages parties events get togethers
demands to be center of attention
looks at lots of other people as worthless undeserving
does not appreciate and yet demands to be appreciated and recognized
confused constantly
thinks police are watching and after them
has head in the sand, foot in the mouth, head up their ass
spews out nasty comments and can't take any form of criticism, critique
looks at self as GOD in control of all
ulterior motives are behind whatever they do and they accuse all others of
having ulterior motives
gardening in dirt hobby in the family
marjorie sharon dorothy michael
seems to bring temporary joy
early morning risers
no dancers or dancing in this family
rigid hard work is glorified
some had several boyfriends girlfriends on the side
like john and karen
"gives" people stuff they don't like expects them to act happy about it
sometimes gives me or a person a thing they like then acts like it is a
huge big deal that they were so "generous" and thoughtful
keeps things secret from spouse and tells each family member news
then acts like they told the spouse when they did not
10 am wed June 18, 2025 he takes off
this seems to be a pattern of him taking off wednesday mornings and being gone until afternoon
today he said he is going to menards maybe to visit his sister in raymore and might go to sutherlands
Gullibility exists in all regardless of age
each one of us are vulnerable and have our own soft spots
Tuesday, June 17, 2025
Monday, June 16, 2025
Mature male
impresses female his woman
protects, upholds. supports.
cares how she feels.
cautious with his words, tone of voice and actions
goes out of his way to make her happy, smile, laugh, be joyful
Sunday, June 15, 2025
Dorothy my sister in law
Born February 4, 1946
She lives with Sherry/sharon her only living sister. Has been for 9 years. Says it has been abuse.
Confined to her room by her sister. She called me this morning telling me again about the situation.
She gives Sherry 540 a month for rent. The house is owned by Sherry.
She told Dorothy to get out "I'm done" on June 2. Thirty days to move out.
June 25 is sherry's birthday and her daughter Kari and son in law are coming to visit for 2 days then sherry is going to the lake her usual yearly annual activity.
Dorothy is planning on leaving when she is gone.
D has confined herself into her bedroom. Now is banned from watching the tv in the living room. Stores food and drinks in her room.
S has told her "I don't want to eat with you", "I want you out of here. This is my house and I will do as I please."
D is much like me. Very friendly talkative, into astrology, psychic, intuitive awareness, spirituality, kindness and generosity. Peace, harmony, beauty, love dominate her thoughts. She likes neat, clean, orderly everything. Chaos and disorder drives her crazy like me. She writes in a journal everyday and loves books like I do. She was a sounding board for her sister and no longer sits and listens to S come home from work at her job in HyVee complaining.
D likes to cook, make wonderful healthy food and meals. She loves walks in the park.She keeps records and documents of things. Likes nice restaurants, high quality places to go. Dressing up nice. Cleanliness.
D and I both have severe back scoliosis. Hers is kyphosis on the top. Mine is levoscolios in thoracic and lumbar region.
D is very intellectual. Sherry is very physical and wrapped up into worshipping money and material things.
The sister Sharon/Sherry is so much like Mike it is incredible.
scholar, teacher, traveler, communication,
writing, words, author, poetry, beauty, harmoney, fine dining restaurants, politeness, manners, etiquette, creativity, photography
grace, beauty, eloquence, style, class,
birthdays holidays, parties, decor, decorations,
health nutrition
scholar, teacher, traveler, communication,
writing, words, author, poetry, beauty, harmony, fine dining restaurants, politeness, manners, etiquette, creativity, photography
grace, beauty, eloquence, style, class,
birthdays holidays, parties, decor, decorations,
health nutrition, gift giving, previous employment at law firm lawyer attorneys office
record keeper, remembers birthdays, wants to celebrate
Marriage. All 3 a prison
like a job where he thinks he is boss. as if i am a slave employee cleaning up dealing with his shit
not all marriages are like that but they are when immature people are involved
Saturday, June 14, 2025
Arrogant he is. All the way
i looked up definition. wiki and many sites define it with all the characteristics. he fits them all.
Poisoning himself and doesn't listen to me and realize it
massive intake of sugar, high fructose corn syrup, hydrogenated oils, artificial flavors and colors. baked goods, candy, sweets. cookies, cupcakes, cake, drinks sugary tea, lemonade, juice all day long everyday.
automotive chemicals used in the garage to work on cars, lawn equipment, lacquer thinner on skin
puts pain relief ointment on skin with aspirin
drinks alcoholoic beverages rum at night during day sometimes wine, beer
uses chemicals on garden fertilizers weed control and wallows in it
puts on same dirty filthy clothes day and day working in dirt and grease and other stuff instead of hanging out in the rain or tossing into the laundry and washing them appropriately
bathroom needs thorough cleaning. has black dirty rags in it full of mold and who knows what germs are in them and then uses those old nasty cloth rags to wipe down a floor or dust in the living room
mind filled with rotten world news and constantly focusing on the weather. grabs porn for free whenever possible and stashes it in cardboard boxes in the house so i don't see it ..currently it is hidden somewhere i am guessing in a box in loft up high in garage so he thinks i wont know he has it
overheats very easily...i don't know why he always has..and i freeze to death easily
leaves dirty napkins laying around
sneezes outside into rooms without covering face
handles any and everything and not always washes hands
leaves food containers in car truck vehicle even when temperature is hot outside like tuna kits nuts snacks candy anything and eats them ..leaves water bottles in car that in direct sunlight in driveway
The way I used to be vs what I have become
people told me i was beautiful, cute, pretty.
shy, introverted. listened more than i talked. quiet. reserved. cried very easily over animals or people i sensed being hurt or died. cried if anyone even looked at me cross eyed mean or talked to me saying mean rude hateful things making fun of me criticising me in any way.
attentive. extremely sensitive. used to massage my grandma's shoulders and neck and feet, grandpa's back, dad's neck, my husband's body.
fun loving. dancing. laughed easily. cracked up over silly stuff. easy going. pleasant. people pleasing. calm. patient. believed in helping most anyone anywhere. too easy pushover. too kind, nice and helpful. willing to give myself and things for free. willing to work for nothing or next to nothing so others can be happy.
TODAY I have become (and it took many years to be this way)
too talkative, too open, revealing, brunt, loud, obnoxious, giving free unwanted advice, revealing too much to anyone and everyone.
aware that being too quiet caused me to get run over and taken advantage of.
Music I love like prefer. Upbeat dance r&b disco happy drums steady beat
used to have the radio on a lot. while working cleaning doing housework driving outside sunbathing..anymore I will turn it on in the van and once in awhile at home.
