Monday, October 13, 2025

Went out with girlfriend and sister in law to a bar and didn't drink..1990 or so

 I drove my car a dark brown 1972 Plymouth Satellite, to a bar on 40 highway in Independence, Missouri..I think it was Flamingo lounge, now closed and has been for years.

None of us had any money. We ordered water. For a few hours we sat at a table and watched people get drunk.

What fun that was. Some of the most fun I have ever had. Watching to crowd, like at general admission at a KC Royals baseball game. 

Two married men were at the bar. They begged us all 3 to come to their house to talk and visit.

I was curious as to why married men would even want to be around 3 strange women much less ask them to come over to one of the men's house.

So I have learned much over the years about this type of behavior. Men desire change of partners often either male or female partners depending on their sexual preferences. Some men seek it out. They are friends with men who do similar things so they think alike. 

Some men never act out their sexual fantasies about having all these women either one at a time or multiple people in their sexcapades.

I was always wanting to know why my husband at the time viewed porn frequently and went to strip bars whenever he had the chance. As far as I know, he usually went to these nudie bars with another man, a male friend or a family member. It certainly made me think he was unfaithful and did not love me. He just used me for slavery acts, sex, maid, work, make money, pay bills, convenient companionship.





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