Gary guys obsessed with beauty

 two mwen I know with the first name Gary..

one was a photographer i knew back in the 80s and 90s..he was always looking to get the perfect picture of a woman, an image he fantasized about and was obsessed with. I saw him one time in 1993 or 94 when I was talking to Dave Vajdic, the hoarder mess of a man who had buildings full of junk and he drank beer all day long living in the filthy mess he made. Neither Dave nor Gary had a woman in their life as both were undesirable money and material minded slothful fools.

Gary was insulting me by saying I didn't fit the picture of the woman he wanted to take picures of. She would have very long blonde hair and a different face and would be riding a horse just like Lady Godiva, the fantasy story from long ago. As far as I know Gary never found that perfect model subject to photograph and Dave never had a woman in his life. One time Dave told me that if I wasn't with Mike I would be with him. I said "I wouldn't be with you if you were the last man on earth. I'd rather be by myself."..... He was such a dirty pig with hair unshaven all over his face..long icky moustache and nasty hair on his head.

The other Gary I know is pretty old now. About 67. He is obsessed with a 28 year blonde girl young woman who lives in Russia. He says he talks with her over the internet and supposedly she is not after his money. I said "She is quite young and beautiful, her whole life ahead of her. Do you really believe she is interested and in love with you? She will probably want children and a family and it is doubtful you can provide that."  

He responds with "It's okay to dream isn't it?"

This Gary is a film movie freak obsessed with the media and says he has written books and produced films and the like. He loves hollywood and stars. The first time I met him was at a neighbors July 4 party and he was being very nice to me, staring at me as if he had fallen in "love". He was not attractive then, being overweight, fat and flabby and greasy looking face. Last time i saw him he had gained even more weight, fat belly and said he was working on his diet and exercise hoping to trim down that stomach and be healthier.