Hirsutism I have. Getting worse by the minute.
Very hairy. My face has a full beard and moustache. I use an electric shaver on my face, There are way too many hairs to pluck out. If I tried it would take me at least an hour. I can't see as well as I used thanks to having to wear prescription glasses so plucking is a sheer waste of time.
My arms are covered with long dark hair. I have hair on my abdomen, the backs of my legs are covered with long black hairs and the front is hairy; pubic area is very much so which started when I was a teenager. Hair all over my knees and below the knees. Hair on my lower back. He calls it a "fur patch" on my back. Hair on my butt buttocks ass.
Hair visible on sides of my face by my ears like sideburns. Hair on top of my toes.
Enlarged clitoris and labia. Salt cravings
Used to have severe acne. Cystic with huge pus pockets all over my face, neck, shoulders and back. I have bad scars/scarring all over those areas due to the massive pimples. Large pits all over my nose.
Excess testosterone is what research indicates.
I do not have a deep voice or large muscle mass. My muscles have withered due to lack of exercise and age.
Whatever the "disease" is or the cause I do not know for sure and I would surely love to NOT have to deal with hair all over by body that is normally on a male/man. I hardly ever see a woman who has such hair as I do. Most have smooth, clean, clear radiant skin without hair.
Many years ago, back in 2001 the gynecologist who did my tubal ligation and uterine ablation wanted to prescribe sprinolactone for me to remedy the hair problems. After I read the information about it I decided not to take it. I would have to drastically reduce foods that are high in potassium. Mushrooms, potatoes, lots of vegetables. I love to eat all those foods that have lots of potassium.
The articles I just read states that blood tests in those that have this problem reveal that the person has low sodium levels, a female baby is born with an enlarged clitoris, they can have low blood pressure which I have.
Hiccups he gets frequently
every time he puts hot sauce on his food he gets hiccups..same for hot peppers like jalapenos. researched it on youtube. a doctor says body is alkaline. sugar ingested and eating too fast and anxiety can cause hiccupping. he consumes sugary drinks high fructose corn syrup all day long. he drank some bottled tea with high fructose corn syrup sweetener in it over ice cubes and the hiccups stopped. could be the cold ice water that stopped it.
he starts hiccupping when he eats and it sometimes sounds like he is choking to death
i haven't had hiccups for eons..now i think i discovered why is used to get them. if i eat and drink sugary things it can cause it. a long time ago i remember getting them and i would put a teaspoon of sugar in my mouth followed by water and they would go away.
Friday, June 13, 2025
He cuts me off in mid sentence constantly
fills in what he thinks i will say and is usually dead wrong
will not listen to me when i talk
Cleaning out my closet
full of clothes. mens clothing shirts pants jeans ..i need to wear clothes for women females girls and dress like what I am.
I am a woman not a man
found a lot more shirts, thermals, pants and a mens bathrobe i am going to give away to my oldest son next time i see him
June 16, 2025 appt at 2 pm with a title company to
put my name on this house. He said the law states title companies can only take cash or checks, no credit cards. Cost is $100. He and I will go and I am writing the check for one hundred dollars.
Thursday, June 12, 2025
His illnesses pain problems and food diet and drinks/beverages
dehydration he suffers from. dark urine, constipation,
back pain in kidney area, lower back
mood swings, anger, violent outrages are daily, irritability
muscle soreness, stiffeness, pain
claims it hurts his kidneys to drink too much water. yet he drinks and loads up all day long on sugary beverages: bottled lemonade from aldis', bottled cranberry juice.
he eats sweet stuff throughout the day everyday/daily. cookies, snack cakes, granola bars, honey roasted peanuts, candy bars, hard candy, taffy, sugar laden cereals : honey nut cheerios, kashi granola, raisin bran premade
processed foods. beef jerky which is made with brown sugar as second ingredient, summer sausage, salami, pot pies, hot pockets, frozen burritos, many types of bottled hot sauce and barbecue sauce, imitation cheese slices, pizza,
fast food like taco bell, hardees, wendys, dominos, kfc
Tuesday, June 10, 2025
5'3" 122 lbs I am today
saw chiropractor. weighed snd height measurement.
treatment. tapping on my back
exhausted he said check diet sleep and exercise for that
bloodwork already done for hormones cbc etc
5'6 1/2" is my normal height
used to weigh 135 to 141 pounds
Psychology behind name calling
https://www.psychmechanics.com/psychology-behind-name-calling/?utm_source=grow&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=automailer&utm_content=rec
Suspect activities...
Some people consider these things to be cause for suspicion.
Reading books. Thinking. Sitting in a dark room awake with no tv television or radio on. Writing. Talking on the phone. Talking to anyone. Expressing my original ideas or someone elses that he doesnt agree with.
Walking into another room in house or on property outside. Looking at a bug or flower curiously.
Not driving exactly like him. Not interested in all things that interest him. Discussing any subject not in his mind. Disagreeing. Differing. Straying. Being myself.
One person in particular, the husband, man male I am married to is suspicious of these things.
My father/dad took me to many places
horse and dog tracks/races, to st. louis missouri when the Missouri Lottery first started.
he knew the best restaurants/places to eat all over kansas city and just about anywhere
carnivals, fairs, picnics, family gatherings/get togethers
disneyland, knotts berry farm, the beaches in california
he went with me to a real estate seminar where they offered the class to obtain real estate sales license
he was an avid reader. a go getter. friendly to all. helping hand. generous.
Monday, June 9, 2025
He complimented me tonight as i was walking out the door
you like nice with pink dress and black. your back is hardly noticeable with that outfit. pink and black goes good together ..
of course it is a backhanded compliment. he always has to throw in a comment about how bad my back looks....or how bad my face hair outfit any view of me looks
nice things he has said are rare and few from him. most things he says to me and about me are critical demeaning hateful mean threatening
Loud music. dancing. nakedness. freedom. free spirit.
I drew to me some people that had the stuff I was emanating since my childhood.
collectors hoarders music movies books information wisdom knowledge
MY awareness and love of life and freedom appears to be a major threat to some kinds of people. The control freak types who believe they have no choice so no one else should have choices in life.
Sunday, June 8, 2025
1 pm sunday he takes off june 8, 2025
says he is mailing a rebate ..and i added the paperwork needing to be sent to mohealhnet
he often takes off suddenly with very little notice
Saturday, June 7, 2025
People would crap if they knew how I managed to live
frugally. so cheap. no fun. with a crazy person and nutty psycho people before that.
raised by families of mostly well meaning but twisted fruitcakes.
