Thank you my friend, John, for explaining this thing about porn
and how butts are a real turn on. He was talking about thongs he
has seen and how they show the whole butt. I told him I have a
bikini thong and he nearly melted and collapsed on the floor, shaking.
At 74 years old he is.

He said a guy watches this stuff because maybe there are things
his woman/wife doesn't want to do and it fulfills his fantasies.
He still loves his wife even though he watches this stuff.
(Funny,, I don't watch porn and have felt totally unloved
and hated and unappreciated by men in my life who watch this stuff)

I told him my husband has instructed me I can't wear this thong
bikini out of the house.  He gets angry, upset, even violent
if I wear anything exposing my bottom. He has become angry
many many times when I go outside and he thinks anyone can
see my ass. If the neighbors see that, they will want it.
You will have every dog in the neighborhood chasing you.
Back in the summer of 2007 or 8 I came home
wearing cut off jean shorts after painting a house and he
blew up at me.. I didn't know why
because he said "You can see your butt cheeks hanging 
out of those shorts when you bend over". and the man who owned the house
who was a friend of Tom Tacy was begging me to marry him
standing out in the yard in front of his house.

 I didn't understand. I am still trying to figure this out.

And my whole life I was told that being smart with brains matters most
I have never been appreciated for having brains in my head.
Getting a job has always been a joke.
They don't care about brains in the head in the skull.
They only care about ass cheeks.
And how round they are.