If I dont look like a camel anymore after back surgery
and feel like I got kicked in the back by a horse everyday like I have for years it will be a miracle
Today: Ordered things. Cleaned.Rearrangee my room again
Ordered a sofa bed 100 cm x 200 cm x 30 cm. Folds into a couch. 39.99 plus 9.99 shipping.
Ipl hair remover, age spot, acne remover. Ordered off 5minskin. May never have to shave legs armpits face again. Price paid not disclosed. Cheaper than buying blade razors, electric razors and shaving cream for the rest of my life.
Cleaned bathroom sink area borax and dish soap.
Bleached bathtub walls and toilet.
Washed 2 gallon brita filter water holder in hot soapy water. Need new water filter for bathroom sink. Pur might be next one I get.
8 pm ate breakfast. Beef hot dog, cheddar cheese, one slice wheat bread, white onions, leftover fried potatoes, mustard, hot sauce, one 15 oz can of butter beans.
took 2 collagen plus vitamin c pills half hour before eating.
got up at 819 am. drank black coffee and water all day until breakfast at 8 pm.
Dressed all in black i walk tonight june 6, 2025
wearing long black pants, black dress, black shirt, black baseball hat and black tennis shoes. carrying a black bag with my water bottle in it
trail at parkwood and 98th terrace kcmo 64137
dark no one out there coming driving can see me
i am so tired so exhausted .
thinking about how he hates my guts treats me with disgust.
one man i am was in love with
since may 1987 now i know
he does not love me never did.
surgery doctor appointment july 22 2025. i ask myself why have it. what for? what do i have to live for?
no friends. my friends and family he took over.
how am i going to recover from major back surgery spinal fusion rods and screws in my lower back? no one is going to help or take care of me
life isnt going to get any better.
my purpose is missing. my reasons are unclear. the desire from anyone who wants me around is not there.
no one wants me around.
a career i do not have.
missing me is something no one does
Friday, June 6, 2025
Woke up with a bad headache this morning. Why?
food eaten yesterday. smoothie made of fresh mangos, canned peaches and pears, frozen strawberries.
3 home grown white radishes after eating bacon, 3 fried eggs, fried potatoes and onions
I slept in center middle bedroom and had to leave door open due to my cat scratching on the door.
The only thing I conclude is it is something toxic in the air or possibly the radishes I ate that caused this severe headache and nausea.
Thursday, June 5, 2025
832 pm he calls someone
in the living room. said i was looking at craigslist saw ford truck thought of you.... it is his old friend kenneth gill born 8-8-48.
his voice sounds uplifted high happy quite opposite of his voice when he talks to me.
He called me "grasshopper". My friend Tom S said this many years ago....
referring to a character in a tv show KUNG FU
Unaware. Not aware of the self's ignorance and stupidity. The most frightening thing of all.
Most dangerous is the one not aware of their own ignorance, limitations and utterly stupid behavior.
Persona personality changes according to who is around
I have seen this. Experienced this. Done this.
Wednesday, June 4, 2025
Truth. Facing facts after knowing realizing what is real
A very slow process for me of realizing ...
a person is NOT who I think they are
they are not who I want them to be
the person will NEVER BECOME what I hoped they would be
my rose colored glasses and pollyanna attitude have come off
People are what they are
No change will happen with them unless it begins within themselves
Each one of us must come to our own conclusions
He left 1045 am wednesday june 4, 2025 one pm back
then went upstairs laid down napping said dont let him sleep past 345 pm today is church day pantry should have milk
We remain the same person personality
he is the same as he was when i met him. i am the same as i have been since i was born.
the same is true of other people i have known and those i know now.
Bonding
bonding. familiarity. this either happens quickly or not at all most of the time.
mutual understanding between the pair of people
Conversations often go nowhere
it depends solely upon whether or not the other person is capable of understanding and empathy
Marriage is no guarantee of anything
ownership, exclusivity, companionship, partnership, love, material things, desire
Tuesday, June 3, 2025
He loads up on juice sugar sweets alcohol
cranberry jug found in the refrigerator tonight.. prebottled lemonade from aldis hes been drinking daily for weeks maybe a couple of months. apple juice.artificially flavored rum rumchata. has thick dairy cream the thought of rumchata makes my stomach churn in sickness.
he likes milk drinks it daily thinks its good.
lemon flavored muffins. honey buns. donuts. candy bars. swiss. rolls snacks. dried fruit. canned fruit. hawaiian punch. gatorade squirt. dr pepper.
any kind of fucking sugar he can find.
metabolic syndrome. fatty liver disease.
he does not rinse his mouth with water each time after consuming all of these sweet drinks and foods. no wonder he has cavities dental problems had teeth pulled.
Monday, June 2, 2025
I am responsible for myself only
It is not my responsibility to walk on eggshells and try to make anyone else happy all the time
Incredibly exhausted
having animals making noises all day long in my neighborhood (roosters and dogs, sometimes foxes in the middle of the night) making it difficult to sleep or think straight
dealing with my own physical ailments like severe scoliosis, digestive issues
dealing with husband age 64 who exhausts me even more than I already am
Sunday, June 1, 2025
Friday, May 30, 2025
He is an insane control freak
Exactly opposite of me.
Tries to take control of each thing I think say or do.
He is the same way with all others.
If he doesn't fall in love with you at first sight he won't grow to love you.
He will chase the woman he wants.
If he is standing still, not moving towards you then he is not interested.
Perfection expectations of other people....
are if the person is what you think they should be. No one meets all of the criteria on my list.
I don't meet all of the criteria of perfection of myself, the perfect woman I would like to be, either.
Thursday, May 29, 2025
Things they have in common
likes erratic music like the group kansas and rush
hates rap music, soul, any dancing music with good drum beat rhythm
prejudiced
arrogant, belligerent, defiant
sugar addicts
egotistical
fixed rigid mindset inflexible stubborn
my hair appearance is extremely important
my eyes very important, the way they look
my ass is the main focal point
doesn't want me to talk to people and have friends
spends large amounts of money on self, on big stuff like house and cars and tools
porn obsession
stinking armpits
doesn't like to have anything to do with babies. only deals with children when they are old enough to talk
refuses to take part in childcare of infants
has rigid prudish rules about how i am supposed to look, act talk and be
hides money
into coins likes pennies nickels dimes quarters or silver certificate paper dollar money
eats lot of ice cream wont add fruit nuts or other toppings
eats lots of meat like beef pork
loves barbecue and bbq sauce
loves snicker bars and other candy bars
hates it when i move furniture or anything around
sits in the chair or on couch in my way when i try to clean house
doesnt read books much at all
looks at pictures in magazines like playboy etc
obsessed with watching tv shows certain ones that are favorites and movies
would rather watch a video than read anything
drives car or truck too fast. prefers fastest way usually the highway
walks away from plate of food while eating not thinking about how an animal could get it or the food gets cold and flies land on it
impulsively eats a piece of food just because he sees it
prioritizes money and material things over spitritual or religious things
extreme difficulty getting along with a woman in house like spouse wife girlfriend
avoids basic household cleaning and laundry
wants instant food and drinks
says i can't understand frequently when talking about people and why they do things
has one set of rules for himself another for me
has one set of rules for me and another for other women
Wednesday, May 28, 2025
Diet, food, drink, calories
Began researching this food and drink stuff when I was a preteen. Prevention magazine was one of the mags I read that grandma subscribed to. All about health and food.
Water has zero calories. Some foods like fresh cucumbers and celery are mostly water with lots of fiber and vitamins and minerals. I love both of these and they are not typical or common foods most people that I have known eat or snack on.
I remember reading the calorie content of foods and drinks when I was a teenager and concluded it was too confusing and not eating, just starving myself was the best option.
Skipping breakfast began when I was in junior high school 8th grade or so at age 13. Worried about getting fat. However I would drink soda pop, juices which are loaded with sugar and when I craved chocolate would skip dinner and have a huge hesheys chocolate bar in place of real nutritious food.
Soda consumption continued on and became heavy when I was 19 and worked at a gas station where we sold it. My current husband was a heavy pepsi drinker (and still is).
Daily he drank at least 2 two liters a day. So every day I drank 6 or more 16 oz bottles of that stuff, switching around and trying all the flavors.
Pop has no vitamins, minerals or fiber. I did not know what it was doing to me but I felt half wired up then half dead every day. Finally when I was 23 in 1984 I began drinking black coffee in the morning so I could get up and go to school which started at noon and dropped the soda. Awake I was ...then someone showed me how to drink a whole pitcher of beer at a bar called The Roxy at 75th and Metcalf in Overland Park, Kansas. I really hated the taste and smell of beer but I learned to down it for the way it made me calm down, feel more relaxed and at ease around people. I was so very nervous and shy around people. Drinking and getting drunk made it so I could actually go up to someone and strike up a conversation, something that had previously been very difficult for me to do.
After all these years I have learned that white flour products, bread, rolls, buns, danishs, turnovers, pastries, crioissants, crackers, cakes, pie shells, noodles, macaroni, lasagna, gravy/gravies, any product made out of flour is not good for me. It is bad. It causes intestinal distress problems. Unpredictable bouts of constipation or diarrhea. Severe back pain and pain on my right side and pains in the left side of my back. One piece of bread is enough, white or wheat.
I don't buy candy often. Only cinnamon or peppermint discs and I rarely eat them. Two weeks ago i ate some laffy taffy banana flavor that the food pantry gave us and decided it is much better to just eat a banana. Why eat pure sugar with artificial flavors and colors that my tongue loves the taste of and tricks my brain into thinking I am eating fruit? Then suffer the consequences later of rotten teeth, upset stomach, more back pain and god knows what else.
I do buy dove dark chocolate and eat it when craving it. I have a lot of nuts with the chocolate.
Ice cream does not sit well with me, either. I'd rather have yogurt, real whipped cream, cream cheese with some fruit or nuts. I quit eating cool whip many years ago when I read the label and it is made of soybean oil. It tastes good but it actually more like rubber. Leave it in the freezer for a year and find out what happens to it. Sort of like what happens to the typical ice cream left in the freezer untouched unopened for months and it turns into condensed glue. Goo. And eating it makes it hard to poo poo.
I used to read tabers encyclopedia and the merck manual trying to figure out what was wrong with me. Hypoclycemia, low blood sugar, dizziness, fainting, low blood pressure. Pain in my right side (later found out it was ulcers, gastritis and duodenitis which is a lot better now). Sharp pains going down my legs into my calves and feet. Scoliosis back curvature now very severe. 50 years of arthritis.
I have had blood tests for many things. Sjogrens, lupus, rheumatoid arthritis; all negative. STD's all negative.
Back pain and intestinal problems is bad
and worsened due to eating at all hours of day and night
usually try to have bm when i wake up and be done with it for the day. tonight had to do this when i finally went out today to the community center. happened at 8 pm at night.
ate breakfast at almost 6 pm may 28, 2025 wednesday. last food before that was mixed nuts at 130 am. may 27 tuesday finally ate breakfast at 7 pm which was one thin round steak, brown rice and sauteed mushrooms, zucchini and sno peas. tipped the scale before that at 120 lbs.
Alas, he is only as smart as his family members. He says, thinks, believes and does as they did and do.
eats and drinks variety of things. lots of junk food, fast food and some healthy things like salads. eating habits are constant snacking all day long, drinking sweet tea, juices and been drinking flavored rum for who knows how long now. who got him started on that i do not know.
hard work and no fun
does not believe diet determines the size and weight of a person or their moods or anything else
obsessed with listening to news radio tv internet focuses on war destruction weather chaos exactly like his uncle norman
cars, trucks, mechanical, wood working, hoarding parts
porn collections mags and videos and probably old calendars; his brothers john jerry introduced him to this he maintains and still uses it
hidebound fixed unchanging irrational beliefs. refuses to acknowledge word definitons and truth
his mother religious jw jehovahs witness zealot; he is political zealot thinking he does not have to change and improve himself instead relying on some world leader and people who promote it. believes he will be happy when the world changes and I and others change to suit him and his ideals
fanatic about paying bills on time which is good, one of the most responsible things he does
pushes, used to push me to get job any old job to make money and pay bills yet he refuses to do any job not suited for him. he will only do what he is interested in
never supports me in my thoughts, ideas, concerns, activities, talents yet i support him in his endeavors
expects full compliance from me as if i am a slave and he is the master
calls almost everyone stupid, they dont know the truth and wont listen to him yet he listens selectively to a few people mainly those in conspiracy theory news and a few neighbors throughout the years.
he goes for walks at the one park cave springs then tells me why dont you do something useful around here like yardwork bending over lifting sticks mowing etc instead of taking a walk anywhere or in the neighborhood
used to say to me you are not going to see anyone else while we are together and married yet told me you still look okay maybe you can find someone else. go live with so and so you are just like them, said when my dad and mom were alive and when john was alive.
refuses to participate in fun activities with me. blocks the cat from playing with toys and balls i have for her. encourages places for the cat to sleep anywhere in the house or outside.
teenage young child behaviors immature. graffiti at parks. inability to empathize, cant understand differences in other peoples viewpoints, dress attire, speech, behaviors, smells, hobbies, .. throws fits temper tantrums upon seeing anything he disagrees with cant understand.
Alas, I am only as intelligent as my caregivers were.
Besides the dna I was born with ....my upbringing by my family is the most important thing of all. They were my role models, teaching me the many things they knew and learned in their lives.
My father and mother promoted, encouraged and displayed independent thinking. Entrepreneur and being your own boss. Working for yourself.
My mom's mother grandma Sarah wanted the best for all of her children, grandchildren and family. She was very much into healthy food, nutrition, exercise, working, keeping the house and yard and cars clean. Dressing nicely professionally. Using caution with the company you keep; choosing friends wisely. She said you will be lucky if you have one true friend in your entire life.
Grandma had ethics and was all about saying and doing the right things. Being honest. She said, "I call a spade a spade. I don't beat around the bush. I tell it like it is. "
Wednesday mornings he typically leaves. 1030 am just left May 28, 2025
might be a routine of his. visits same old place(s)
Tuesday, May 27, 2025
Not one person wants me
no one goes out of their way to do anything for me or to see me call me talk to me
the way i do things for other people , the many things i have done
Monday, May 26, 2025
Some have lots of money and no common sense brains. Some are poor with same affliction
Money won't fix stupidity or misery
No cure for chronic physical or mental diseases
death is the solution
remedies do not fix mental problems or heal physical damage or emotional pain
1040 am he left this morning. May 26, 2025 memorial day. Monday 230 pm still gone 304 pm back
last night he said he planned on going to sams club to get that tea he drinks. there are about 5 cases of tea on the shelf downstairs now. so i assume he will come back with some thing like a rotisserie chicken and a bottle of rum maybe a big french silk pie or other processed foods he loves to eat.
he went to menards out in raymore the other day to get catfood. why didnt he go to sams club the same day? i suspect he visits someone or more than one person out in the area when he plans these trips. i do not know for sure, cant prove a thing as i dont have a tracker or any device to hear what he is saying and doing when he takes off on these ventures.
He removes all things i like for fun play pleasure enjoyment
such as the trampoline, bicycle, balls, space i need to dance, listen to music i like, refuses to play any type of games with me like cards, board games, any play activities period.
no riding a motorcycle for me, no doing any type of fun stuff around him in any fashion
if he thinks i am having fun anywhere he will destroy it
examples: calling me when i was at 4th of july celebration with my son telling me that i parked somewhere and someone is going to hit my van at the place because it is too crowded. walking up to neighbors house on 95th terrace twice to make me come back home at his 4th of july party and his halloween get together then trying to grab my drink, a can of beer, out of my hand while we were walking back home. ANY get together anywhere he insists that i do not talk to anyone
we went to a beatles show downtown years ago. free tickets compliments of my sons friend. he drove and took chuck strand with us. music started playing and he said "don't dance"
faux strangulation of me the time i came home after taking a walk and had visited the neighbor on meadowlane name peter webber . pete had given me a few beers and him and i and the other neighbor sat outside and talked on the patio in the backyard
he cannot witness me smile laugh feel good have any fun or he becomes upset angry irritated mad threatening mean horrible attacking vicious . he has said many times what are you so happy about or why are you laughing??? and gets pissed off at me to destroy my good feelings
we eat out anywhere and he looks around at people thinking they are staring at him when no one is paying any attention to us. he complains about how much it costs. we shop and he takes off on his own, goes thru the checkout and to the car without my knowledge then calls texts me gets pissed off throws a fit and says i am ready to go and/or i already went out to the car i couldnt find you what the fuck were you doing hiding in the store or bathroom somewhere??? we go for a walk and he is 25 to 50 feet in front of me walking fast telling me i walk too slow and rarely walks beside me or holds my hand or any normal behavior that other loving couples show when out together. we went to the zoo and he takes off away from me does the same rude things and gets pissed off when i talk to anyone.
psycho paranoid schizophrenic misogynist hypocrite prejudiced against blacks mexicans middle eastern people anyone who appears different from him in attire speech activities choices in music. narcissist. lacks ability to self reflect. does not foresee consequences of words and actions. fanatic over politics. fiercely defends lindell trump alex jones. writes these websites and political messages at cave spring park in the secluded area with picnic tables and shelter and on the park benches.
i made friends with a nice black lady at evangel church during a fourth of july free get together a couple of years ago. she wanted to pick me up take me to lees summit festival thing and he laid in bed while saying i dont want you to hang around her you will end up being like her. she was a devout christian and had a masters degree in religion theology. totally independent not married for many years and a wonderful seamstress making her own beautiful clothes.
he interferes with any person he knows that i know and talk to taking over the person and not wanting me to talk to them in his presence. if i tell him i talked to anyone he gets upset. he tells me that i dominate all conversatons and that is exactly what he does. he tells me to be quiet and "listen to this" the bullshit reports he listens to and the music he likes most of which i cannot stand.
i must dress to cover myself up which means not showing breast area or too much leg or rearend yet he hoards sex tapes somewhere in this house that i found in his vcr viewing all ethnic backgrounds of people performing any type of act. i do not watch porn and it does nothing for me. he says it makes it faster and easier for him to do his thing. i saw a stack of porn mags on the floor a few months ago when he had been digging through his locked file cabinet in his bedroom looking for tax papers.
i do not know what all he has hidden in the locked file cabinet or in the many cardboard boxes and containers stashed in the garage and in the sheds, under the house in the crawl space or any other hiding places he has made to store stuff for himself.
he is obsessed with the weather 24 hours a day 7 days a week. he frequently comments on the "crazy weather we are having abnormal and due to man's doins of jets rockets etcetera causing global warming"
he sits at his laptop in his recliner chair playing chess often while listening to conspiracy news stories and clicking on ads on craigslist and buying things on ebay and god knows where else.
Split opposite words actions polarized behavior personality he has
I dont know what its called but he will sometimes say i love you verbally. will write it down on greeting vards and rarely act like he loves me. He will pay for car insurance complain about costs of everything and sometimes refuse other times take money i give him. cost of living upsets him yet he is tight cheap in some areas extravagant in others. he yelled thru s fit demanding i give him 300 last year for rent house taxes then he spent almost 200 dollars at ollies for a new vacuum he picked out without me and bought himself new boots around 200 at chucks boots. then says they are too tight small and too late to teturn them.
Full of contradictions oppositions displays opposing behaviors and says 2 different things often. confusing. confused. roller coaster unpredicatable and predictable fixed behavior. erratic exposive at times other times appears valm and rational normal haha.
Bouncing off the walls or dead as a horse.
Sits with arms across his chest often. Avoids looking at my face when talking.
Texting appears courteous concerned nice. In person rude ciurt mean hateful threatening .
Difficult for me to know what to expect.
Changes his demeanor in presence of others
I have no idea how he acts when I am not with him. It is scary to think about how he may be when he goes out by himself.
Sunday, May 25, 2025
Coffee
Grandma Sarah made instant coffee in the motel room we stayed in. I was 4 years old.
Dad drank coffee from early in the morning before breakfast all day long until dinnertime.
Saturday, May 24, 2025
Lazy
sitting around watching tv videos that dont help you learn beneficial things
leaving piles of things around like dirty dishes laundry clothes
not putting things away in designated places
failing to clean filters for clothes dryer furnace air purifier water filter
unkempt yard trash piled up
dirty trash garbage cans
filthy floors not swept or vacuumed
disgusting stinky bathroom
not changing sheets linens regularly
Raynauds, hypothyroidism, lupus possibilites
have symptoms trying to figure out what it is and what i can do
be your own doctor physician heal thyself
all the tests ran blood and they cant figure out what it is
low blood pressure
fatigue
get cold easily
brain fog
dizziness
constipation
diarrhea
weight loss
arthritis
menorraghia heavy menstrual periods
miscarriages probably happened often due to massive clots i had
fingernails indentations, thin, peel, pitted, crack off, brittle, dull
deficiency b12 b vitamins, folate, low iron anemia,
Change decor. The scenery in the house and outside... I want to do.
and he is resistant to doing this. just does not see the point. does not give a f***kkk about inside of the house appearance. he is more concerned with the yard outside and that does not even look that good with overgrown trees all over
Same old crap picture above the fireplace for about 20 years...
just like hoarder john with same old picture of a woman laying on her back playing the saxophone.
the pic poster he hung on the wall is the cover of the 6 albums of pink floyd showing the backsides of 6 naked women called back catalogue. he bought it from the next door neighbor chris many years ago
1015 am he takes off leaves Saturday May 24, 2025 morning
says going to menards cat food
i said when did you start thinking about doing that?
oh for a few days now. i realized we were about out of cat food
i am trying to see and detect patterns of behavior
Ulterior motives. Transactional thinking.
He believes people that work at food pantry at the church have ulterior motives for giving out food. He does not believe they are doing it for nothing. He asked me "Why do they do that? What are they getting out of working there every week giving away food?"
One day a few months ago we were in the car in line to get out food and I asked one of the people, a woman, why they do it and she said "It is the spirit of giving that motivates them. Kindness."
He does not believe it. He can't understand why anyone would donate their time and not get paid money for doing it.
He believes that a physical tangible thing must instantly result from any activity a person performs for someone else. They are all after something. They are after your money. People at work anywhere are only being nice because they get money out of doing their job.
He can't enjoy most things or activities. He says whatever you do costs you money.
I have asked him many times to name one thing that is free and he has no answer to the question.
He often says these things:
You can't get something for nothing.
Who are you trying to impress?
What are you getting, what do you get out of that? (talking)
I can't understand, I can't imagine, I don't understand, I don't get it. I don't know why.
Men are simple, he said
Jay, a 26 year old male, told me this recently. He is open, frank, honest, direct. He will not tolerate disrespect by anyone. He defends himself and his woman, a 20 year old beautiful female woman.
When the conversation is going nowhere, it has ended, he doesn't want to hear anymore.
The cycle goes like this after that man decided he heard enough
"Be quiet. End of discussion. I don't want to hear anymore. It is over with. Quit talking. You don't need to go on and on talking about it. I dont want to hear it. Shut up. Shut the fuck up! Then I strangle you at this point when you won't shut up." He gets physical in some way such as strangling, punching, hitting, pushing, shoving you.
You're wearing a negigle/sexy nightie? That only means one thing. Why you wearing it then if you (dont want to do it)?
Men are easily stimulated. Easily provoked.
Why are you talking about it if you don't want it?
Why do you keep talking when conversation about subject is over in my mind?
He says his girlfriend is stupid because she uses emotions, is emotional and not logical rational like he is. She does not realize these guys she is "friends" with are simply after her "cat" just waiting for the opportunity to get inside her.
He works full time. He needs a vehicle.
He said when he pays most of the bills in the place, the apartment rented he expects her to do things like make sure the place is clean and the dishes are done before she leaves for work. She works 5 pm until 1 am. He is not paying for all of her expenses. She is not going to use all her money to buy stuff she wants. She will pay her way, pay at least half the bills.
He said, "This body is shit. Don't mean nothing. Your real body is spirit. You will live again in another body so I don't care about this one. I want unlimited funds. I say 'funds' because that covers all income. Money will be a thing of the past. People are using bitcoin and different ways to pay for and buy stuff."
He watches videos about lawn maintenance mowing. Likes to do that type of physical work. Wants his own mowers, truck, business that he runs by himself.
Thursday, May 22, 2025
Life at home
i am the mole in whack a mole game
dodge ball dodging danger
tsunami
eggshell city
i am doormat under boots, target of anger. scapegoat. toilet.
Use extreme caution with these things around him
words. appearance. tone of voice. facial expression. hair style appearance.
hats worn. coats jackets sweaters , shoes. boots. clothes clothing styles .
makeup. any kind lipstick eye shadow liner mascara rouge.
food seen smelled eaten.
perfume cologne
scent of any kind. aroma smell.
subjects talked about politics news sex
sounds vacuum music appliances blenders mixers any manual or electric
Taking on the personality of others
might be a common thing...
i just realized he takes on the personality of the. last person he talked to.
neighbor mark p called tonight. his voice became louder the same way mark talks then he came in the house said whats cookin good lookin in a similar jovial tone as mark. its not an expression he uses. it is one like mark would say.
Dirty
most things he does and says are dirty. plain and simple.
dirty filthy work. dirtying up the house tracking shit all over the floors. making lots of dirty dishes then telling me "it's no big deal"
filthy work on cars, lawn mowers, weed eaters, chainsaws. leaving garage door open so fumes come into the house.
digging up dirt in the yard piling it up.
loading junk up against the house especially north and east sides causing more bugs
hoarding dirty filthy porn in various places around here and consuming it probably in the morninng most of the time. i dont really know for sure
saying dirty things. talking trash about every person anywhere at home in the neighborhood, family, friends, associates, strangers
talking to me like i am a piece of trash, calling me stupid worthless idiot saying stuff like "use your brain !!" and "what's WRONG with you !???"
treating me like shit while acting fake phony nice to anyone else
consuming his mind with conspiracy news garbage and saying mainstream media is garbage
obsessed with political things and pushing his beliefs and agenda on anyone he can and most people resist it and all the ideas that go with it
Wednesday, May 21, 2025
Tuesday, May 20, 2025
Vintage gold bracelet sarah engraved chip diamond heart age 14 1975
boyfriend at the time gave this bracelet to me.
we were booth 14 in 9th grade . yeokum junior high school belton missouri. he was dan maddux born in may.
when i was 16 years old my jewelry box was stolen. this bracelet along with a few other pieces of jewelry were in it.
i was living in apartment in basement of building my mother lived in. she was upstairs 336 brooklyn kansas city missouri.
thieves also stole my 45 7" records in a round plastic spindle holder with fuzzy guy top
my first experience with theft of things helping me learn that jewelry is not top priority in my life
the bracelet was the only piece that was worth a little money. the rest was cheap costume stuff
Monday, May 19, 2025
My friend died. I cry He has this to say....
he says "so much for him who believes the mainstream media. i should have bought more cds from him when he was alive"
i said i never got to go with harlow for walks and he never came over for dinner and i invited him. we could have visited and gone shopping. i cried. it hurts me to know that single old man i got along with and didnt really get close to. he always called me and him on our birthday wishing us happy ones.
we could have gone to whataburger he talked about.
harlow was friendly always laughing and smiling. radio broadcasting college graduate. music collector hoarder lover. retired from social security office disability claims worker. fun loving footloose fancyfree independent.
First thrift store age 16 . me 1978
had never been to one was not aware of until 1978 summer. i lived at 7309 wabash kcmo with dad and stepmother dorothy marie wilson.
also had never attended a garage sale. my grandma thought it was trashy. i went from everything brand new living with grandparents to all old used stuff
hand. me downs. preowned other peoples stuff
Dave Vajdic hoarder sales junk 1990s 92 93 94ish
raytown missouri 350 hwy old grocery store first met there
had me advertise his baseball cards on radio station
nkc vivion road. rented another huge old building sold misc items hoarded piles of stuff
Betty Zumalt 1991 92 93 94
Betty Zumalt and the garage sales
met betty early 1990s. coffee with her in the kitchen. ongoing garage sales. smoking cigarettes. gemini lady. talker. little tiny delicate looking woman nice. friendly merchant. very clean house.
her son Gary into cars hot rods was living in house with her his mom
he was unmarried. had a woman come into his bedroom sometimes while i visited betty
served purpose then left
Sunday, May 18, 2025
Those who die with stuff
the most or any stuff
hoard accumulate collect gather greedy
when they die death attracts greedy. while alive living breathing greedy ones sue file lawsuits lie cheat steal kill sabotage threaten harm accuse abuse.
even a person who only has their own body is at risk of losing it to the jealous envious spiteful wicked ones. it is simply not safe to be alive.
living is a dangerous thing to do
family friends fight tooth and nail over material things and money
become enemies due to jealousy and greed
those who are not greedy are identified by actions words personality caring without expecting returns , empathetic, cries easily , wants others happy, ethical, patient, last, relaxed , calm. considerate
Saturday, May 17, 2025
Things that wont happen withhim
clarity. clear accurate communication. ease. peace. understanding. joy ful happy gatherings. pleasant meals. fair arguments. resolutions. solutions. sense.
Gullible person /people he desires
ones that are ignorant of anything except what he knows. plastic wood bubble puppets dolls programmable trainable, jump when told to and only speak what he wants when spoken to. the dollish robot will instantly obey all commands..in fact, the best little automatons will anticipate all he wants and do it even before he asks. they know things in advance. they are psychic mediums. this is so efficient that words, talking and communication /communicating are not necessary.
perfect little zombie wife friend neighbor stranger sister brother employee at any store or place of business
a single factor cannot determine entire whole for all
what i mean is, (typically the human logic /illogic emotional reasoning says)
that since one person wakes up early in the morning and is a successful business man or woman that "everyone who gets up early is successful"
or "in order to be successful you have to be an early riser (4, 5, 6 am )"
other examples of ridiculous single factor thinking:
all men/males or women/females are bad simply due to their sex genetic code
all people born on the same day or under the same astrological sign during a given 4 week period are all the same
blondes have more fun
any of these single factor things are positive for all people/anyone and any of these single things will make people like you and you will be accepted, successful and famous anywhere you go :
wearing certain clothes, attire, shoes or colors
saying certain words
you can sing, dance, read out loud
you have a "perfect' body
you have a "high" iq
all people with the same name, eg: david, are the same way (this is the thinking of a very young child. it is childish)
Friday, May 16, 2025
uses massive amounts of energy arguing erroneous beliefs
he will not listen . has rut set convictions. immediately says i dont believe it . says that wont last how long before it wears out. expends massive energy name calling. jealous jealousy comments about other people.
Lazy. Laziness.
Forms of being lazy are many and varied. There are the physical and the mental kinds of laziness.
In his mind he believes physical activity especially work requiring hard manual labor and body strength shows that he is not lazy. He does lots of physical body labor often.
I am very limited on my ability to lift objects even things over 5 to 10 pounds. I used to lug heavy things around like buckets, ladders, tool boxes, heavy things like boxes full of stuff, televisions, stereo equipment, sheets of 4x8 sheetrock and plywood, vacuuming with that old 20 lb pound vacuum cleaner he finally got rid of a few months ago and replaced it with another fairly large vacuum cleaner, etc but it is more and more difficult for me to maneuver these items.
My body is unable to lug this heavy stuff around like I used to so I must used my mind, my ingenuity in order to get things done.
My mind is anything but lazy. Constantly on the go and working. Wanting to find the best and easiest way to get things needed like food and do things that need to be done. Organizing, straightening, cleaning. Wanting to know why and how and what to do, when to do it and who, if anyone, to do things for or with.
His mind looks for ways to get out of doing basic stuff like food prep, meal planning, laundry, proper house cleaning or any other streamlined way of doing anything.
So he looks for any kind of fast food ready to eat, not taking much effort. Eat the food, leave dirty plates usually in the sink and immediately jump out out of the chair either at the table or the recliner and go do something else after he puts food away that needs refrigerated.
It is an eat and run attitude action.
His laziness of mind includes putting forth no effort to get along, have a normal happy relationship with me, doing any fun activities that may or may not require planning. He makes no effort to think carefully about what he is saying before he speaks his mind about me or anyone else.
Interesting that the things he hates to most are:
laziness, sloppiness, someone saying or doing anything without considering him and doing it his way, lateness, sliding on paying bills on time, criticism of any word or action of his, any comment contradictings anything he says or does,
items that stink and are smelly to him such as certain foods like coffee popcorn perfumes smoke from fires burning outside in yards, people not 'wanting to " pay him, stinginess, greed of others, stupid stupidity of anyone, know it all egotistical bragging braggarts,
Basically he hates lazy, stupid, thoughtless people. Inconsiderate, rude, sloppy who don't pay attention to him and the details he thinks about.
The onion on my sandwich yesterday
made myself a ham sandwich with sliced red onion, cheese, lettuce and miracle whip on 2 pieces of large bread toast
cooked 2 small red potatoes in microwave, added chopped green peppers and shredded cheese
decided to cut sandwich in half and put on a plate for him at his spot at the kitchen table which faces due west
so he sits down decides to eat as i figured he would (he usually looks at what i am eating and will eat even if he recently fixed himself food or ate some snacks junk food or fruit)
then he bites into the sandwich complaining that the onion is sliced too thick and i need to slice it thinner. then grumbles at me that "it's just laziness!"
i said "there is alot more sliced onion thinner in the container on the counter i just cut up. you want to get some of that and i will eat the onion that is thicker. i like it like that"
"no", he hatefully says, "I'll eat it"
while eating the sandwich and some of the potatoes i made he is looking repeateadly at the clock hanging above the fireplace in the kitchen.
he does not look at me. and i think i am looking okay dressed in pink tie in my side ponytail and pink summer dress. i do know i am looking fine later as i went out shopping and several people were very nice to me.
his nasty attitude while eating almost every meal is the same ; he begins eating and finds something he does not like and focuses on it instead of enjoying the meal and having a pleasant normal conversation looking at each others faces like most normal people do
his words are that he thinks i ought to fix every piece of food the way he likes it even when i fix it for myself
he thinks all things ought to be his way
next entry i will write about laziness, lazy thinking and acts
Thursday, May 15, 2025
Sex the Big Secret: Do anything but have it..society views
and it is like a big secret out in the open
paradox we humans are taught is to be alluring, attractive, healthy which naturally attracts the opposite sex
then if it is found out you had sex with anyone or if accused of doing it you are scrutinized, criticized, humiliated, in some countries killed murdered stoned to death
Wednesday, May 14, 2025
yesterday found out another friend died
harlow jundy dec 6 1948 to may 10 2025 date od death discovered
Tuesday, May 13, 2025
sick since saturday night may 10 2025. chest cold coughing wheezing low grade fever
weak, tired, coughing, wheezing
i have been sleeping alot. couldn't even go out yesterday to shop or anything. i did manage to take a shower, get dressed then finally ate breakfast 5 pm.
this morning tuesday i get up after 1030 am and he has his truck loaded with chansaws etc and decides to go to the park, cave springs, to go get wood. i had no knowledge of his plan yesterday or any other time.
this is the way i live. with him and people randomly doing what they do, stopping by and calling unexpectedly, not planning anything, not doing things i like to do
felt so bad last night hard to breathe i told him i am tired of pain, physical and emotional and maybe i will die before i get to see the doctor in july on 22nd to discuss surgery
i said the anethesiologist monitors breathing blood pressure medications, all of it, during surgery. if the did it while i am sick i would most likely have died
Spur of the moment, unplanned, spontaneous people around me
i find out at the last minute what is going on or what happened.
Reflective: me Unthoughtful: them
antonym of this and this is the way the people are in my life
The antonyms for "reflective" include:
Unthoughtful
1
Nonreflective
2
Ignorant
2
Frivolous
1
Thoughtless
1
These words convey the opposite meaning of being reflective or contemplative.
Monday, May 12, 2025
should should not come out of a mouth
his you should come out and say hi
to him ricky your son he came over to see you
said may 11 2025
he opened my door told me this did at least 3 times bothering me. i was not ready to come out. not feeling good. began coughing wheezing hard late last night after i got home from tony and williams house. i almost puked up my dinner. dont feel good. slight fever. tired just leave me alone.
he wouldnt do it. pestering me until i came out of my room into filthy garage where they were sitting out there talking 3 hours it ended up being
playing that shit music i hate. new age opera sounding this time no words no one singing. i went out talked about 10 minutes sd i have to leave i cant stand that music and dirty garage i dont feel good
i said you call me if you want to talk to and see me you dont call him
same old shit . he doesnt listen i have told him and many others same thing many times. none hear or take heed. its as if i never said a thing . they all run over here whenever they want often unannounced. its really to see mike not me. it is all about mike even on mothers day. any day. none of those people give one shit about anything i say or about me.
in this morning another one kirk is coming over having mike run him to bonner springs kansas looking at some old 1988 junk car truck for kirk.
anyway i said
from now on i say should
you are always saying to me " you should do this, not do this, say this think this, watch this , listen to this ,dress like this look at listen to this. "
i would love to live by myself. dont answer the door. if i am not feeling good busy or asleep then i do not have to answer to any door or phone or anything.
therefore i have privacy.i can sleep or work or finish anything i started . zero interruptions. at no time do i respond with rudeness because i did not have to answer door to bull shit
making a girl mean masculinaztion
masculine making of a female.
it can be done. i have seen evidence. progression of time in days weaks months years .
observed in time the infant girl treated roughly horribly eventually becomes manly as a form of survival self defense.
her soul learned her femininity made her the prey . she the dainty tasty tidbit delicate fancy cute pretty beauty learned to mutate into hardness become cold mean stern curt closed off like men are so she wont get hurt anymore
she turned into either solid muscle bone even flat chested or huge fat heavy overweight bag ball of flab to fend off predators
her face once beautiful changed morphed into wicked stressed furrowed brow eyebrows showing meannes...no smile ..frowning dominates. she has to fight all the time. that is not her true nature.
she was picked at. prodded. poked. agitated. shoved, hit, pushed, punched kicked fisted stabbed, slung tossed around .
she wasnt born mean. she was formed into a hateful being by hateful beings. people that are mean jealous vindictive. stingy greedy miserly miserable selfish toadrats.
i have witnessed this transformation process in many females i have known personally and in celebrities i do not know
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This is my house. I'll do as I darn please. A ceramic plaque quote on a plate that I have had for over 30 years. Explains me.